Marriage and Divorce

With the advent of the internet, what is considered “cheating” has expanded in many people’s minds to include far more than it did at any other time in human history. But the question you should ask yourself is… is a…
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It is natural for a relationship with a spouse or partner to go through ups and downs. There are times when couples will be closer and times when they will be more distant depending on what else is happening around…
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Pornography, one simple word, yet it stirs in me a multitude of feelings, none of which are desirable. I understand that men and women view pornography from 2 totally different perspectives. I also understand that men are “men”, but that…
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Whether or not affairs are worth it depends on the person who is maybe entering into the affair, their lifestyle, who they already have in their life, and what they are seeking out of the present and the future. In…
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One of the most difficult realities to happen in a relationship is when one spouse is cheating.  It is a very delicate matter to deal with,  since to discover a hidden  mistake involves  puzzles  that are spiced up  with pride, selfishness and…
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I would personally consider chatting on line to be a form of cheating. Not an adulterous affair but the first step towards one. If someone feels the need to seek out female or male companionship outside the marriage by meeting…
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Dealing With the Pain of Infidelity There are things you never see coming. If one of those things is the infidelity of your spouse, you know that the shellshock eventually gives way to a heart rendering pain. A pain that…
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This is a very difficult question, not least because you might not even realise you’re having an emotional affair until it’s too late. You know that colleague at work,  the one you’re really close to? The one who touches you…
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Many people have affairs for many reasons. Out of these people who have affairs most can go without their spouse ever knowing and some just tell their spouses. But what if something happens and there is no way to keep…
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There are a thousand and one ways to catch your Spouse cheating.  More importantly, what are you prepared to do if you do catch your Spouse cheating?  I am blessed to have a Spouse that doesn’t cheat on me, but…
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I’m sure at one time or another you have heard someone say or perhaps you have said yourself, that if your mate would cheat that there would be no second chances. The marriage would be over. I was faced with…
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Before you decide you want to regain the trust in your relationship, you should ask yourself why you cheated. In retrospect, there is no way you are ever going to be fully trusted again. Your wife or husband is always…
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When you have fallen in love with a married man, there are things beyond the fun and excitement that are happening and you do not have a clue. If you have wandered into this page thinking, perhaps you would find…
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The sure fire way to destroy a relationship is by cheating on your partner so if that’s what your after then cheating may be worth it to you.  That is if you are a selfish, inconsiderate, and cowardly person.  Cheating…
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From my own experience, no, you can not forget when your spouse cheats on you. I have been down that road not too long ago myself. I have been on both ends with the guy I am to marry. Two…
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Pornography is a roller coaster of emotions for me. For me, it is a dirty and sinful thing and yet it arouses me. In my younger years I was more inclined to explore pornography and even enjoyed it occasionally. I…
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I had a best friend for many years. She was a sweet little innocent thing who had decided to spend her life with her high school sweetheart. I never liked him. I felt he was arrogant and conceited. And I…
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I think that this is an interesting topic and can be asked of a lot of things in life, not just an infidelity. Can you forgive but can you ever forget? Well, I personally think that when we are hurt…
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Porn is just as natural as the actual sex act itself. There isn’t anything abnormal, or unhealthy about it; as a matter of fact I’d say it can actually help the relationship between two loving people who are committed to…
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Has your love life dwindled to nearly non-existent? Does your relationship feel more like a struggle than a joy? Have suspicions of your man’s comings and goings crept into your mind? Instinct is a valuable tool and that little voice…
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From one dirty set of underwear to the next, when will women ever learn that if you already got a husband and you aren’t in love with him anymore, then why trade him for someone who is going to treat…
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An affair is a message that translates intobeing lonely, neglected, displeased, or simplyunhappy. The message is deliberate and is firstcommunicated with oneself. Laster as the affairis discovered, it is communicated to one’sspouse. The mistake occurs only when the affairis being…
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I have never met a straight guy that did not comment on a women’s sex appeal. Men are made differently than women and it is my belief that the reason that men enjoy looking at porn, is because they are…
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Why women go back or never leave the husband who cheats is a mystery to those who don’t know how it feels to be betrayed that way. Still, chances are that if you are married, you’ll be cheated on some…
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To most people marriage is like being born into another world. A new world where you have to change every thing about yourself. A world where your way of reasoning is believed to have changed,having graduated from the level of…
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For heaven’s sake, woman! Think, think, think! Slap yourself on the wrist. Splash a glass of cold water on your face. You do NOT want to go there! The argue has already been made about the married man. You know,…
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In my case, yes, a virtual relationship took precedence over a real life relationship, and I think it happens more often than we realize. Men and women can be whomever they want to be – online. They can be rich,…
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There’s a lot of talk about unfaithfulness in marriage. I’ve written my fair share about cheating spouses and infidelity in marriage. This article will focus on a different kind of unfaithfulness, emotional infidelity. What is emotional infidelity? Emotional infidelity is…
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Back in the day affairs were complicated to pursue and conceal, with motel visits, phone calls, letters, dinners, and all sorts of events that required a quick with, a poker face and a photographic memory to keep stories straight and…
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Why women go back to husbands who cheat. In numerous cases it seems to Be more than just one reason why women go back to husbands that have or are repetitively non monogamous to the wife. Trying to analyze why…
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