Marriage and Divorce

When we hear that someone has committed an act of infidelity, what comes to mind? For most of us, this would be defined as a married person straying away from his or her partner and engaging in sexual relations with…
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Online, or Virtual Dating has taken the Bar Scene right off the map. When I look at it that way, I can see a huge benefit, because not too many soul mates frequent the bars in my neighborhood. Let’s think…
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Cheating in itself is a horrible experience to go through which can potentially ruin any relationship or marriage. If a person decides to stay in a relationship where cheating has occurred, then that person must find it in their heart to forgive. The decision to forgive will not be an easy…
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An affair will always leave someone, usually more than one person, hurt in one way or another. Even if the affair is never brought to light, there will be something that will happen to steal peoples’ joy and security and…
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Should you disclose an ended extramarital affair to your spouse, if he has no clue and little chance of finding out? There are two schools of thought on this. The school of thought that says you must confess the affair believes that…
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Virtual relationships have taken on a life force of their very own. Real life relationships have become items from the past that will only be remembered in history books. We’ll be able to tell our children and grandchildren how at…
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Lets face it, cheating is as natural as eating. It takes an extremely strong person to withhold from the temptation of another woman or man and especially if you are down or your current relationship is on the rocks. When…
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I was a good girl once, who met a good guy that belonged to someone else and we did a bad thing. It was a fairytale love, that doesn’t have a fairytale ending. We meet at work and that’s where…
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An emotional affair is not sexual, but it can be even more powerful than a sexual affair.  An emotional affair is more difficult to walk away from because there are intense feelings involved.  Unlike a sexual affair, which involves a…
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There are dozens of reasons that women go back to, or stay with, husbands who cheat. Each of these reasons, however, can be placed in two categories: love and/or fear. They love this man that once captured their heart in…
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If you are in any kind of an intimate relationship, infidelity is not to be accepted nor tolerated in a partner.  To say otherwise is to go against the very nature of what it is to be in a relationship….
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I have made some great new friends via the Internet. People who share my interests and my beliefs. When I want to talk to them, I don’t have to worry about getting dressed up and trying to find a sitter…
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Infidelity.  The very definition of the word implies its offense.  Its definition includes terms as “disloyalty”, “breach of trust”, and “transgression”.  One cannot be “disloyal” to someone when loyalty isn’t expected, just as one cannot breach trust that was not…
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Many cultures accept that adultery and infidelity are just a way of the world.  Americans as a rule are the ones who tend to take it personally and will dissolve a marriage on the grounds of infidelity.  In Victorian England…
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Forgetting to pick up your dry cleaning is a mistake. Missing an appointment is a mistake. An affair is never a mistake. Few things in life can destroy a relationship with the force and volatility that an affair can. Whether…
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Loss of trust, heartbreak, betrayal…..these are only a few of the problems associated with infidelity. The question is, should you forgive your cheating spouse? After careful reflection of this question the answer is simple. Yes, you should forgive your cheating…
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I don’t respond at all, it may be hard for some women to understand but it sometimes helps a relationship. My husband has a very high sex drive and I have a low drive so when you add a busy…
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We hadn’t heard anything about our house and jungle ranch after Hurricane Dean. We knew that trees would be down but we didn’t know if the two palapa houses were standing or not. But we did know there had been…
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It’s never an easy thing finding out that your spouse has ventured outside of you marriage. My husband and I have been married now for 9 years and have been together for 16. Sure, we have had good and bad…
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I’ I prefer not to think too much about what I hear and saw I cant imagine my husband with someone else talking,kissing her lips giving and showing her the love that I want carving for .It had been my…
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You need someone to come along and smack you hard in the face. Perhaps you understand why I’ve said this if you’ve grown up in a home torn apart by infidelity. I can understand that the heart has a way…
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Whether one is curious, caught up in the web of cheating, or in a state of hurt and pain, there are serious reasons behind why we run amok with our relationships in a self-inflicted act of cheating and denial. And…
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Trusting anyone is difficult when you think about the fact that it is human nature to lie and change their mind and put themselves first. I believe we must trust someone all we can, but not let our life depend…
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Would you give your partner a second chance if he or she cheated? Would you be willing to put forth the work to rebuild the relationship? Would you walk away without a look back? Would you condemn them to the…
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For me it did not. The question is rather bland and does not really get to the root of cheating in the first place. Why do people cheat? Many do not have an answer, some do and it is rather…
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The animated world over in the ether that is called cyberspace holds special attraction to the human mind. The Internet over its myriad points known as websites, holds out the possibility to bring within your reach any of millions of…
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In a world that has grown increasingly dependent upon technology as a means of communication, it is no wonder that the same technology that can be used to foster and develop the right types of relationships is now also used…
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I realize this title is listed under the “cheating and affairs” category, but I interpret the word “relationship” as having a much broader meaning. People can be involved in intense online “relationships” that have absolutely nothing to do with sex,…
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A woman meets a guy and he asks her, “Say, can I be on your checking account?” “Can I have your credit cards for today?” And any sane woman would automatically say, “Absolutely not!” to either or both of these…
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When a person files for divorce, they generally want to sever all contact with the person they were married to. In some instances, that can be accomplished easily. When children are involved, no matter their age, at some point you…
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