Marriage and Divorce

The reaction to a cheating wife will not be totally unlike the reaction a husband would have to her death. When you think about it, it makes sense. The relationship, at least as it was, will never be the same;…
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I think that there are more than four main reasons but I will list four. 1) Spending too much time together. If a couple spends too much time together, then one or the other person feels trapped in the relationship,…
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Sit down and watch it with him! First of all, ladies lets stop lying to ourselves! We enjoy sex just as much if not more than men, but we get into what society says is, proper behavior for women. The…
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Regardless of whatever misguided reasoning an individual has for participating in an extramarital affair, there are always ramifications to be dealt with that are none too pleasant. A person exposed as a cheater in a supposedly committed relationship has instantaneously…
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Falling in love is amazing! The raw emotion it brings out in someone is undeniable. The excitement and fireworks experienced are out of this world. The passion and desire are overwhelming. Endorphins are at an all-time high and you are…
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You have heard it said once a cheater, always a cheater, but I would dare to say that is not always the case. I was a cheater. 6 years later and I have never cheated again, nor have I had…
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When the phone rings and you hear; “Hi Honey, just wanted to let you know I’m running late tonight, again, sorry. Don’t wait up, I’ll be home soon as I can.” These words should send a signal that all is…
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Before anyone can determine whether or not having an affair is worth it, it is necessary to carefully assess the state of your marriage. Questions must be answered. Are you happy in your current situation? How about your spouse? Regardless…
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As the title says, it’s a done deal. You’re already in a relationship with a married man or on the verge of jumping into one. Telling you it’s a bad idea is like telling a skydiver it’s dangerous or a…
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Marriage is the bonding between two people spiritually and emotionally nourished with love and care for each other. As couples reach a long marital relationship, love unfortunately subsides and compatibility sets in and takes over. With marriage, it is not…
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Where were you? Who were you with? When were you going to call me and let me know your schedule? You missed dinner? What’s going on? How much money did you spend on that!? Quit avoiding me! You are lying…
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Being a post graduate student currently living in Hudson MA with two masters degrees from Boston College one in Mental Health and the other in School Counseling, it would appear that any form of counseling is important and effective for single or married…
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Often people see divorce as the only option when things go wrong in a marriage although there are so many ways to avoid it. Before you can make the decision about whether it’s time to discuss divorce, do think of…
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Saturday tends to be a very popular night for dating, even among those who are already married. For most people, there is no work or school. It is usually easier to find a babysitter. It is also one of the…
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Oh, the woes of the married. Not so much over the marriage itself, but in finding an agreeable date night activity. So many things to do, but so many are mostly fit for the single to mingle crowd. Night clubs. There are…
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Divorce just isn’t fun, and, if you are reading this article, chances are that you know that first hand.  If the subject of alimony has come up, there are a few things of which you should be aware. Alimony was…
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Planning an amicable divorce is all about respecting your partner’s boundaries and rights.  You should be also considering your own rights in the event of any split and be aware that an amicable situation is one that has room for…
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Absolutely, alimony should be abolished, banned, outlawed, even made unconstitutional. From the onset, the concept of alimony has been an insult and an unnecessary evil to an already hurting divorced couple. I have always maintained, that anyone with a gram…
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If you are so sure your marriage is going to fail that you feel it necessary to sign a prenuptial agreement why get married at all? Marriage is supposed to be a public confession that you want to spend the…
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Divorce can often leave one or both parties in debt. We’ve all heard stories about wives who rack up credit card debt pre-divorce, and husbands who go MIA when it comes time to foot the bill. Divorce is already emotionally…
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If divorce wasn’t stressful enough, both parties need to also consider the debts amassed during the marriage. These debts can include anything from credit cards, to the house, to a vehicle. If these items are in the names of both…
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Divorce can be extremely emotionally and financially taxing for one, if not both, parties involved. Couples with children will face added obstacles when attempting to successfully part ways. Hopefully, if you and your spouse have come to an agreement about…
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An amicable divorce is where both parties have no qualms as to who gets what. An amicable divorce is like a very close and drawn out game of cricket! At the end of the final innings, both captains walk across…
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I must speak from experience in this instance, and perhaps give some insight into the resolution of an ugly situation. My ex-wife and I had a little boy, age 1 at the time of our divorce. Even though we had…
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I was married to my wife for just over two years. We knew each other many years prior to getting married, but for some reason, I just thought that I could change someone that was more about herself than she…
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The key word in the phrase “How to plan an amicable divorce” is “plan.” If you have the opportunity to plan for your separation and divorce, you have a chance of creating a relatively amicable situation. If the divorce is…
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Child custody battles. It’s a no win situation. The marriage is finished, though the ties that a couple made by making children are permanent ones, and at the end of a relationship, deciding upon what is effectively seen by many…
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Quite often, divorce is an ugly thing. There is a reason for it, and usually it’s because of any number of things that spell doom for a couple who in the beginning thought it would last forever. Depending on the…
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When a marriage ends, of course it is sad, and whilst most end up in the divorce courts, ways of minimizing the effects of that divorce on the disruption of the couple and the children have been devised where mediators…
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In certain circumstances, mediation is an excellent tool developed to help resolve issues arising in a separation and divorce. Whether there are issues about custody, child support, visitation, or dissolving property and financials, mediation will become one of the important…
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