Do male attitudes contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism? The answer is absolutely not. Being gay or not for most lesbians is not a choice. Scientific research has shown that most lesbians and gay men fall somewhere on…
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There are many reasons that the male attitudes would cause a woman to turn to lesbianism. First and foremost would be those women who have been victimized as children by a pedophile. Not that this would cause a woman to change to…
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A man’s attitude has little to do with the reasons women become lesbians. First of all, most women do not choose to be gay. They are simply born that way. Most people with so called, high religious morals, refuse to…
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I have been married ten years. I have been emotionally detached for 10 years. I have spent most of those ten years believing that this was just the way life is. I never once entertained the thought of being with…
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Game players and issues, emotional imbalance is this a trait of most lesbians?Or just an illusion we bring on ourselves? Like many people in the world today it is easier to make a sweeping generalisation and tarnish everyone with the…
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You didn’t have to attend the Miss Manners School of Etiquette to have gleaned some common sense rules about how to behave while dating. Social skills are of the utmost importance if you wish to be perceived as a person…
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When people think of sperm donations, they associate women going to a sperm bank to conceive a child. There is nothing wrong with this method, but lesbian couples have other options if thy want a child. For instance, society is…
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Boredom & In-laws Sometimes a barren sex life is not the issue. There are many things that can endanger the quality of your relationship. Boredom, conflicts with In-laws, and finances are among the most common. BOREDOM:When boredom strikes, the solution…
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More and more, lesbians are caught in the quagmire of Internet dating, simply because it’s easier to find other gay people that way. But if you do the math, you’ll understand why. Our society is still hetero-dominate, and that means…
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To blame ones sexual orientation on the behavior of men is absurd; to say the least. Blaming others for our choices in life is nothing less than cowardly and shouldn’t be considered or adhered to. Most of societies issues today…
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Insecurity. The word, the very thought, and the haunting emotion are all components of one central idea to which the vast majority of us conform. Arguably the defining motive for behavior, a catalyst for creation and destruction, insecurity and all…
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There are certain essential elements in any relationship, regardless of whether that relationship is heterosexual or homosexual. Factors such as trust and honesty, faithfullness and sincerety, make up the foundation of every successful partnership. But still, a lesbian relationship is…
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May be to you the reader, the title is weird. Why would a lesbian woman want to marry a man. “Then she is not a lesbian” you would say. She is just a normal woman who wants a normal relationship…
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To be quite honest, I don’t feel the workplace is where you discuss your sexual orientation of any kind, except on the application to say if you are male or female, and only if it asks even then. If you…
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Lesbian Bed Death: What’s it All About? Many lesbians say that their relationships end due to “Lesbian Bed Death”- the lack of sex in the relationship. I contend that Lesbian Bed Death is not the cause, but rather the symptom;…
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Being transgendered is not a path I would recommend to just anyone. It is by far one of the hardest ways to live, even if you’re just trying to be yourself and do not fit in with the norms of…
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To the outside observe lesbians are often categorized as either feminine (femme) or masculine (butch.) Most lesbians have been asked at one point or another if they’re the femme or the butch in their relationship, or the variation question of…
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In standard dating, meaning, in person, and not in the preliminary meeting stages online, there are often a different set of red flags and deal breakers. These are usually connected to the dynamic that is created through several interactions. Swift…
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As I prepare to write on this topic I remember the testimony of Fola (not her real name) She grew up with her maternal aunt having lost her own parents when she was just five. Her aunt’s husband, the only…
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The advise I offer here is based upon my own hard-won understanding, and the counsel of other lesbians who have also been privy to the lessons that relationships teach us. Many of the same rules apply to nurturing a long-term…
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While transgender individuals are a part of the LGBT community, the manner in which they are treated by society as a whole has been pointed out as being significantly skewed in regards to the number of legal issues they often…
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Intolerance towards people that are considered to be different is common in the world we live in and, although this is unfortunate, it can be a fact of life for many. It can certainly be true for the transgender population…
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The United Nations define “gender”  as comprising the widely held beliefs, expectations, customs and practices that define ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’ attributes, behaviours, roles and responsibilities within different societies. The World Health Organisation says gender refers to the socially constructed roles, behaviour,…
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The process of going from living as one gender to living as another is a very strenuous process for most people. There is no wrong or right way to tell your parents and/or guardians that you are transitioning from one…
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To answer this question I am going to look at not just what a tranvestite is, but also gender dysphoria, transsexuals and the umbrella definition of transgenders. I shall often refer to the Wiktionary but also to examples from my…
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When I first moved down to Adelaide, as many of you now know, I worked for a group of Orthopaedic surgeons. We shared our building with a gynaecologist, who had his office on the floor above us. His name was…
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