Marriage and Divorce

Discovering that your spouse has been involved in an affair is the hardest thing that can ever hit your marriage. You will probably be very shocked, even if you has a bit of suspicion, by the reality of the situation….
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Do you really need for your spouse to admit to you that they have cheated? I believe that most spouses of someone who cheats knows that the spouse has cheated. Although you may not want to admit this out loud,…
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Is going into a chat room and having a personal chat with someone of the opposite sex who is not a relative considered cheating? If the two were discussing computers, a book or the weather it would not be considered…
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The responsibility of a broken marriage rarely falls on the shoulders of an outside party. Except possibly in the case of the craftiest Lolita, there is not a healthy marriage that is torn apart by the stereotypical secretary. The secretary…
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As I contemplate this question, I think of all of the times I’m talking to someone and realize they haven’t heard a word I’ve said. At work, people who are a few desks away from one another, e-mail instead of…
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It’s a mistake to look at it as ‘saving’ your marriage after infidelity, that implies negativity every time you say it.  Look at it as rebuilding a stronger one, that’s a better angle. With this rebuilding comes one condition, you…
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It depends on what you are chatting on-line about, I do chat on-line with a lot of people; and it does not mean that I am cheating on my husband to be. I do have one particular guy in which…
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I just had a very long conversation with a friend of mine who is going through a divorce. It’s one of those divorces where the wife is accusing him of everything under the sun and I didn’t understand it because…
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Many people try to excuse infidelity, on grounds as varied as unhappiness and additiction and simple weak will. We are led to believe by the culture of instant gratification, as shown through nearly all media, including music, television, movies, novels,…
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Why did your partner or spouse cheat, one or twice? Do you always seem find a partner who will cheat at the drop of a hat? Cheating happens for different reasons without a doubt, and unbelievably you did have something…
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This is the nightmare that spouses hope they will never have to experience: discovering that their life partner has been unfaithful. For some, infidelity is even more devastating than a death, and like death, an affair is impossible to undo….
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An affair is never just a mistake, as some cheating spouses or partners claim it is. And an innocent spouse should never make that excuse for those who cheat. Making the conscious decision to have an affair is never just a…
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Cheating is an act of infidelity, a low act that can ultimate destroy even the happiest of marriages. So why do people cheat? Some people cheat on the spur of the moment, usually when they are intoxicated. They usually wake…
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The benefits of pre-marital counseling are vast. This valuable strategy is more than just a disaster plan. It is also a plan for sustainability and recovery. If you have a good plan and don’t apply it, then you would be…
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You can ask yourself this question a 1000 times and no one will ever really get it right, there are times to look at all the studies done and all the poll answers and try to make sense out of…
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Impatient for your morning Starbucks, you hit the off ramp and merge into a bottle neck of bumper-to-bumper brake lights. As your lane disappears into a single file of snarled traffic, you punch the radio and settle back, curbing your…
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There is a lack of commitment on both sides of the fence. Couples seem to want all the advantages of being married rather this is focused on the bedroom, the check book, or just wanting the company of another. Too…
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The earlier years when planning and making a commitment to some one you love and spend the rest of your life with that special someone is over. Life styles of couples today live with the hope that things will last…
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Marriage is a sacred institutuion, to many, and I suppose it will never be frowned upon by society as a whole. However, the truth is that it is something of a crap shoot or coin flip, and as often as…
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In the recent times, it appears to have become a constant, to not marry but to be “together” works well for most, and some just don’t want any part of it. Speak with some of the University Graduates, there views…
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I am an Indian from a small reservation in New Mexico. Pardon my use of that politically incorrect term but my mother was an Indian and my father was an Indian so naturally I’m an Indian, too. I haven’t bought…
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The two main things for the push for marriage comes in the form of financial (tax breaks) and society (religion). Aside from those two things it’s too easy to meet someone, hit it off and eventually move in together to…
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To keep romance alive after the honeymoon, you should keep doing what you were doing prior to the honeymoon as much as possible. But when one of the partners is too busy, you should be understanding because most people will…
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The answer to the question should couples live together before getting married, depends on a person’s expectation from the marriage. If the expectation is that marriage will be a life-long bond between the wife and the husband then couples should…
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Love is an emotion. A very powerful emotion at that. It can make you act crazy, feel crazy and plain go crazy. Love will make you stay up all night talking to your perfect match without ever getting tired. Love…
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What do you think would deem a marriage successful? Is your marriage successful or are you still working on bringing it into success? In this guide, the writer has compiled a few thoughts she thinks couples should incorporate into their own relationship…
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Though there are many ideas that come to mind in having a happy relationship, there are several that are truly needed, not only for happiness but for a healthy and long term commitment as well. Speaking of commitment we will…
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Two hours a week. This is what is required to keep a marriage healthy. It is not much. Only 120 minutes out of 10,080. Yet my husband and I needed a marriage course to help us come to this realization….
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The reason people get married and move in together is because they both like and love one another and enjoy spending their time together. Unfortunately, because most people have to go to work, it’s not possible to spend as much…
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Should couple live together before getting married? YES! I really believe you cannot really truly know someone until you have lived with them and learn about all their good and bad habits (same goes for your partner). I lived with…
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