Who is the nice guy ? Do they have a pre-defined set of characteristics ? A man who murdered a shopkeeper and robbed all the money to pay for his mother’s medical bills ? A mother who had made untrue…
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Learn to give yourself unconditional love, and stop looking for love in the wrong places. Stop depending on others for love, and start loving yourself unconditionally. Most people confuse unconditional love with dependant love. Dependant love is to rely on…
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Getting a second date is a fair indicator of the success of the first date. Mutual attraction was likely established and you got to know your love interest a bit. Ideally, your second date should build on the first. The…
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A lot of guys refer to women as D.T’s or even C.T.’s. I prefer to refer to women as E.T’s; because at some point in every relationship a guy will look at his girlfriend and wonder when the aliens came…
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Men can be attracted to older women for good and bad reasons, like older men can be drawn to younger women.  In the case of a younger man, they may be drawn to an older woman because she may be perceived…
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Relationship with a cheater can work, even if infidelity isn’t something you can forgive easily. Apart from love, every good relationship is based on trust and communication. When your partner cheats, he or she is breaking your trust. And if…
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Even in mythology nice guys finished last!  Maybe you have heard the tale of Sisyphus.  In Greek mythology he was doomed to an eternal struggle.  Every single day he would push a boulder to the top of a hill.  Every…
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Despite what the numbers add up to, relationships between employee and employer will never be easy nor straightforward. You’re leaving yourself wide open to criticism on all sides and the very likely target of the workplace gossips. In particular, if…
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Through out life many different types of people come and go in one way or another. From these peopel we can learn a great deal. Sometimes the lessons we learn can be extremely painful and cause us to become cynical….
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That is a very complex question. But in my experience, where just yesterday I caught my boyfriend taking a shower with another women when I popped into his apt. out of the blue and unannounced, I have given this question…
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Every woman is different; not everyone has the same tastes in men but there are some universal laws of attraction that apply to every woman when she is considering embarking on a relationship with a man.  Some women value these…
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What is it that instantly attracts a man to a woman?  Many guys see a beautiful woman and there is just “something” about the way she holds herself that makes them instantly attracted.  But what about women being attracted to…
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Can A Turncoat Be Trusted? I think it truly depends. In the sad state of “affairs” today (no pun intended), there are some relationships in which the cheating that occurs is both pre-understood and pre-accepted. This is either because both…
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I have not had much experience with being cheated on, but my early twenties have taught me a few things. I was with a guy for three years and we had an apartment together and a near perfect relationship…or as…
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The things that many men DO NOT know about women is pretty vast; too many men are content to live within their own worldview and never really get to know and understand women.  This is really to their detriment.  Once…
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“I’m Milk, and I do a body good,”  Have you ever heard someone embarrass themselves with a horrible line like that?  Pick-up lines will simply not work most times.  It is much better to use opening lines which are much…
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How to win back a girl From a woman’s perspective, there is a chance were it doesn’t matter what you do you will not be able to win them back. Especially if they are stubborn and set in there ways….
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Honesty, Honesty Honesty. One of a few things may happen if we are all honest in a relationship.  You will figure out if your partner is compatible with you quicker, so you can move on, or not, either way.  And…
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Some people watch so many movies that they believe fairy tales are true (and p.s. – so do I.) I feel that every women dreams of a man that they saw in the movies. But sadly, fairy tales are far…
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Love is one of the absolute enigmas of the human condition. No one can ever claim to truly explain it, nor understand its wily ways, yet we all do it, we all need it, and we spend our life seeking…
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