Marriage and Divorce

When children arrive, even though they enrich families and are usually desired, they need a lot of care and attention and can be very demanding. Often it’s the fathers who are squeezed out of the attention while mothers are often…
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If your marriage isn’t as happy a union as you would like it to be you may consider whether it could be helped by the aid of counselling. Marriage guidance therapy may, or may not appeal to you. In some…
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A wise man said, “Failing to prepare is preparing to fail”.   People generally, neither like to hear about failure nor do they take pleasure in personal failure. The success of any event, activity or institution is determined, to a great…
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Sometimes it is necessary to admit that you don’t know what else to do and choose to seek help from a marriage counsellor. It is true that it is not always sought out just because a marriage may be failing – for…
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Some men have a mistress, and her name is football season.  Wives often take a back burner to this popular sport.  There are different ways that a woman can deal with a husband who ignores her during football season, including…
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Women can most defiantly be considered a nag.  Why is that?  My own personal belief is it is because we choose to be.  WHAT?  Yes you heard me right, its because we CHOOSE to be.  Let me explain. Say you…
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To a certain extent I think that women “nag” because things have to get done. Who else will keep the ball rolling? Who will get the kids to practice and get homework done? Not all lives revolve around the husband…
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The old Shakespeare quote comes to mind, “Hell hath no fury like a woman you don’t text message every hour.” It’s true. The light of your life, the belle of your ball, acts like a cross between a prison warden and…
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Is sex important in a relationship?  It is if that is the only thing that makes the relationship.  If it is then you must ask yourself is this the type of relationship you crave and will it lead to anything…
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When Adam and Eve were married in the Garden of Eden, they married without any fuss or fanfare.  God was their witness.  No bridesmaids, grooms men or clergy were required to be there.  No marriage licenses needed to be signed. …
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Few things on this earth are as beautiful as a woman who glows with the presence of life within her. She needs to hear that you find her more beautiful than at any other time. Allow her to notice you…
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Most of the time, a divorce is the result of conflict, known as interpersonal conflict, and a couple’s inability to manage it effectively. Either that, or they really do simply ‘fall out of love’. First of all, in general, there…
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The question of whether marriage is obsolete has come up on numerous occasions in the media over the past 2 years, most notably through an expose in The Atlantic Magazine, including a piece controversially titled, ‘The Death (and Life) of…
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Emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating and yes it definitely is a reason to break up. As if cheating wasn’t bad enough in the first place, throw some emotions in there and you really do have a recipe for…
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Moving back home after a divorce may seem like a humbling experience. After all, you left home once, not thinking that you would return to live there again. However, life is unpredictable. Although you find yourself dealing with this issue,…
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One of the hardest things that anyone may have to face in a relationship is love that dies. In the first throes of a love affair, intensity is the name of the game. Love is a wonderful place to be….
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While in college, this author befriended an El Salvadorean custodian. Now ,there is an unassailable trope about the wise old janitor. Oscar made sport as he worked, giving opinions on everything from work to marital life. Without condemnation Oscar put forth…
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The most important necessity within a relationship is communication. As a result, the first red flag in a faltering relationship is the lack of communication, and/or the inability to initiate, especially when in a “rough patch.” Consider the differences in a…
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Marriage by proxy is not a new idea. In fact, there are records of marriage by proxy as early as 1490 a.d. In the beginning it was mainly for the royals only. It was a way to broker royal marriages…
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“Love and Marriage, Love and Marriage, Go together like a horse and carriage. This I tell ya brother, you can’t have one without the other.” These wise words of Sammy Cahn in his song, “Love and Marriage,” hit the nail…
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Family pressures are one of the more common reasons. We are still in the age of the old school way of thinking. You know if you are not married you are living in sin. Thank goodness that is leaving the…
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Getting a divorce is easier to than it used to be. It’s also more accepted in Western society than it used to be. Divorce should still be, however, the last resort. Impact on Children How children will be affected by…
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Forgiving could possibly be a very easy obstacle to overcome, or it could be one of the hardest things to do in your relationship. Forgiving your spouse depends upon what they did in order for you to be upset with…
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So how do you tell someone that you don’t love them anymore? Relationships that that no longer work out had to have a resolution of sorts. Without a resolution, you would end up enduring a relationship where neither love nor…
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A good relationship will always be built on the  foundation of trust. Without trust, it’s nearly impossible to have anything to build on. You start out in a new relationship, not knowing how it will end or if it will…
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Sometimes a troubled marriage shows signs of failure before one party officially gives up the ghost. If you’re a woman living in this space you need to know it, and take the extraordinary steps required to fight for your husband….
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Flying Solo “Mom I’m sick and tired of hearing you complain about dad. Either you leave him or stop complaining. You sound like a broken record!” At twelve years old I shouted these words to my mother for the first…
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Fighting fairly in a marriage is important. Sometimes a good argument or venting is a necessity to clear the air for a relationship to continue to progress and evolve. Leaving things all bottled up can lead to a more disasterous…
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Fighting the issue and not the person is the safest manner in which to ensure a fair fight. Marriages inevitably suffer through fights, but if they are done in a fair fashion, then the fights should end quicker and with…
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How do you fight fairly in a marriage? That’s an interesting question. A better question might be, can you fight fairly in a marriage? In any marriage, whether newlywed or celebrating that silver anniversary there comes that time when you…
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