We’ve all seen the romantic scenes in the movies, like Big Fish, where love at first sight makes time stand still. Love, described as a warm affection for another, is often associated with nervous feelings of butterflies fluttering, red roses…
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Falling in love, is it a positive thing? The literal meaning of the word fall implies vulnerability and a process that is involuntary. What it does not imply is a feeling that is long-term or permanent. Falling in love is…
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Plato’s character, Aristophanes, had a theory that people originally had two faces, four arms, and four legs. Zeus saw how powerful they were, and in fear, and in order to humble them, he split them so each person only had…
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As a child, my friends would fantasize about their dream weddings, and even as a young adult they would paint their future similar to most others: Get married, have kids, grow old. They would discuss what kind of parents they…
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Is love really worth it? What a question! Unfortunately, I understand where it comes from. Anytime you love someone it involves trusting that person with those feelings. Sooner or later, and usually more than less, someone is going to step…
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I used to believed that all men were emotionally unavailable, but the truth may be that we women tend to be too needy. It seems that we can actually create an emotionally unavailable man by making these mistakes. 1. Fairy…
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Romantic relationships are some of the most special ones in the world when they’re successful. When they fail over time, they can be the most painful. The goal for most of us, then, is to avoid the failures and engage…
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I’d seen her in a million dreams. Every time I’d close my eyes there she was, but now here she was standing next to me. She was the one that I could talk to almost whenever I wanted. The only…
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If you ask a man what makes him feel good, you may get a simple answer like, “Mom’s apple pie or the comforting smell of cinnamon”. The expression: The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach does have…
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OK, so let me state my opinion clearly, you don’t have to agree with me. It may not be the best idea to hook up with your ex. You need to remember that they are an ex for a reason….
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In this post 911 world of Twitter, Facebook, and Bloggers, and online dating it’s hard to deny that the world is becoming increasingly smaller.   These technologies have embraced  and validated the six degrees of separation.   Two years ago,…
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I wanted to call this article “Dating over 40 – Wrinkles and Wobbly Bits”. As I’ve gotten older my ideas about love, relationships and dating have changed, evolved, if you will, into a plethora of mixed beliefs and misguided fantasies….
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Feeling lost between 2 people, are both lonely and dangerous.Confusion sets in and you loose any kind of reality that is supposed to be second nature to you. Your mind is oblivious to any kind of right or wrong and…
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Why do women attempt to make men jealous? When I think about this question, I have to make it personal to be able to answer it. Thus it becomes, why do I attempt to make any man in my life…
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The value of love- is love really worth it? Last weekend, my lover and I attended a movie and were slowly walking up the darkened isle toward the exit doors. It was pitch black and I could barely see in…
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I feel empty today. My motivation to do anything including my usual compulsion to write is not there. There is a reason for my sudden, apathetic state of mind my father’s words. As you might, or might not, be aware,…
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It is a fine line between love and fear, yet the two are so far apart from one another. When you love someone you give all of yourself to that other person. As though surrendering all of yourself and what…
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What can ever compare to a good high school romance? There have been countless movies, books, plays, and songs written about young love. Who ever really forgets their first love? The electricity of a first kiss, the excitement of planning…
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I do not believe in the standard idea of what true love may be, or that it even exists. There may have been a time when I could have believed in it, but most young women are often trained somehow…
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Single dads will always be able to date like there’s no tomorrow but if you are a single mom with more than one child under the age of 6 you might as well hang it up now. Stop spending your…
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When an older gentleman steps out, so to speak, with a lady of his choosing he must be mindful of the hazards associated with the neighborhood and/or the chosen destination of where they expect to have a wonderful time together….
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Do soul mates really exist? Well, do you have a soul and a void that you feel can only be filled by another you think understands you? Simply put, YES. We all want that on some level. Keeps the ego…
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