Marriage and Divorce

A soul mate is a rare phenomena in human form; someone who connects with you on many levels. Emotional, moral, sexual; familial, and so on. That being said, I pride myself on having found MY soul mate. I’ve been married…
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I have been with my partner for three years now, living with him for two. The other night, we had a discussion about the future, and our aspirations. Ultimately, he wanted to get married and have children. This discussion had…
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5 Realities About Prenuptial Agreements Recently many articles have been appearing on the internet extolling the virtues of entering into a prenuptial or premarital agreement prior to your marriage. I offer the following reflections from my practice of law and…
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Every woman knows that men like summer romance. Most of them become free or searching for adventures, when their wives leave them to have a rest in summerhouses, local or foreign resorts. Let’s examine male behaviour when left alone during…
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Marriage was once a requirement of men and women, forced upon them by social obligation and a sense of familial duty. The values of the church and synagogue dictated responsibilities in marriage. The role of a woman in marriage required…
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For the person in a relationship that it heading down the wrong path, cheating is one way to feel better about yourself and life in general. However, it is only a temporary fix. It is like putting a band-aid on…
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The Internet does not encourage cheating as far as I am concerned. People cheat because of a weak moment or for that matter weak morals, not because of the world wide web. Cheating has been going on since the beginning…
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A relationship must have a solid foundation of trust and confidence. Usually, people start out great, but somewhere along the way one or both people in the relationship forget what brought them together, lose the spark, and start venturing out…
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Loving someone should be the easiest thing in the world, especially when they love you back. But when adult children from prior marriages or relationships are involved, loving someone can be quite a challenge. Children’s security and sense of self…
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Allow. That’s an interesting choice of words. I’m thinking that if the wife “allows” the husband to do anything, or vice versa, we’re looking at a marriage in trouble, anyway. It seems to me that a marriage is an agreement…
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Right from the start, I knew our relationship was in trouble. I did not like his daughter. I hadn’t met the boys, but I had no reason to believe I would feel any differently about them. To make matters worse,…
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I use to believe that people should stay together even if they were unhappy, sexually dissatisfied, sick of the other person( at times) and wish for divorce or just hope to live a shorter life just to end the misery…
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At one time I would have said absolutely not. If you are not happy in your marriage and see no signs of change for the good, then it’s time to decide if you really are “made out” for being in…
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It is true that virtual relationships are quickly taking precedence over real life relationships. Time is of the essence this day and age, and the faster a task can be checked off a list, the better. Electronic devices such as…
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My philosophy (and it has worked well) is that we all have to face rocky times in our lives. I hesitate to generalize, but some curse their bad fortune, while others (like myself) step back and use their unfortunate experiences…
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While pornography is a controversial issue in society, it is something that has grown to become almost “mainstream” and acceptable today. Pondering the question of “Should wives allow their men to watch porn movies?” left an instant “No!” resounding in…
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Marriage, we are taught from birth that it is fundamentally a religious right of passage for those of us who subscribe to the various forms of religion. This right of passage under our religious beliefs specifically states that it is…
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The reasons why men cheat on women are as many as the excuses children have for why they didn’t get their homework done. Like these excuses, there are some reasons that are valid and some that are nothing but an…
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I’m sure some unhappy wives would like to think that they can come up with a reason their cheating is their husbands fault. It’s natural to be tempted but giving in is completely in the hands of the one doing…
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The reasons why men cheat on women are complicated and vast as the individuals themselves.  Men usually cheat on women when the relationship is unhealthy, damaged, and lacking in certain aspects of it.  It is not right to put every cheater…
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Trust is a very delicate thing. Once it’s been destroyed or damaged, it is rarely given freely to the same person again. Trust is also a very important part of a relationship. No one enjoys living with a constant sense…
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Consider the signs of impending danger and affair proof your marriage. Are you overwhelmed by things you can’t change in your marriage? Are you concerned about your spouse’s seeming dissatisfaction in your marriage? Is it your desire to preserve the…
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Recently, I’ve had several friends (women) who have called to tell me they’ve gotten ‘involved’ outside their current relationships. In other words, they’re having ‘affairs’. While I’m the last person in the world who’d make any sort of ‘judgements’ about…
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There is an old saying, “if they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you.” Fallling in love with a married man, not only seriously damages the innocent spouse, including children, eventually, in time, yourself. Your eyes will open…
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It is estimated that between 55 and 70 percent of all marriages will be hit with the devastation of an affair at some point. The majority of those are committed by husbands, though married women have increased their percentage gradually…
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You’ve been spending less time together and you can’t understand why. When you bring it up the only answer you get is they’re stressed, or work has taken a lot out of them. Somewhere deep in your stomach you have…
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In these trying moments it is so easy to put the blame on yourself. You are probably looking back on what you did wrong and thinking that you could have done something to prevent the cheating occurrence from happening. You…
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Finding out that your spouse has cheated on you is one of the most excruciating emotional pains you will ever live through. The hurt and anger you experience may feel like it is going to consume you. Indeed it will,…
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The thing you need to look at in this situation is the reason you accused him/her of cheating. Is there a problem in your marriage that needs to be fixed? If your marriage is strong, then you would not in…
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If you have accused your spouse of cheating and it turns out that you were wrong then the first thing to do is to breath a sigh of relief! The second thing to do is to apologize. Believing that your…
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