Marriage and Divorce

Coping with an affair requires answers, or perhaps, a particular answer, “why?” Whether you decide to stay or leave, sooner or later, you will have to cope with an affair. But contention is an ambiguous endeavor. An old saying claims,…
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Statistics state, that one of the the most frequent causes of divorce, are financial constraints. Not having enough money, to do the things you want. Not having enough money, to take that well deserved vacation. Spending more, then we have….
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Let us count the REALISTIC reasons why so many marriages end in divorce, without all the mumbo jumbo on how sad it is. It IS sad, but we have to face what the real truth is. The fact remains that…
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In this technical age, cheaters find themselves presented with a plethora of hi tech-cheating tools to aid deception and minimise the chances of detection. The Internet and the mobile phone have presented many more opportunities to cheat, granting 24-hour access…
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In the U.S. we have recently heard that married couples comprise less than 50% of all households and that 50% of marriages end in divorce. I believe this is occurring for many reasons, some more significant than others. First, divorce…
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Marriage is easy to get into, and twice as easy to get out of. There are so many factors that have played into this, and I can only begin to touch on a few of them… otherwise you would be…
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So you think your spouse is having an online affair? The first question item to rule out is whether the source of these concerns is due to jealousy or some external factor you are just unable to reconcile. Keep in…
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Whether its an affair of the mind or an affair in the flesh, an affair is an affair. So why would someone risk everything for an affair? Usually there is an underlying cause and rarely does it have to do…
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Divorce is one of the most stressful events in an adult’s life. For most people, divorce is a time of sadness and regret. In the midst of this emotional turmoil, many practical changes must also be dealt with. Daily life…
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Forgiving a cheating partner is no easy task but it is possible. Forgiveness is an individual choice and a difficult choice to make. To forgive is a generous act of human kindness made with the realization that no person is…
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Suspect your spouse is cheating on you online? Here are some signs to spot a double-crosser in your midst. 1) He spends every free moment at the computer. Does he run through the door and head right to the computer…
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This article is the third is a series of 15. The focus of this article is on the five stages of divorce. These stages were defined by the author as a way to show that a divorce does not just…
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Empty bed is not a syndrome – it’s a statement of fact – I sleep alone., if you don’t count my 5 year-old. I thought I’d be used to it by now, but alas, I’m not. “Honey, move over.” “Uh,…
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When a marriage goes sour, it’s not uncommon to consider the option of divorce. Sometimes it seems easier than the effort involved with trying to salvage a relationship that’s left you worn out. Even so, it’s good to know what…
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What marriage advice can a divorce person possibly give? It would seem divorcees would have very little advice to hand out, since we have failed at our own marriages. However, we often learn more about ourselves in retrospect then we…
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Chances are, if you think your spouse is cheating… He or she probably is. That being said, it’s never fun to just sit and wonder. So, how can you be proactive and try to find out for SURE if your…
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Divorce has so many causes, and each case seems so different, that it’s hard to give ONE most frequent cause. But, having recently divorced after 23 years of marriage, I can definitely say that I know some of the main…
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Divorce, after all, is a death. It is the death of a marriage. The emotional stages of that death are the same for the end of a marriage as it is for the end of a life because it is…
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Divorce happens by example. A teenager watches his parents fighting night after night, his Mom screaming insults, his Dad glaring but silent, like a caged lion, until the rage bursts out and the neighbors wonder what’s going on. “I’ll never…
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Are marriage of 27 years was in deep trouble, and it didn’t happen over night. My husband and I feel madly in love years ago. We got married and had two wonderful sons. We were a very close and loving…
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Making the decision about divorce is one that should be made at the marriage altar during the exchange of vows. It should be a heart-felt decision that divorce won’t be the legacy of the marriage or the aftermath given to…
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“Better living through DIVORCE!” This one line got me through the darkest parts of my divorce. I was a young man serving in the Navy on my second deployment to the far side of the world. One month short of…
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The divorce rate is over 50%. That is astounding. Unfortunately I happen to be in the percentile. It all boiled down to one thing “Respect”, or should I say the lack thereof. The times have changed. We have more conveniences…
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Divorce can bring out the worst in people. It really doesn’t matter which one of you wants the divorce, the main factor that determines whether divorce is the best solution is – why the divorce? Honesty is the best policy,…
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Please note, that this is written from a man’s perspective. However, there are plenty of women who find themselves in this situation as well and so what I have written here is just as applicable to them as it is…
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It’s been said that the experience of divorce creates the same stress as grieving a death. Even if you want the divorce, you must grieve for the loss of your dreams and the promise that wasn’t kept. When you face…
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Why do we get divorced; it has been said that over half of all marriages will end in divorce, and the statistics for the first few years, yeah it takes a prayer to even remotely consider getting past it. We’ve…
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People get married without ever realizing what marriage is all about. They live under the delusion that marriage is a happy go lucky gift that will bring you total joy and fulfillment no matter what, plus lots of extra curricular…
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The decision to divorce is not to be taken lightly. Those of us who have traversed that treacherous path can attest to the fact that there really is no winner or loser in this process. Unfortunately, some will still try,…
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Every marriage is different, because we are all unique people therefore, I cannot say why each specific marriage fails, but I will say what I believe to be a growing problem is. I think we as a society have developed…
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