Nice guys always finish last, if they get to finish at all. One of the most maddening things for a guy is to be constantly labeled, “a nice guy,” because of the many connotations it enburdens the guy with. There’s…
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Many people who are seeking dates are limited by their fears of a lot of things in their life which they cannot affect, but are vainly trying to control. A naked fear of failure, of difference, of love, of hurt,…
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There is no question that being a single parent is difficult. In some cases there is no other person involved, no divorced father or mother. A second parent may be dead or otherwise out of the picture. The simple reality…
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 When you are about to move in with your guy, the last thing you are thinking, is clearly! But if you take your head out of the clouds and ask yourself some serious questions, like do I know all the…
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There’s only one way for a guy to become bitter and that is if he thinks he has been victimized by some girl. If you have placed yourself in the position of victim, you’re already in big trouble. Now sometimes…
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Incompatibility in couples really boils down to one key issue, the lack of shared values. When situations arise that call for communication and compromise, if two people have completely divergent sets of values there will be trouble ahead. Many people…
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Various reasons exist for the perception that nice guys finish last, but two situations seem to occur more than any of the others. The first is the woman falls for a bad guy in disguise. That means that he tricks…
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Nice guys can have it rough, to be sure. The reality often is that the “bad boy” garners the most attention from women. There is something exciting and seductive to the flashier, on-the-edge, devil-may-care lifestyle that appeals, especially to younger…
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The reasons people have for choosing a partner for life can be as consistent as snowflakes. For some, “marriage potential” might mean having a great affinity for sky-diving, or really getting into heavy-metal. Others may require their partner to love…
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Distance is what we want it to be. We can consider the other side of the world to be long-distance or the other side of the city. It is largely up to us how far away we need to be…
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College love affairs are often some of life’s sweetest while those collegiate years are in progress, but when those years come to a close, they can be some of the most challenging, sometimes even heart-breaking. These years are prime ones…
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Although more and more people in modern society indicate an openness to dating outside of their race, many still consciously or subconsciously prefer either to date only individuals from their racial background or individuals from specific racial backgrounds while excluding…
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With such a title, one would most certainly expect that the singles would be the ones to relish the opportunity to defend their status to the coupled-up twosome world where good things come in pairs. Well, allow me, a wife…
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You drive up to the house for that first date. After parking the car at the curb, you check the time. Good, you’re right on time. One last quick check of your clothes, breath and hair, the car door is…
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At one point I seriously believed that dating was about two people pushing each other’s limits and deciding if their relationship could stand the test of time. I never had the chance to test that theory,all of my dating experiences…
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If you live near family and you enjoy being with your family, especially during the holidays, then you may not need any singles activities during the holidays. It is only when family is far away and you are not going…
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I’m sitting at the bar chatting with my two best girlfriends while sipping on somewhat weak but expensive alcoholic beverages. We are engaged in a friendly debate on the kind of men we’d like to date and marvel at the…
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When I realized how old he was, at the end of our first date, I was startled. Not just because of our age difference, which at twelve years is quite a gap, but because of my reaction to the news….
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Most people know that it is important for couples to have a date night in order toto keep their relationship strong.  Sometimes, however, it’s necessary for that date night to be spent at home.  It may be because of a lack…
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Chili with a Side Order of Insecurity? In the daily rat race of life, we all strive to be the first to the Great Gouda finish line. Along the way, we all will inevitably encounter obstacles to our success. I’m…
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Human instinct is a wonderful trait, a natural, presentiment of something positive or negative occurring, of which we yet have little or no knowledge. Coupling it with suspicion, leads to curiosity and the desire to seek the truth. Most of…
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Although dating can be a difficult feat for many people, those who are confident in themselves definitely have an advantage. However, being shy does not have to be a flaw. If you can find the courage to step out of…
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My Husband is Having an Affair!     .     . When you discover that your husband is having an affair, it can be the most painful, gut wrenching shock imaginable. Feelings of betrayal, sadness, rejection, anger, helplessness – these and many other…
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