We depend and thrive on other people’s views of us and being in a relationship with someone for a long time, can both raise your self esteem as well as discovering yourself through the other person’s eyes. Breaking off contact…
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“DEMYSTIFYING THE X-FACTOR: HOW MEN FALL IN LOVE WITH WOMEN” I find it hard to eat and can barely sleep. The time seems to go by so slowly. I feel feverish and not in control of my life anymore. Until…
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Do you still feel alone even when this person is near you? Do you fear for your safety in the presence of this individual? There can be many different reasons to decide when to end a relationship. Dealing with why a relationship has turned bitter…
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Jealousy, is a symptom that lurks deep in the recesses of emotional insecurity. I define jealousy as “an illusion, for what you want on the outside you can only get from the inside”.Starting a new relationship is making a conscious…
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Seduce – a verb meaning to lead astray; to entice; to persuade to engage in sexual relations. History is rife with tales of notorious seducers of women; Cassonova, Don Juan, Rhett Butler, Svengali dating all the way back to the…
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How can you find the right partner if you’re not sure what you’re looking for? The first step in your search must be to take a long, careful at yourself. Assess your personality, your likes and dislikes, your lifestyle and…
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Women around the world would be lining up to find out the secret of making a man fall in love. There are countless women across the globe who are absolutely dying to make the man of their dreams notice them,…
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The first bad break up I ever went through was last year. I met this guy by chance; I told him Cupid stuck him with one of his arrows, because three days after he met me he was saying “I…
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Crystal was my first love, she was the perfect blend of Halle Berry and girl next door. On our 6 month anniversary I wanted to do something special. I wanted to show her just how much I thought of her….
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A breakup is one of the most painful experiences. According to some scientists, the pain that comes with  break up is  actually slightly less than the pain that comes with death, and that is completely understandable. After all, a breakup…
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Most women’s magazines and primetime sitcoms would have you believe that men only need three things – food, sex and television. But to truly please your man, you need to address more than his primal and most basic needs. I…
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Some relationships are really hard to let go of. There are many reasons why we can’t let go but one of the largest is not having closure. To truly be able to let go you need to have this. Sometimes…
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Have you ever fantasized about doing a love spell to make someone who otherwise doesn’t even know you exist fall in love with you? Or to make an ex love you again? It really sounds great, doesn’t it? Do your…
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How does a man successfully flirt with women? It’s an art derived through the skills that come from the experience in failing, and sometimes again and again. There’s nothing like rejection to show you what not to do if you…
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True love from the start is infinite, infinitesimal, absolutely never ending, as in even the spiritual sense of life never ending. Some may think oh boy what a naive way to think, or what an idiot, who is this person?…
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Our relationships define our past, our present and our future. The people we get involved with become essential parts of our lives and wherever we go, what is for certain, is that we always carry them with us. Romantic relationships are…
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I have often thought about a true definition of love. Websters, has it’s own rendition of what it means, but it is too applicable for far too many people, love to me, is personalized. It is not a rule of…
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You may think you can’t get over your last relationship, but the truth is, you can. It takes time, patience, and the will to do so, but you can and will get over it. With time comes understanding, and with…
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Being heartbroken is one of the hardest things a person will ever go through. After a break-up a person may feel rage, sadness, loneliness and even depression but one must take certain steps to shorten the grieving process. Despite the…
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In olden days a glimpse of stocking, was looked upon asSomething shocking, now, heaven knows, anything goes.-From “Anything Goes,” by Cole Porter In 1930 the Motion Picture Producers and Distributors of America announced the adoption of the “Motion Picture Code,”…
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You’ve been through so many relationships. The ups the downs and then you meet who you think is Mr. Right. Then to your surprise he has a mean streak. Not just sporadically, but often. He not only says things that…
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If love between two people ends, then it was never love at all. Yes I really do believe this. Perhaps I am just a hopeless romantic as they say but I do believe that there is one person for each…
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Insecurity in a relationship is only natural. It is almost inbuilt in human nature for a person to feel that there will always be someone better than them. How else would we strive to improve ourselves? Thinking that your boyfriend…
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