Marriage and Divorce

“If she thinks one time a month is enough then it is over!” my friend exclaimed over the phone with me.  “We have fought over this for years and she still does not get it!” Just knowing that three very precious…
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The answer to this question is yes, by all accounts. For one it is a reinsurance factor of bringing trust into the relationship. For another it is a learning factor about each other. As opposed to if you kept it…
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When you first fell in love, romance probably came easily.  Love notes, surprise gifts, flowers and secret pet names were the order of the day.  Anything you could think of to add spice to your relationship was fair game and…
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Until recently, not a lot of effort was expended on research regarding female sexual dysfunction (FSD) (also known as Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD). Most treatment was limited to counselling and it was not uncommon for a woman to approach…
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Romance may mean different things to individuals, but by definition, romance is the art of conveying the idea that two people love each other and find each other attractive. A dictionary explanation of romance includes the idea of a love…
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Time can do many things to a relationship.  It can strengthen the bond between two people and cement a relationship that can withstand whatever life throws at it.  For the not so lucky ones time can be a death sentence…
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When you have children, the romance can be just as alive as it was prior to having them, but you must be careful that you do not send the wrong messages to them. Kissing is definitely a good form of…
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Sex is not everything in a marriage.  You need love, first and foremost. You need companionship, shared interests, shared sympathies. But it is an important part of this human jigsaw. Think about what sex is. It is two people – in…
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A marriage or any relationships greatest threat to happiness often comes from the bedroom. Many couples suffer from a lack of interest in their sex lives, sometimes leading to one or both of the people to search for other ways…
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The joys of parenthood are many, in fact, having a child awakens in a parent a love that most never thought was possible.  Suddenly everything changes, what was once important now isn’t and things that you never thought of have…
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Pulling you close, his lips brush gently against your cheek.  Whispering softly in your ear, he utters the words every woman yearns to hear, “Have I told you lately that the spaghetti stuck in your hair brings out the color…
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I tend to agree with both parties having a say in the budget. It is too bad that it does not work that way for our household. With this said, I must lean toward the wife managing the budget. I…
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Happily Ever After, the MythAnd they lived happily ever after.. There is a reason why they don’t show Cinderella and Prince Charming on the first night of their honeymoon. It’s because they are fighting over who gets to sleep on…
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Tips for a happy marriage My husband and I were married four years ago. Within the twelve months before and after our wedding six of our friends were also married, yet today only two couples aside from us are living…
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Common marriage myths are much like the Loch Ness Monster. Some people believe them, and others do not, but the truth is a little hazy. However, just as with the X-Files, the truth is out there. Let’s have a look…
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As a woman who worked full-time hours for years, and is now a stay-at-home mom to an infant, I can confirm that I am much more exhausted and stressed by my new role than my old! In case any readers…
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How to be a better wife, how to be a better husband, how to be a better person. Being a better person is the key to being better at any thing you do, and it should be the goal of…
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Even after you get married, it is important to keep that connection with your spouse that comes from dating.  Unfortunately, it can seem out of reach between babysitting costs and the price of going out to dinner or a show.  Staying…
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A proverb in the Bible in proverbs 27:15 says “A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping on a rainy day; restraining her is like restraining the wind or grasping oil with the hand.” Nagging is down right ugly and…
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I have to admit, I have wanted kids since I was one. I think in some ways a lot of women are like that. That’s why they make dolls that pee, dolls that whine and cry – it’s a huge…
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There is nothing that rocks the very core of the foundation that a marriage is built upon than a spouse to cheats. Cheating is something that is not only cowardly and dishonest, but it is utterly disrespectful to the sanctity…
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Over the years, it can be difficult to keep romance alive. Many elements play factors in why romances start to dip but this doesn’t have to be the case for many couples. The romance is already there, it just needs…
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True love has little to do with first kisses, and romantic candlelit dinners and more to do with looking forward to seeing your best friend at the end of a day filled with screaming children, carpools, and obnoxious bosses. My…
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Finding out that your husband has cheated on you can be devastating. To begin with it is the shock that catches you and then sadness followed by rage. These emotions will come no matter what you do and you will…
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Date nights for married couples are vital to keep connections positive.  Set aside a set time, but keep open to flexibility and spontaneity.  Dates nights, if you have children, should NOT be viewed as an escape from the kids.  This…
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If love were a language, gifts would be the vocabulary. If love were a tasty meal, gifts would form the ingredients.  If love were a symphony, gifts would be the individual notes, each one lovingly chosen by the composer’s hand….
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Having children is a large life-altering decision.  There are many different factors to consider when taking such a step.  You will want to explore every issue possible to make certain that it is the appropriate time for this move. The…
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Gifts for your wife and the love of your life are the most wonderful ways to express how much the lady means to you, and to tell her how much you deeply love and care for her. Personally, I think…
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Having a strong and happy marriage these days can be a challenge. When you first met it was all about the two of you. Then came marriage and then one of you were pushing the baby carriage. Then perhaps, months…
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What do women want? Everything. There are times when a woman will want you to listen and a time when she will want you to talk. She will alternate between wanting companionship and time to herself. She wants you to…
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