A divorce can have various effects on children.  In some cases the children are much happier than when the parents were together as they are not living with the continual bickering & fighting amongst the 2 parents, but then in…
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Divorce can be difficult on kids, but living with unhappy parents is usually worse. Nonetheless, the aftermath of a divorce can be difficult to a child, and it’s important to put their interests first. More specifically, some relationships can end…
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Just like many children, the image of mom and dad were my heroes. Being a child so young and vulnerable, mom and dad together showed the value of ultimate love. At the tender age of five, mom and dad where…
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Breakups and divorces can be absolutely devastating-especially if there are children involved.  It can be quite easy to pit one’s children against the ex, be them the mother or father.  Try and resist the temptation to use your children as…
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Children have the inept ability to see and say things as they are. They are extremely good judges of character, openly honest and wiser than many adults. I am divorced (twice) and have three children that love to educate me…
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In the aftermath of my husband’s departure, I needed many things, some replaceable and some will never be found again. Determined to fix what was broken in our home I headed to the store and stood in the hardware aisle…
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I guess every one has a story to tell. God knows I do. It’s an immense task to think about accurately portraying the emotion and the things I have gone though and to make someone understand and take them on…
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In the United States and Europe it has been estimated that nearly half of the couple that marry will prematurely end their relationship through divorce.There have been many theories presented over time as to why divorce occurs and why these…
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Divorce is nasty but it doesn’t have to be. You need to remember it hurtsthe kids more then you. Kids don’t understand why this is happening.Most of the time they blame themselves. You need to sit down with them andtry…
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Anytime a couple separates, it’s a difficult and  very trying time. But when those individuals are more than in a relationship and instead are married, things become hell. When you add a child into the mix, court proceedings and separations…
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The break up of a family is difficult for everyone involved.  Roles shift and are redefined. Often one parent is left with the bulk of the child rearing responsibility plus the stress of a full time job.  It’s understandable that the older…
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Among industrialized countries, the US has the highest number of single parent households.  25.8% of children in the United States are being raised by single parents, compared to 14.9 % in other countries. The figures become even more alarming when…
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To be fair about this in high regards to human life, no.  Quite frankly the children did not ask to be here, after all that is what is the most important factor here. Before siding one parent against another, by…
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Good day all who had a father.  My dad never gave me a $50,000 car.  He never bought me a house.  When I wanted to have a brand new suit, and I did occasionally, he never took me to the…
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Divorce is clearly not a good thing. But staying together for the sake of the children is sometimes is worse than divorce. Not seeing both parents could sometimes be better for children than seeing them together, but constantly fighting (verbally…
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I am still a child of divorced parents. Everyday I wish that somehow they could get back together and we pick up where we all left off on that gloomy, melancholy day in 2004.  I know it will never happen though;…
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Legally, only a person 18 years and older can freely choose where they live and with whom they live. Children under the age of 18 must reside with the parent who gains custody through the court. Visitation with the other…
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Parenting is difficult in any situation, but add in divorce, and you have a whole new ballgame.  You have two parents who, in many cases, can barely stand each other, and a child or children that belong to both of…
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There are many reasons why people go through matrimonial agencies. Because a matrimonial agency provides matchmaking services that will help folks find a spouse, they can offer hope to many lonely souls. Many people choose to get assistance when they…
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The art of seduction has eluded men for centuries. Some men seem to come by seduction skills instinctively, charming their wife without effort or thought, while others struggle with the process. If your wife feels precious to you, she will…
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Of marriage: the formal union of a man and a woman, typically as recognized by law, by which they become husband and wife (Concise Oxford English Dictionary). Wedding ceremonies and the traditions attached to them vary across the world. In…
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According to the American Federation of Matrimonial Lawyers, the biggest divorce trigger is communication, and/or the lack thereof. And communication is such a “broad” term, that it’s difficult to even try and explain not only what the word itself means,…
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Do you recall what first attracted you to your spouse? Was it his sense of humor or her love of the outdoors? Maybe you admired your future wife because she was so independent and smart. Perhaps you knew you couldn’t…
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Man is a being with a heart. The heart wants to feel loved, cherished, and important. This is the nature of the heart. Marriage involves the union of a man and a woman, two beings with hearts. It is very…
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Remembering the spouse you chose in the first place can often seem like a difficult task when changes start to come into play. We all grow and change in relationships. This sometimes makes it easy for us to lose sight…
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How does a marital garden thrive?  Just like a lush and thriving vegetable garden, a marriage requires nurturing.  The steps are surprisingly similar.  A garden needs to have nutrient rich soil and access to sun and rain.  A marriage also…
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