Marriage and Divorce

Love is beautiful and unforgetable!  Falling in love is the most beautiful feeling a person can have.  The falling part, it is pure emotion. To be mesmerized by every movement,  every spoken word, at that very moment.  It is like the…
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Divorce statistics are on the rise and they are affecting more than just the couples that are going through them. Any children that the couple may have had during the marriage are affected. Extended family members are affected. Friends of…
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Falling in love with a married man is one of the most difficult things I have ever put myself through. I, myself, am married and never EVER thought I would do anything to jeopardize my marriage. And then…I met my…
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In intimate relationships, any slight can sting much deeper than expected. These are the results of being in love. Our connections and vulnerability expose us in terrifying and exhilarating ways. When we are let down by our partners or deceived…
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One has to question what need we are trying to fulfill here. To pursue a relationship that nine times out of ten will not go anywhere is somewhat similar to shooting oneself in the foot to see if it really…
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An affair causes much heartache and pain for the person cheated on and can cause cracks in their marriage as trust decreases. While some couples may choose to separate permanently and end their relationship forever others try and find ways…
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Has your husband been unfaithful? Wondering now what to do? First thing is first. Do not blame yourself for his cheating. Many women beat themselves up emotionally thinking it is something they have done or not done, that has made…
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How To Know If Your Husband is Having an Affair. A lady’s husband started to disappear for hours at a time and have no explanation as to where he’d been. Traffic fines from other towns started to arrive in her…
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To trust and be trusted…what causes love to be rich and pure? We should trust our spouses until they do something to prove they are not trustworthy. When a marriage doesn’t have trust in it, there are constant surmises, accusations,…
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An affair can be devastating to a marriage, and it can alter the lives of both spouses no matter which one had the affair.  When a wife discovers her husband’s betrayal, it is still very painful whether the affair happened…
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In this day and age of instant gratification the lore of the grass being greener is much too strong for some.  With this desire to play outside the boundaries that you have se. It makes not difference if its it’s…
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When you’ ve fallen in love with a married man, you are not in a safe relationship. You are in danger of being discovered, seen with he who is already taken. This is not healthy for you and not for…
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The act of infidelity usually causes some degree of harm to everyone involved.  The damage often extends beyond the immediately involved parties and injects emotional pain into the lives of children and other family members. Usually the straying spouse is…
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They say that one in three marriages ends in divorce. I am sure that a vast majority of those that do not end in divorce are teetering on the brink of it, and staying together for many reasons other than…
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Should wives allow their men to watch porn? As a married woman who has been happily married for 16 years this Thursday, would have to say, “Yes, allow them to watch it”. If it is not any kind of illegal…
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Having your spouse cheat on you can have a profound impact on your life-whether you expected it or not.  For starters, even if there was cheating in the marriage, you may have hoped that things would’ve worked out, and may…
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There are many excuses people give for being unfaithful in a relationship. None of those excuses are good, however, there are sometimes signs that led to the infidelity. These signs start out as little, insignificant things that go all but unnoticed by…
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My parents have been married for 53 years, and I have never ever heard either one of them say I won’t allow you to do that. The word doesn’t exist. They discuss, weigh pro’s and con’s and go from there….
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There is no way that one person can make the choices for another person. To assume that we can would be to place a heavy burden of responsibility on ourselves and relieve other people of their own responsibilities. Ultimately, we…
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    The most dangerous type of affair your spouse can be having. That is what an emotional affair is. Most people don’t understand emotional affairs and often don’t consider them when suspecting infidelity. This is a huge mistake. Like…
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Newlyweds are beginning a whole new life together. Each partner brings a rich history and ideals to the union. The couple, if the marriage is going to work, will learn to face challenges and celebrations together. They will learn to…
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There is no sure way to prevent your husband from cheating and it depreciates your value to yourself if you are trying to do this. Certainly, many including myself, believe that when a man cheats, he is missing something at…
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There are so many things in todays world that are temptations. Members of the opposite sex are only one of them. For single unmarried people that is not a problem at all. You date whom you want and when. You…
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It’s a pity that everyone needs a diploma, a certificate or a proper course to enter any field of life. Be it business, finance, medicine, painting, designing, etc. Ironically however, marriage, which constitutes a much more important and bigger aspect…
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Rules for the other woman. The home wrecker. Easy, read on. Oops, firstly, let me just put a disclaimer here. I am not the other woman, I have never been nor will I ever be the other woman. Not me…
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Marriage is a wonderful thing and it is exciting and even a little scary starting a new life together. One thing you will have to get used to is having a whole new family to get to know. There some…
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With my eyes glued on the road, I was driving the car aimlessly.  My mind and heart filled with disbelief and pain.  I have been through so much the past 40 years of my life; I survived an ugly divorce,…
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Coping with your spouses unemployment can be tricky, especially if you’re not used to them being home all day long while you’re working from home or getting yourself out the door to work. Patience In most cases, your spouse didn’t…
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There is no way that one person can completely make any decision on behalf of another, including whether or not a person will leave the vows and bonds of their marriage and be unfaithful. There is something to be said…
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Cheating is something that been going on for years. The older generations call it “adultery” and the younger generation broke it down to the term “cheating”, for the simple fact they see it as a game. Some people do it…
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