Marriage and Divorce

When you sit in a wedding ceremony and listen to those vows being exchanged, you have to wonder what happens. How does a couple go from “until death do us part” to ending a marriage so soon after it starts?…
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My partner, husband, confidant knows every tear I cry. He knows why and what for and usually before he even asks the question, “what’s wrong”. He speaks so softly that I barely hear him yet I know his care and…
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Don’t you just love reading those national magazines that have surveys of how many times in one month people have sex. The questions go something like this-“How many times do you make love in one month?” “How many times do…
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When a marriage is one-sided it is an intervention waiting to happen. One person really can’t hold a marriage together, be happy, healthy and take care of it all. Both parties need to be committed to change and truly become…
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As I sit here typing,I catch myself glancing over at the calendar .I have the thirteenth of June circled in red,partly for me,partly for my husband.It will be our twenty-first anniversary.It seems strange to me ,that I have been married…
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Let’s face it: once you’re married with children, your libido tends to go out the window. You have so many other duties to attend to, that the last thing you want to do first thing in the morning or at…
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Men usually get the wrap of being the ones who have sex on the brain. If that is true, then why do most women I know the ones who initiate physicality in their relationship? Why do I hear from women…
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To think of all the ways to keep a relationship and marriage alive and exciting can go on and on. I am a firm believer that we all need change. We all need to have that fun and spark relit…
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The first definition of marriage by Merriam-Webster is “the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law”. Further that definition by recognizing ‘united’ to…
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Having less sex that you used to? Chances are you are either married or been dating for a number of years, have children or your days are so busy that you just don’t have the time or energy anymore. Age…
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Soldiers wives cheat for many of the same reasons as non-military wives. Stress, loneliness, emotional abandonment, financial problems, and physical and mental abuse are some of the leading causes for infidelity among women. Some even cheat because of sexual curiosity….
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Two of the building blocks that must be present in any good marriage are honesty and trust. If you aren’t honest, eventually it is going to come back to bite you on the rear and when that happens the element…
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Life seems to take over and often we find ourselves in a boring sex life. It could be that it is the same every time. It could be that there isn’t enough of it. Whatever the reason there are lots…
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Why should laughing during sex be a major no-no? Is it because society has gotten so ridiculous about what’s “appropriate” and what’s not? Are we so concerned about what others think of us, that it’s not okay to laugh during…
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How to Keep Your Marriage Exciting and Alive: Respect and nurture and love your spouse. My wager is that eighty percent of people who read this article will be women, because they are generally the nurturers in a relationship. It…
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Emotional intimacy, to me, is a rather all-purpose term that is made up of smaller components. One must always remember that, in marriage, you’re dealing with another person’s thoughts and feelings every day and every night. Thoughts and feelings are…
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How do you keep the romance alive when you’re married with children? It may be more challenging than life before kids arrived on the scene, but the challenge definitely proves worth it. Here are ideas from couples who have children…
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The Biggest Mistake Many Couples Make About Love and Sex Anything we do not use or encourage, we eventually lose. Happy, committed couples are very tactile, finding it difficult to resist touching each other because of their desire to be…
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Asking a question like why sex is important in marriage is like asking why water is important for our environment. The answer is simple water is an essential component without which our environment will be parched dry and finally succumb…
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How ironic that my husband and I just had this conversation over a glass of wine last night. Not that we are comparing ourselves to the rest of the population in any way. The subject came up while talking about…
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First of all I think that a female having a low libido is something that is imagined by men who have women with things to do other than being a sex slave. That being said if your woman has a…
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For decades people often wonder what makes a marriage work. What does it take to make you marriage last to the “golden anniversary”? I have found ten top tips for wedded bliss. I am almost certain that working these tips…
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Numerous prescription drugs, mental conditions, and physical conditions can cause a woman to have a low sex drive. If this is not the cause of your wife’s waning libido, then there are steps you can take to rectify the situation….
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When you are a stay-at-home mom, you may feel under-appreciated at times, and you may be exactly right to feel that way. As with any career, whether you are appreciated and valued enough all depends on what company you are…
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I could not imagine that anyone would want to be in a marriage without sex. Unless there was some physical reason why your spouse cannot have sex, then I guess you deal with it because you love your wife or…
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Emotions happen. You should never feel unduly alarmed by them because they are feelings that occur before your instinctive impulses take over. You are no more able to control the birth of an emotion than you can consciously control the growth of your…
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Yes, it can, but it is unlikely to do so for two key reasons: our own emotional evolution and a lack of reciprocity. First, as adults, we evolve through life as we age, and our needs are constantly changing to…
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Keeping your marriage and sex life exciting can seem insurmountable. There are many different things that a couple can do to keep it all alive. As we get older, it seems that the spark fades. After all, none of us…
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Submissive women are the strongest, happiest women I know. I, personally, try to be a submissive wife, I believe I fail miserably from time to time but I earnestly try! Being submissive can be the hardest thing you will ever…
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Marriage hasn’t changed over the years. People and values have changed. Whether you are newlyweds or have been married for 30 years marriage is a work in progress tempered by love. It is often inconvenient and constantly requires maintenance. The…
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