Marriage and Divorce

Few events are as devastating as your children rejecting you after divorce.  Sometimes it seems as if nothing you do can get through to your children.  The following steps may help guide you through this time. Take care of yourself…
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When trying to process information or an opinion on this matter, it does well to realize that there are two fundamentally different aspects to weigh up in the prognosis. These two are called male and female. They are as different…
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Often the unintended casualty of a divorce, children have the most difficult time dealing with the dissolution of their parents marriage. Most responsible parents go out of their way to shelter their children from the strife and conflict that ultimately…
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Divorce can be an unsettling and frightening time for families and children. To a child, their family often represents safety and security as well as a place for nurturing and love. A family provides a large part of the child’s…
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Over the years, countless numbers of couples have stayed together for the sake of their children. Often times this may seem like a good idea and may seem like it is what is best, but this usually isn’t the case….
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I have always thought of “being in love” as the happy state that we first find ourselves in when we finally meet that special someone. You know how it feels. You get a sickening lurch in the stomach each time…
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Statistics show that about 60% of marriages in North America end in divorce. Many of these once-married couples had at least one child while they were together. Most divorces are saturated in hate, anger, resentment, distrust, pain, guilt, love, and…
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Saving a marriage with financial planning? Yes you can save your marriage with financial planning, it’s one of the keys to success in most areas and marriage is the rule rather than the exception. You will have so many expectations…
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Making the decision to end your marriage is never an easy one even though it may simply be the one that is best for everyone involved. One of the most important considerations during the divorce process will be your children….
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Financial planning can save a marriage because it allows the spouses to see what the major stresses really are that are oppressing them. It allows them to take equal blame and responsibility for the finances. Sometimes the combination of lack…
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Nobody talks much these days about “illegitimate” children. A child born to an unwed mother is just as valid as one whose parents are married, especially since there’s no law of primogeniture (eldest son inheriting) in this society. To be…
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Oh My God! You must be kidding. What lunatic actually believes that cheating can actually SAVE a failing marriage. At best, if the marriage is unsalvageable, it will be the final decapitating chainsaw blow to the head of a zombie…
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Change can be a difficult and challenging experience for children. The separation of their parents can have many devastating effects on children, no matter what their ages. Preparing for this event requires some patient and careful planning. These steps can…
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Marriage counselling is a third-party mediator brought in to help resolve some of the issues that are hurting the marriage. It can be very helpful in restoring the marriage in some instances, but is a useless attempt in other cases….
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Are you recently divorced or considering it? Do you have children from the marriage? If so, it is imperative that you consider them through the whole process. Research shows that acrimonious separations are as traumatic as post divorce estrangement. Here…
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Has infidelity invaded the sacredness of your marriage? Are you looking at your home and your family and the pictures that remind you of the love that once prevailed, and now you want to save your marriage? It can be…
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It has often been said that divorce is hardest on the children. This is entirely true and is known by the writer whose parents split up, it was incredibly difficult to deal with: Shots were fired, cops were called, and, best of…
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Have you ever been to the beach or vacationing and you see this old couple holding hands and are in love with each other. Everyone who is in a marriage wants this feeling. The feeling of finding the perfect soul…
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Christian marriages are just as vulnerable to problems as the marriages of unbelievers, and perhaps even more so. Satan walks about seeking whom he may devour. Those who are not Christians are already being influenced by him so of course…
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Marriage is a challenging partnership, and no matter how compatible any given couple may be, their marriage will have some ups and downs. While divorce rates are high, there are also many couples who have shared their lives together, and…
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Cheating on your spouse goes a lot deeper than simply having sex with someone else. It violates one of the four cornerstones of the marriage; trust. Yet for those who want to cheat or who already have, they may want…
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Growing up, I remember a song by artist Terry Jack: “We had joy, we had fun, we had seasons in the sun…” . Then, each chorus took a turn toward the dark side as the singer looked back from his…
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Divorce is an ugly word and for many couples, the knowledge of how much trauma a divorce will bring to themselves and their family can be the reason that compels the both of them to give their marriage “another chance”…
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Marriages take work.  There are certain things that you can do in order to help make your marriage a success.  Try the following strategies to help you with your union. Be honest It is important to have honesty in a…
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Loud snoring has been measured at decibels equivalent to a running lawnmower, a vacuum cleaner (an old one that doesn’t run noiselessly), a motorcycle, or a jet passing by during an air show. One wouldn’t sleep with any of these…
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A happy marriage is the desire of every couple and run on the engine mutual understanding and effort on the part of the couples. A reasonable couple always put every effort to ensure that their marriage works. Here are some…
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If you have been married then you know the secrets to a happy marriage. Some of you are looking around right now scratching your heads. You may not realize it but you spoke the magic words on your wedding day. Still…
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Marriage, like any other aspect of life, is subject to change. While the fundamentals may remain the same – you and your spouse love one another, and have made a lifetime commitment to one another – that does not stop…
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Tips for a long and healthy marriage Many an adolescent have contemplated being married someday to someone with whom they are in love. They can’t wait. They look forward with eagerness and perhaps baited breath to the day they will…
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The holy grail that we are all searching for as we walk down that aisle to the alter is a long, happy, and successful marriage.  It seems that we all enter into marriage with that thought in mind, but with…
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