Marriage and Divorce

Any sin is forgivable, but on a sliding scale, how forgivable is cheating? First of all, let’s examine the word “cheat.” Was there deceit, trickery, artifice or fraud in the act? We do not “own” our partners but we can…
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Yes, cheating hurts all who are involved; the cheater, the spouse, the children, the other man or woman, the other person’s family. It does damage that can take a lifetime to repair. However, I do believe that it is something…
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“Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me.” That quote is a variation of an age old saying that can apply to almost any wrong doing from one person to another. It means that the first…
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Yup, marriage needs the added stress of pornography! Relationships are hard enough without dragging in a tool that, in my years of counseling women, does nothing more than add insecurity and fear. And it doesn’t affect just women. Men are…
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Whether or not affairs are worth it depends on the person who is maybe entering into the affair, their lifestyle, who they already have in their life, and what they are seeking out of the present and the future. In…
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Cheating Spouse Got You Seeing Red? So you’ve discovered your lover is having an affair? Most of us have been there. Let me first say that there are no words to quiet the amount of pain, confusion, anger, resentment, etc….
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As you can see with the current Tiger Woods issue, cheating has become very popular. Signing a marriage certificate just does not hold the same kind of value it used to. When a spouse cheats, it violates everything that the…
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Why did he cheat? Did I just get to old? Did he get bored with me? Maybe the sex is just wrong? Was he in need of someone better looking? Was I nice enough, funny enough, did I listen to…
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Finding out that your husband was unfaithful is a devastating situation.  Whether he was up front and honest about the infidelity or hid it from you, it still brings about many emotions including anger, jealousy, hurt, sadness, and bitterness.  When…
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Woman possess an instinct in them that desire love, attention, and excitement. If at any time in life a married woman feels her heart melt, and her thoughts obsessing about another man, she will have to question her morals, because…
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Many in this day and age work online so it can be a challenge to know when someone is cheating on someone else when you consider they literally work online to make an income. So when should one begin to…
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There are many reasons why single women carry on affairs with married men.  Boredom, excitement, and the feeling of empowerment are a few.  But there is one reason that is seldom mentioned and that is low self esteem.   There could…
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I don’t even know where to begin. Okay, I’m going to try anyway.  It was the week of my birthday and I was intending to drink a lot.  So my best friend and I went to the bowling alley for their…
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With the internet, access to pornography is easier then ever and its viewing has become common place. The fact that this question need even be asked is evidence of that. The fact that more people voted YES to this question…
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Virtual relationships have become a comfort zone of realities factors. It is almost a shame when real intellect can become a mere form of text messaging or e-mails. Though one can be trepidatious, the virtual ability to sustain ones lack of human interaction – yet…
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There was a time when affairs were something that were exclusive to men, or so we thought, and possibly a few completely and utterly immoral women, but those days are over. Today, momre and more people of both genders are…
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Should I take him back? Q. My husband and I had a very serious problem and it almost ruin our family. He cheated on me many times and this time I gave up. I returned everything including our wedding ring….
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“Marriage”, whether it is solemnized by vows before your God in a religious ceremony, or sworn before a public official in a civil setting, is a sign of commitment, love and dedication to a long-term relationship and to one partner….
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The key to ANY relationship is communication and honesty. In my experience, a relationship that fails is a relationship with secrets and silence. My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. I know that doesn’t…
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A long, long marriageEver since I was a teenager, I’ve been in love with old people. They make you feel so needed and appreciated. I guess that’s because they’ve been around long enough to be grateful for the simple things…
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One of the fastest ways to keep your marriage going strong is in the bedroom. Kama Sutra is an ancient text that is one of the leading guides to sensual pleasure. There are as many myths about Kuma Sutra as…
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My wife and I married when we were eighteen years old. We dated for three years and were more than ready to begin our adult life together. It was the mid 70’s, Disco clubs were popular and couples our age…
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From meeting in the early 80’s, to then getting engaged and getting married was the right thing to do. It wasn’t even an option back then to live together, you either got married or you didn’t. We didn’t want a…
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They got their trophy, now your hanging on the wall like the big fish they always wanted. The work is done as far as their concerned, the chase is over. Men are hunters. We are the hunted. If you want…
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Of course a loving couple will still have some quarrels. Not that quarrels are bad, quarrels can make two of you knowing each other more better. You have to be understand your husband’s character, example: he don’t like to talk…
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Everyday is a new adventure when you are married. Everyday.The idea that you are going to be with someone for a lifetime is enough to make anyone nervous. People are very different when you share, not only time, but toothpaste…
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This is as touchy as abortion i would say. The idea of having a license to have a baby, at first, seems like a good idea but when you think about it there’s just too many variables. It would be…
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I don’t by any means claim to be an expert on marriage. My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married almost 10. We are mostly happily married. Every marriage has its ups and downs. Every couple…
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It seems as though in this day and age that women are becoming more and more demanding of their husbands. Women expect the man to work then to come home and help with chores or looking after the kids. On…
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Our culture’s view of love has seemingly fixed itself solely upon romantic love. The latest issues of People magazine are filled with this view: new lovers, new marriages, and new babies attract our attention. The old loves, old marriages, and…
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