Marriage and Divorce

I am not always in love with my husband.  There are glaring moments when I cannot stand the man.  This might sound quite awful to anyone out there who has the romantic notion that feelings actually have staying power, that…
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Two people went to a manufacturer and complained that his product failed to work. The manufacturer asked them if they read the manual and the first person said no while the second person said yes that he did read the…
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Jealousy in a relationship is like having cancer. It will eat away at you until your marriage is either over or beyond repair. Think of it this way. Imagine having another person in your bedroom with you. You are never…
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The cycle of a relationship ebbs and flows like the incoming tide. Sometimes, the relationship is at a high point, and it seems like life could never be happier. At other times, the mundane routines and lack of spontaneity can…
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Is marriage still sacred? This is a good question. What makes a marriage sacred is the couples in the marriage following the Godly principles established for marriage. If we manage our marriage under our own guidelines and understanding, it won’t…
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Vows and wedding bands will always change a man, but will it be for the better or a turn for the worse? Living together before marriage is key in determining how your bridegroom will change after marriage. (And get this, you…
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The first thing a woman should understand before getting married is that being married has nothing to do with romance.  When a woman decides to marry her man, she is taking a momentous step towards building a permanent partnership with…
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When considering what makes up a good husband the list is potentially endless. As individuals, all women have a different idea of what this ideal man would be. It is easy to determine that no man will ever be perfect,…
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There are many ways that lack of respect can do damage to a marriage. If both partners do not respect each other, trust will not be developed in the relationship. Instead, both parties will think that the other person is…
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The government should not have any role marriage. In the United States, marriage began as a religious ideology, a view of a monogamous, lifelong relationship between a man and a woman. The government initially sought to promote the aforementioned definition…
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A loveless marriage is the worst form of injustice for all parties involved. After all, What is marriage if not the consecration of a couples love? Some may stay in a marriage, “for the kids.” I will tell you first…
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There are many reasons why a marriage fails. One would hope that when you go into your second marriage you are bringing the wisdom of what you learned from the failure of your first marriage. Often by your second marriage,…
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There was a book written that was titled, “Marriage Takes Work, Good Marriages Take More Work”. Truer words I have never heard. Having been through both marriage and divorce, and then marriage again, I can assure you that any marriage…
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“Money can’t buy happiness, but it can buy your way out of unhappiness.” That line from the classic Hitchcock film, Psycho, has always stuck in my mind because, in so many ways, it rings true. Money problems have been cited…
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Soul mates, twin spirits, kindred souls; all are terms used to identify the same meaning: somebody with whom one has a deep and natural connection. Soul mates are believed to share the same beliefs, morals, values, opinions, likes, and dislikes….
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Respect is one of the basic ingredients of a healthy and happy relationship. Not every husband knows how to show respect for his wife though. Message sent, is not always message delivered. How a husband can show respect for his…
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When two people get involved in a relationship, they each bring to that relationship their own set of life experiences and values.  Some of those experiences are positive and some may be unresolved and negative.  Maintaining a relationship with just…
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A soul mate is the absolute true meshing of two souls together in a complimenting way. There will be an instant feeling of comfort and adaptability to this person. Whether it be a lover, friend, or spouse, a soul mate…
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American, meet India. India, meet America. Arranged marriages are definitely not out of the picture, even in the Western culture today. I am a Caucasian female who is in an arranged marriage match with an Indian man who is living…
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A husband’s behaviour can force his wife to be unfaithful and vice versa, because both men and women have sexual and emotional needs which can only be net by an intimate partner. Being in a marriage implies that the couple…
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Many couples today don’t take marriage seriously like our ancestors did several years ago. Today marriage is an old tradition to many people. We learn from our values, or from what our parents taught us growing up. Many years ago…
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When a man and woman leave their mother and father and take the vows before God to become one, those vows are not made to one another, those vows are to God.   To keep those vows each partner in the…
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Change is one thing in life which is definite. We all change over the years, and it is a fact that people’s expectations over time will change as well.  People will grow older, and mature would a partner. This will…
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Ask any couple who have been married for 30 years or more and they will tell you “marriage is not easy”. Yet, couples not only survive marriage but, in their 60s, 70s and 80s, appear to find great comfort and…
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Sometimes divorce is not the only answer. Many people can jump to end a relationship too quickly, sometimes out of anger and sometimes because they believe that it is the only alternative. Divorce can be messy. Not only emotionally, but…
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“R-e-s-p-e-c-t,” as the song sung by Aretha Franklin spells out, is necessary for one’s self before you can give it to another person. So, if you want to know how to show respect for your wife, begin by examining how…
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A husband’s behaviour can force a woman to be unfaithful.  Of course, that works the other way around too, and a man might be driven to be unfaithful.  But we are talking abut women who are married being unfaithful right…
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Marriage is a promise between couples spoken in vows to one another that will unite them for a lifetime. In marriage, a commitment of trust takes place, and each partner agrees whole-heartily to this pledge. It is an obligation that…
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How the times have changed since the days of our grandparents, or even our parents! Some of the changes that have come about have been very positive, but others have led to troubling times for us. As the changes came…
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How to write a prenuptial agreement that the court will uphold? *Validity of prenuptial agreements vary from state to state: It’s important to know the governing of the validity prenuptial agreements does vary from state to state and prenuptial agreements must…
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