Marriage and Divorce

Many young couples marry without realizing that a successful marriage takes work on the part of both spouses. A blissful, or even moderately happy, marriage does not just happen no matter how much the couple love each other on the…
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Being married to an older man has it’s ups and downs but there is something that you must understand, no matter what you hear you can not take it to heart since it does not determine how your relationship is…
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Cheating can never save a marriage. It can only excerbate existing crises within a marriage, hastening a break-up far more quicker, perhaps even ending up with the person they cheated with, in a short relationship that’ll leave them hollow inside….
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Exactly what is marriage? In the Unites States marriage is a legal contract between two individuals that have specific requirements, costs and legal responsibilities. Some may argue that it is a way for states and the United States government to…
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We women, are obsessed with those Prince Charmings. Those dashing blondes, those gorgeous brunettes, wonderful, rich men, who will cater to our every whim. Smooth our hair, kiss us the exact way we want. Know how to dress, know how…
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Trying to answer this question is like trying to divide a number by zero. It can’t be done! To start with, the word “you” is ambiguous. It could be naming society in general or be pointing directly to me. Assuming…
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Are you getting married? How is the planning of the wedding going? With so many people getting married these days I feel the need to speak my views as a Minister and as a bride of yesteryear. Too many people…
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Not all relationships last, even though it may feel that way in the beginning. Many relationships break down for one reason or another. Sometimes the breakup can be fractious and hostile, and other times the end could be a mutual…
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The theory that “opposites attract” is never more evident than in a marriage between an introvert and an extrovert. Can these two personality types, who are polar opposites in their approach to life, survive and thrive in a united partnership?…
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Alone time for couples with children is one of the crucial things that make a marriage last. Once the baby arrives, your life will change drastically and I mean literally drastically, because the baby and her needs will make the…
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Well i have been married for 5 years and i should honesly confess that my married life was a flop from the beginning till date despite the fact we tried. Our was a love marriage and our families were from…
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You know ladies, its about time we woke up to one undeniable truth about mankind:They never change. That’s it, no ifs, buts or maybes, once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheating , although now more prevalent than 20 years ago,…
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Should wives allow their men to watch porn movies? So, now we debate whether or not a woman should “allow” her husband to watch porn. Interesting word – ALLOW- makes me think maybe I’ve inadvertently stepped into another time, an…
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In a sense watching porn movies is a pathetic way to spend an evening or morning. If the couple are married then it begs the question as to why they married that person in the first place. However the question…
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THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE HIRING A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR Methods of Discreet Communication: It has been our experience that the first thing that most people need to consider before hiring a Private Detective/Investigator is to determine the means of communication between…
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Why some married women have affairs? Recently a good friend of mine came back from Bhutanand we met for lunch to talk about her trip. She told me that in Bhutan, women enjoy equal social, familial and sexual freedom as…
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Signs of infidelity are very gender specific as the reasons why men and women have love affairs. Women’s tale tell signs she is being unfaithful are more cautiously planned and devious than men’s; while their’s, on the other hand, become…
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“Oh what tangled webs we weave”. Wise was the author of those words and probably intimately familiar with the “art” of deception, for there exists no sharper biting pain than that of infidelity. As human beings we are deeply emotional…
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The signs and symptoms of a wayward spouse or partner can be either very subtle and hard to detect, or obvious and brazen. Your spouse suddenly takes keen interest in new music, which he/she has never shown an interest in…
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The dreaded A word. I am talking about “Affair”. Can a marriage truly survive infidelity? To some, it is an unforgivable act, and if it happens, the marriage is over. The question is, does it have to be? Believe it…
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Preventing Infidelity: Preventing infidelity is easier said then done, because a person involved in a relationship can only focus on his or her own behavior. However, every couple should address and create a Success Plan for their relationship, family, finances…
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How do you cope when you find out your husband is cheating? There is no simple answer. Webster’s dictionary has two definitions of the word “cope”. One is “to struggle or deal, on fairly even terms with some degree of…
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Emotional infidelity occurs when you or your partner become emotionally connected with someone outside your relationship, either in person or on the Internet. How dangerous to a marriage or committed relationship is emotional infidelity? One way of looking at emotional…
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The consequences of an affair are extremely devastating and far-reaching. Such a blow to a marriage is probably one of the hardest obstacles to overcome.Many times it seems, a married spouse gets a bit bored at home and with the…
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Yes. I believe a cheating husband should be forgiven. Harboring unforgiveness in your heart will only serve to make you bitter and unhappy. 2 months have passed since the day I found out my husband was cheating on me. I…
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Should wives allow their men to watch porn movies? My answer is a little more complex than just no. I was married for 5 years. My husband got caught up in porn addiction in the later part of our marriage….
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It is common knowledge that you can’t change anyone. The person you met and fell in love with will always be the person you met and fell in love with. No amount of nagging, begging or pleading is going to…
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It is amazing how often we tend to treat our relationships with the same lack of attention that we do our aging car. Just as the odd groan or squeal of protest from the engine of our motor may be…
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Infidelity is often cited as one of the most common causes of divorce. While it may be true that an incidence of infidelity may mark the beginning of a relationship’s decay, infidelity is rarely the cause of problems, instead serving…
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There’s no harm in a wife allowing her husband to watch porn. There are some people who may strongly disagree with me, specifically individuals from religious backgrounds. They regard it as a sin and say stuff like, “Watching that junk…
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