Marriage and Divorce

Things have been going along smoothly enough – you have fun together, your kids and his get along, there’s enough excitement and romance that you both want to spend all your spare time together. Every time the phone rings it’s…
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I have read several articles about “Why women go back to husbands who cheat” there is no real answer to that question only speculation. I am a woman who chose to go back to a husband that cheated. It was…
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An appalling number of marriages and relationships end due to infidelity. Even if a marriage, or long-term relationship, is a result of love, respect, and compatibility, there is no guarantee it will be free from infidelity. Many long-term marriages and…
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I wish I had an answer for this that didn’t sound so cliche, but I just don’t. The best way to know if your husband is cheating on you is to know your relationship. If your relationship is based on…
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Around a third of marriages end in divorce. In a recent survey 41% of people admitted to have cheated on their partner. Interestingly, 68% of people claim to have been cheated on. The report suggests that 80% of cheating men…
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The affects of adultery are devastating in so many ways. A simple indiscretion can resemble a piece of glass that has been shattered with so many little cracks and fractures trailing away in all directions. It also has comparisons to…
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Rebuilding trust is never easy at the best of times, and when a marriage has been rocked by infidelity by either partner, it is more difficulty. The first step in the rebuild process is for each partner to individually consider…
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If merely having a sexual fantasy is to be construed as cheating, then about 99.99% of the world’s population are adulterers. Fantasizing about someone other than your spouse, fiancé, lifetime partner, or significant other is NOT the same as cheating, nor…
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There are some do’s and don’t if you suspect your spouse is cheating. First of all, there is nothing more fragile than our emotions, especially when there’s a question about a spouse fidelity. In the event that you are not…
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Falling in love is as natural as the changing of the seasons, but what do you do when the object of your affection is wearing a wedding ring? A common response from those asked about this question is that pursuing…
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It is impossible to forget infidelity, because deep inside our brain is a place where information is stored forever. In fact, psychiatrists will confirm that memories as early as days after birth are hidden in the depths of our mind;…
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I do not understand women who choose to fall in love with a married man. I don’t think they simply fell in love, they clearly made a choice. And the choice necessarily meant hurting the wife and children and probably…
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I should have been dumped like last week’s trash. I was unfaithful to my husband back before he and I were married. I felt I needed to come clean with him, so I did. I’m not sure why i decided…
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Cyber affairs are increasingly becoming a problem for married couples today. The Internet has made having an affair less risky than in the past. With a cyber affair, the cheating spouse is no longer in danger of being “caught” by…
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Time isn’t always enough, especially if things are swept under the carpet. Above anything else, the partner who feels wronged needs to know it won’t happen again. If you’re the one who’s strayed:Be completely honest about why and how the…
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Although the statistics are widely known, it will be a devastating blown to discover that you are now a part of the figures. Today, most marriages in a sense start at a disadvantage, considering the percentages of marriages that will…
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Online chatting with the opposite sex and being faithful to your real life partner are opposing forces. One cannot exist in the presence of the other. As human beings, our primary concern is one of survival. If a basic physical…
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A relationship in trouble is often not addressed by the two people involved perhaps because they prefer to be in denial about it, or they might feel something is wrong but are not quite sure what it is. They might…
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What is an affair? By definition, it is a romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other. In the eyes of some, it is romance and intrigue. To others,…
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One of my friends, Gwenllian, asked me recently whether there was any truth in Tennyson’s famous quote, “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” I didn’t even have to think about that…
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Is Marriage still sacred? We live in a time where it seems little is scared anymore, including marriage. However marriage should be sacred.Webster defines sacred as…regarded with respect or reverence. Webster tell us that reverence is a feeling or attitude…
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In Search of Tranquility (1) The stages of life most times usually follow a predictable pattern. We come into the world, grow up, get married, have children and die. These patterns sometimes vary either in terms of timing or fulfillment…
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I dated someone less than half my age.We even came to a point of moving in together.That was when it all went kerplop. Lessons learned from a middle-aged mother, and a failed May-December romance (I used the word failed, I…
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In marriage, often times one person is a super saver. This person wants to put any extra money that comes in straight to the bank account and keep expenses as low as humanly possible. The other person who is the…
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It is just about every female’s dream to get married then have children. Even though this is the correct order, most people do not follow this order. Instead of couples tying-the-knot before havingthe baby, most couples do the opposite. Some…
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Assuming that the cameras from “Punk’d” are not going to jump out on me, and Ashton Kutcher isn’t going to run out of my closet pointing and laughing at me, I am going to weigh in on this one. Sexual…
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The American Heritage College dictionary defines sacred as, “Dedicated or devoted exclusively to a single use, purpose or person”. I think that in the day and age of our grandparents and their parents before them, this could have truly been…
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In a nutshell, this article can be summed up by stating “you can’t.” But, since one sentence does not make an article I feel that the need to elaborate is very evident. My mother told me a lot of things…
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I’ve opted to use helium as a place to vent. Let me just apologize in advance… Why doesn’t my husband listen to me? Surely those are words spoken by women across the globe. Until now, I would write them off…
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You couldn’t convince me, even just 5 years ago, that I would be married today- and happy at that. I am a former serial relationship-a-holic. I’ve been in numerous relationships over the years- all of them lasting anywhere from 6…
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