Marriage and Divorce

There is no faster way to ruin a marriage than to betray the trust of your partner.  By betraying the trust, you have taken away the security of the relationship.  Once the security is gone in the relationship, then the…
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Saving your marriage is an everyday task, not just an occasional task accomplished like taking the pool cover off the pool every summer. A good strong, solid  marriage is something you and your spouse must work at each day to…
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Marriage is only difficult because we aren’t going into marriage spiritually and emotionally prepared. You know you are ready for marriage when “God is number one” in your personal life, and you want to honor and please God with your…
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One of the most important factors of having a successful marriage is keeping the lines of communication open.  There will be times when you do get on one another’s nerves.  How you handle these situations could make or break your…
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I have been a relationship expert and life coach for many years, so I know for a fact that there are thousands of reasons for why marriages fail, because each marriage fails for a different reason or reasons.  Why each…
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You fell in love and had the fairytale beginning to start things off. Now you have this beautiful garden you created out of this love. Full of a passionate, fruitful promise of a long life together. However, Just like any…
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There are marriages made in heaven, marriages made in hell, and marriages that seem to be made in both places.  No matter what kind of marriage a couple may have, there are going to be both good and bad times.  When…
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Most women would dispute the notion that they do things that work against a harmonious marriage. In fact, most would argue that the try very hard to do the opposite. Nonetheless, there are things that a lot of women do…
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The dilemma in a relationship on whether you should stay or go will be there especially when in doubt. It might also happen in certain marriages without realizing that time keeps passing by and the dilemma still lingers.  When you…
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Not all women are nags. Are we? Some men may simply be sensitive to being asked to do something. Women, we may have found the one sensitive area in a man. Imagine that. They don’t usually have an agenda when…
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Reasons the Marriage Can’t be Saved Marriage is a word that most people put high value and respect to any of both married partners. This is a relationship that is very valuable and pleasant to the ears of many people…
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I didn’t think that the scars of an affair could every be healed, until I found myself in the place of needing a healing. I found that my healing was very much like the affair my husband had, it was…
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You will know it is time for you to go if your partner engages in an extramarital affair, if you are a victim of a continous abuse, can not resolve accumulated problems with your spouse and yet your partner is unwilling to accept counselor’s…
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THE REASONS A PERSON STAYS IN AN UNHAPPY MARRIAGE. For many reasons a person will stay in an unhappy marriage struggling with many day to day tasks. Sometimes feeling trapped, confused, full of anxiety. Exhaustion sets in and as the…
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All marriages do not result in “Happily ever after.” The blending of two lives is a challenging business, requiring hard work, flexibility and compromise on the part of both parties. Couples who have enough in common to succeed in building…
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Marriages fail because the two people involved become self-involved; because life gets in the way and love goes with it. Marriages fail because people get angry and lose themselves in their own motives, because people are never what they seem…
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Men who are mama’s boys do not make good husbands in the beginning but with care, instruction, and common sense they can become good husbands. It all depends how this “mama’s boy” handles the responsibility between his wife and his…
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Interfaith marriages have just as much of a chance of being a successful union as any other type of marriage. Faith is just a small piece of the whole scenario that brings two people together to form a timeless eternal…
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While there are a lot of benefits that most of us know from having sex, few of us know just how many health benefits that there are. It is true that sex makes us feel good, raises our self esteem,…
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There is one very important, often over looked, step to ensuring that getting married is the right move to make. Many people marry for all the wrong reasons, like fear of being alone, money and security, and so on. There…
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Marriage is so hard, for one simple fact alone. People grow, change, learn and love every waking and sleeping moment. What makes it hard is that sometimes the mate that we pick will often being growing, changing, learning and loving at a different rate than…
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The importance of honoring your vows is a matter taken too lightly and in many cases not really thought about. Before you stand up before God,  your family and friends, or if it’s only you and your mate-to-be, you need to have…
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If there were ever a moment my world shifted, it was the evening I found out my husband is transgendered. I found Jeff when I was 22. He was everything I wanted for my 15-month-old daughter and myself. Jeff was…
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The problem with this question is that it is posed in an old world way, suggesting that a married woman is somehow a piece of property to her husband and that the unborn child is some kind of contract to…
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You flipped head over heals the moment your eyes caught each other.  The months or couple of years (depending on how you approach things) leading to M-Day were a whirlwind of fun, excitement and growth.  The two of you did…
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Marriage Does Not Equal Children Choosing to be married and childfree can be easy once you get past the assumption that having children is automatically a part of marriage. It doesn’t have to be that way, and for many couples,…
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Marriage is about team work, and teams fail without open communication. Communication is key to a lasting union between two people. Married couple share their lives, and in order to share and be understood, you must have open lines of…
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They call marriage the joining of two souls. A man takes a wife, a woman takes a husband. However, though they are bound as one not only in the eyes of the law, but in the eyes of love, they should never lose their…
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A no-no? No! Sex should be fun – smiling and laughter are part of fun. Smiling and laughter also indicate that your sexual partner is relaxed and comfortable, which should be the ideal outcome of any physical encounter. Of course…
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To add romance to our marriage; go back and think of the various things you did over the years to attract and keep the relationship going as well as other relationships that you had. Most people went out of their…
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