Being in a relationship can be a wonderful thing, it can leave you with a feeling of love, solidarity and contentment. But sometimes relationships can go drastically wrong and turn toxic, leaving one or both parties devastated in its wake….
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How do you know when you relationship has changed status from casual to serious? It doesn’t matter if you have been on two dates or have been dating for a year. Some relationships stay stagnant and never really become serious…
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Dating can be a wonderful step in life if it is done right.  There are many different styles of dating and many different aged groups that date.  Some styles could be considered old fashioned, while others could be considered the…
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Power and control characteristics occurring during dating gain momentum in the following categories: psychological and emotional abuse, verbal abuse; destruction of personal property, threats, jealousy, isolation and possessiveness and restriction of freedoms; abuse of male “privilege”, sexual abuse and physical…
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I am convinced that when we look deeply into the eyes of another person what we see is our own reflection staring back at us. In The Age of Self is this really such an absurd concept? The greatest thing…
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Knowing if someone likes you romantically is not always easy. Some people send mixed signals, while some others tend to easily misinterpret signals sent to the.  That leads to several misunderstandings that can put you and others  in a very…
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In today’s world when so many people are looking for jobs, buying homes and going on dates the first impression is solid. The reality is that even the least judgmental person sizes up others within the first fifteen minutes. How…
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Sure hes sweet and charismatic and maybe even REALLY handsome, but is your dream man really marriage material? If you happen to look at the marriage statistics you will notice that 50%, thats half of all marriages end up in…
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I have always felt that relationships would be better if they started off as friends first. It would be a good foundation to start with because they already like each other for who they are. They know each other’s likes…
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Of all the complexities in the world, the female psyche may well be the most difficult to understand. In fact I don’t think a complete understanding can ever be achieved. If you’re lucky, a basic idea is the best you…
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Try avoiding all the men I had experience dating in the past at all cost and you will be just fine. On the serious side, staying away from a man who shows you that he is running the show and…
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Why is a good black man so hard to find? Now this is a topic that almost every black woman in America would chime in on if given the chance. Unfortunately, the response is usually followed up with a “Because…
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Boston is a fantastic place to live whether you are single or not. What makes Boston particularly attractive for the single person is best summed up in one word, diversity! Boston is a melting pot of all things and people,…
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Sweet Things: Those Little Things Women Love, But Can’t Explain To Men WhyGuys: Do you want to do the things that remind her, and you, of how you felt about each other when things were new? Do you want to…
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Why do people cheat? Everyone who has been on the other side of this heartbreaking act has asked themselves this very same question over and over again. Over the years people have tried so hard to get in the heads…
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*Relationships can be of many natures but this article will focus on couples.* Being part of a long distance relationship is not all bad, even if you do go several days – even weeks – at a stretch without seeing…
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When dealing with relationships, men and women often play games of “emotional chess”. The goal isn’t to make some as happy as you can make them. The goal is to push their buttons as far as they let you push….
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Looking at my present state of being single and child-free, I have to say that was a huge blessing that was bestowed upon me. By being single and child free, I have seen all the burdens that I myself would…
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Insecurity creates animosity in a relationship and once accumulated it can lead to fights and conflicts that can eventually destroy the heart of a relationship.  Insecurity is a number one killer for your relationships.  Insecurity is detrimental for your relationships…
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