Fear of intimacy or closeness, saying, ‘I love you’, even sexuality can stem from a host of emotional/psychological problems that can go all the way back to childhood.  Psychological, physical and sexual abuse in childhood and adulthood can make a…
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So it seems that the ancient notion about soul mates is still the basis of an endless debate for centuries. The endless debate will not stop unless it’s proven otherwise.  With that thought in mind, the writer would like to express her views and…
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Atheism is not a philosophy, religion, or political view. The only meaning of atheism is that it is the belief that there is no monotheistic or polytheistic entity or entities that govern the universe. That being said, it is perfectly…
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With so many people out there and so much creative dating going on, it’s important to feel good about yourself. This is easier said than done, right? What about all those out there who simply don’t feel “up to par”…
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Soul mate!  Two little words, yet they comprise a lot of meanings. Who is a soul mate? What is a soul mate? How do you figure out when someone is your soul mate? The innumerable questions revolving around the little…
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Unless you are a particularly religious person, the secret to enjoying Christmas as a single person is to regard Christmas the same as any other day: it is your responsibility to make it as good as you can. With a…
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The biggest barrier that one can face when looking for a soul mate is that of low self-confidence. Chronic shyness and the ability to ‘trust’ are also barriers that one must be able to overcome. Indeed, if someone has been badly hurt at some…
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Long distance relationships are rarely ideal, but for one reason or another, they are often necessary if you are to keep the relationship going. One reason they can fail, however, is if you can’t keep your jealousy in check. Fortunately,…
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Christmas alone, for someone who enjoys their own company, can be an enjoyable experience. For someone who doesn’t enjoy their own company, or who does sometimes, but not always, it can be a harder experience. It is however an wonderful…
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There are common and longstanding misconceptions that nice guys either always finish last, or never get the girl. Those statements couldn’t be farther from the truth. What may be a more accurate statement is that “the nice guy never gets…
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Spending Christmas alone can be rather depressing, however some people have no option but to spend this time alone as they may be divorced, working away from home or have no friends or immediate family to spend the day with….
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Did you ever wonder what messages your body sends to potential lovers? How about your partner? In all intimate relationships, the body has a language which is read and noted. The problem is that people don’t realise the power of…
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Dating in this day and age can be difficult and confusing. As a woman, it’s sometimes hard to understand what men really want. Even more difficult is the ability to just relax and trust, not only what a man tells…
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Human beings are mammals. They talk with verbal and written language, but as mammals they also talk with the full body. A closed and disinterested person will have folded arms and legs. This also reveals defensiveness too, so when a…
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Men are like a complicated puzzle that’s missing a few pieces. However, men can always be decoded to a certain degree. With this guide any woman can pick up subtle clues from a man’s body language to see if he…
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Sometimes the most powerful communication isn’t heard with our ears, but is seen with our eyes. And your date’s body language may be speaking so loudly that it’s deafening. However, if you’re having trouble deciphering his actions, here’s a translation…
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Before asking what attracts men to a woman, most women should ask themselves what qualities they want in the men she attracts. Women go through great lengths preparing themselves to be physically attractive, only to complain when men don’t take…
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Jealousy is definitely a sign of love. One has to look at it like this. If their partner did not feel any jealousy at all, then one could be forgiven that they are not loved, or indeed, cared about. Within…
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Older women hold a certain mysterious and sexy appeal for younger men, especially if the older woman in question is physically fit and attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and an older woman who carries herself with…
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The fear of intimacy can almost always be traced back to previous heartache in the individual’s past. When you have been hurt by someone it is natural to become a bit more guarded in future relationships. Being hurt several times…
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To deal with jealousy in a long distance relationship there are many things that a person is able to do to avoid that jealousy overtaking or controlling the relationship. While there are many ways to work through jealousy it does…
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Girls used to pick daisies and pick off petals one by one. The first petal pulled indicated “He loves me!” The next petal pulled off the daisy indicated “He loves me not”. The last petal would tell her future with…
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Women are known as the more social sex and so men have a more arduous task on their hands when it comes to discovering whether a woman is attracted to them or they just want a platonic relationship. So how…
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