Marriage and Divorce

Mending a broken marriage takes determinism and hard work. It is not an easy task but then neither is divorce and divorce is a whole lot more expensive on a person. So think about if the marriage is worth saving…
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“Till death do us part” are a part of traditional marriage vows that are not always taken seriously. In fact, the divorce rate is at an all time high. Marriage has turned into something that is easily thrown away.  Successful…
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Every marriage  has its ups and downs and sometimes even problems that appear insurmountable.  Navigating through a serious marital crisis could test faith, dashing hopes for future happiness.  The first instinct might be to hide away from the world and wallow in despair. You…
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The last thing on anyone’s mind when getting married is the possibility of divorce. Most newly wed couples have thoughts of happily ever after because they are in love. The future looks bright and the world is full of opportunities….
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Shakespeare said in his comedy Twelfth Night, “If music be the food of love, play on. Give me excess of it; that surfeiting the appetite may sicken, and so die.” If you were to apply that quote to long lasting…
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Codependency is loosely defined as making the needs of the relationship or a partner more important than the needs of self. It is the act of sacrificing happiness in an attempt to keep the relationship alive. The most obvious types…
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The truth is that there is no way to end a relationship without it hurting your children. The key is to minimize this as much as possible. There are several things you can do to help your children cope and…
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There are people everywhere you turn that will tell you how to maintain a perfect marriage. The one thing these people seem to forget is respect. A simple seven letter word that speaks volumes when it comes to the way couples…
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No matter how compatible you and your spouse are, trouble might invade the relationship in the form of toxic in-laws. Sometimes extended family members overstep boundaries, have controlling, overbearing personalities or other issues that could potentially make your life miserable,…
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Everyone has arguments – be it with a friend, family member, loved one, teacher, colleague or even complete stranger. We’ve all felt that we are “right” and they are “wrong” and sometimes arguments can get so heated that we feel…
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Life is not always kind and dementia shows no favorites; it is one of the cruelest potential hazards of aging.  According to a study conducted by the National Institute of Health, one in seven Americans over the age of 71…
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It is true that women are more emotional in relationships than men. However, this isn’t a flaw to women. It is a flaw to men. Infidelity is the worst thing to do to a faithful wife. Put yourself in their…
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One of the most common complaints among married couples is that one does not support the other. Unfortunately, the word “support” has several different meanings. Emotional, physical, financial, spiritual and self-esteem are just some of the kinds of support spouses…
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Changing your last name after divorce is a situation faced by many people, primarily women, after a marriage ends. Of course many women decide that keeping their married name is perfectly acceptable, if not desirable, others though wish to revert…
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Appreciation is something most of us crave. Encouraging expressions, appreciative gestures and warm acknowledgements form the basis of a healthy relationship between spouses. Be generous in acknowledging the merits of your spouse for achieving closeness. A woman who accomplishes something…
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To build a healthy marriage you must begin with a strong foundation composed of unconditional love and mutual respect. Add layers of tolerance, compromise, honest communication, appreciation and a good measure of humor. Secure with realistic expectations and effective problem-solving…
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Arguments are normal episodes in all human relations. They can happen among the best of friends and everyday working associates. The confrontations can be even more serious when you become involved in angry disagreements with family members, particularly your spouse….
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What comes to mind when we hear about romance novels? A knight in shining armor, a hero, a savior or a lover. These are exactly what are depicted in any of the romance novels you pick up. Although, these are…
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I have done everything to take care of a home, to please family and friends, to keep up the appearance of having a fully together marriage and being truly happy.  I got engaged and exclaimed, “you better be sure because…
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I was counseling an unhappy wife one day. She had already admitted that the difficulties were not coming from her husband. “I have a codependency issue,” she said glibly to me. “No,” I assured her firmly, much to her surprise….
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When young or middle-aged persons decide to take the plunge again, or for the first time, we congratulate them, wish them well, and return to our busy lives. However, when an individual is 65+, we often feel justified in examining…
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In today’s modern and hectic world, there are many busy people out there.  You and your spouse might each have a schedule that is bursting at the seams, yet you know it is important to spend some quality time together. …
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If you live with someone who is a loud snorer, there are two fundamental ways to deal with the noise: change something about the snorer or change something about you. Sometimes the snorer is cooperative and is willing to make…
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What is a high maintenance relationship? A high maintenance relationship is when someone is making you responsible for him or her in various different areas of life. Emotional High Maintenance When a person takes no responsibility for their own feelings…
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When people marry, it is usually because they love one another. Love and respect should go hand in hand. If your care for someone, then you desire to make that person’s life as pleasant and easy as you possibly can….
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Children are the ultimate victims of divorce. Kids are used as chess pieces in most divorce scenarios and they suffer more from divorce than their parents ever will.  The well-being of children should be the highest priority when contemplating divorce. …
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Moving forward after a messy divorce is hard. There are no quick fixes. However, when you have self-esteem issues which arise because of that divorce, then there is something that you can do to help cure them. The frame of…
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Marriage is difficult at the best of times. When two people decide to live under the same roof, what happens is that you join two lots of habits together, two individuals who then become one couple. Problems arise when one…
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With divorce rates topping 50% we accept that multiple marriages, blended families, step families and single parent families are an intrinsic part of our society’s landscape. Divorce affects all of us. We are either children of divorce, we experience divorce…
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Coping with divorce is not as easy as one would think. On the contrary the after effects of divorce can leave one with an unbearable heartache. Going through a major break up, after spending blissful years and moments with your…
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