Marriage and Divorce

Living with regret after divorce… *Regrets can drive one wild: There is always regrets after any divorce and a person always wonders if there was something different they could have done to prevent the marriage from crumbling. When there are…
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 There are certain broad categories that cover the most common reasons for divorce. If you are considering divorce or if you’ve already gone through a divorce, you may find one or more of your reasons in this list. 1.Incompatibility People…
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While divorce in itself can be devastating, decisions concerning the children and sharing them during the holidays are just as painful. Allowing them quality time with each parent while trying not to disrupt or upset them any further is necessary…
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Dealing with a Devastating Divorce A divorce is among the hardest troubles that anyone can undergo in their lifetime. Quitting a married relationship provokes a a wide range of sentiments and problems that can threaten to overpower and destroy a person….
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Many people do not believe that it is possible to get divorced without fighting. Fighting usually happens because one party wants to be right about way the relationship ended. If both parties are willing to admit partial fault in regards…
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One of the greatest misconceptions about marriage is that everything is going to be different once the vows and rings have been exchanged. It’s as though people seem to think that once the ink has dried on the wedding license,…
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When you marry, the last thing you want to think about is divorce. The happiness and joy you feel the day you marry will surely last for all time, and you will never part because your love is eternal. With…
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When any couple divorces, they are admonished not to use the children as weapons.  Most couples follow this advice pretty well.  They may have moments here and there where they badmouth the other parent in front of the children, or…
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While it may seem a folly to receive marriage advice from someone who has divorced, you may actually gain a lot of insight into what makes marriages work. Often, people are able to see things more clearly, in hindsight. Q….
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Finding peace after a divorce may require a spring cleaning of your heart and soul. It is hard to let go of treasured memories that remind us of the good times. When a marriage is truly over, both legally and…
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Finding peace after divorce may be very difficult for some. Divorce can be painful, and can often leave a person feeling like a failure. Some blame themselves for divorce, and this makes it hard to overcome the unsettled feelings inside….
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To be able to avoid divorce AND be in a happy marriage is quite something. To make your marriage last happily for a long time this is what to do… This might sound obvious but the first thing to do…
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Coping with and surviving a divorce is challenging to all parties but if you find yourself as the spouse who actually wants the marriage to continue, being faced with the fact that your partner no longer wishes to spend his/her…
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Divorce is often a sad thing for at least one of the couple who are splitting up. My father has been married many times, a total now of four. The first marriage was made under the assumption that my father…
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Do you have couple issues and you’re afraid your marriage will end up in a divorce? In the past years, the rate of the divorces grew considerably, and now one in two marriages ends up in the court house. Experts…
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Remaining friends with your spouse after a divorce is very important, particularly if you have had children together and need to see each other, or at least keep in touch because of them. If you harbour bitterness or resentment over…
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Divorce produces many negative emotions.  Even when the divorcing person is no longer feeling raw jabs of betrayal and regret, they will still rise up occasionally and reinjure.  Places and memories will generate emotions of failure and anger.  Mutual friends…
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On your wedding day, you imagined a warm and happy forever. Marriage is not all sunshine and smiles, but takes work. When things get rough, many people choose to take the easy way out and get a divorce. If you…
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Being an ex in-law does not have to be a bad experience. If member of your ex’s family are objective and not point fingers of blame, they will realise that it takes two people to end a marriage and not…
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Parenting post separation/divorce does not have to be traumatic. Unfortunately, I have seen this from every angle. I watched my parents do it.I’ve watched my husband do it.I’ve done it myself. Though I haven’t been perfect by any stretch of…
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The main thing for both of you to remember is why you married each other in the first place. Having a solid foundation for your marriage is key to avoiding divorce. Once you’ve established a solid foundation for your relationship…
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One of the most devastating turn of events is when your children are used against you in a divorce.  There are different strategies that you may choose in this case, both to lessen the occurrence of such as scenario as…
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I am a man. I am a father. I am also the custodial parent of wonderful twin boys. Their mother and I never married. I wanted to at the time, but now I thank the stars above that we never…
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A marriage is a two way thing. It is like dancing a tango, you have to both dance your parts and play along to the music, otherwise things go wrong and you start to trip up and someone gets hurt…
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With divorce rates reaching upwards of 80% everyone knows someone who has been affected by a divorce. These people are our friends, coworkers and sometimes our own family members. There are a few factors that increase the likelihood of a…
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If you sit there and wonder about life without your spouse, then this could be one sign, that you are heading for a divorce. If there was nothing wrong with your relationship and you were happy, you would not consider…
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I was just having tea and cucumber sandwiches with my neighbor, June Cleaver, discussing this very subject ever so politely. We were soon joined by Santa Claus and Chewbacca, both being just as verbose as my dear friend June. June…
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If my husband knew the date he was going to die, he’d probably slink off into the woods like my childhood cat Bootsie and would never be seen or heard from again. Me? I’d want Rose Bowl Parade floats and a…
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When counseling couples, finances and friction are often inseparable. Couples often find themselves locked in chronic battles with each other over financial management issues. The situation never seems to end. The good news is that couples can mitigate financial friction…
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Divorce is hard on all parties involved and oftentimes, it’s more difficult on the father than people realize. The issue of custody should lie in what is in the best interest of the child/children not whether they should automatically go…
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