Marriage and Divorce

No, No, No! Absolutely not! Don’t even think about it! That decision has wrong written all over it. The obvious reason is that you’re both married. Perhaps the less obvious reason, although I’m not sure why, is that you should…
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I’m not going to start quoting bible verses here. Subscribing to theist morals and philosophy is not something I’m going to do but I still can’t justify husbands/partners watching porn for a long, long list of reasons.  The main reason…
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An affair is based on pretense and fantasy: The couple do not have daily problems, children, boring jobs, and financial worries. They are looking at life through rose-colored glasses and the distorted lens of someone “in love.” Affairs are usually…
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The internet not only encourages cheating, it puts your mates hand in the cookie jar. It is the digital ages most powerful tool in assisting your mate into multi-faceted cheating. There are hoards of sights that are constantly tempting your…
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First of all, there is a problem with thinking wives “allow” men to do things. Men don’t “allow” women to leave the house because they have the right to do as they please. The issue is whether women should have…
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Being the ‘other woman’ I am looking for others to communicate with. It is a very lonely road. When I first started my affair – I like to call it my relationship – 9 years ago, I was married for…
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The obvious dangers of infidelity, losing your life-time partner, breaking up your family and hurting your children, if you have any, are not the only problems you will be facing with infidelity. Infidelity is a wholly selfish act, and the…
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In a healthy relationship, where there is trust and openness between the couple not only is the answer yes, but I would add that the wife should join in on the fun.  Seriously though, as with anything in life it…
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Trust is something that is earned; especially between couples. Once the trust is lost it is extremely hard to regain. That is not to say that regaining trust is impossible, but hard. The two major concerns with trust between couples…
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Whether you forgive a spouse for cheating or not depends upon a few different things. Nobody can say that it’s right to forgive or not forgive in a sweeping, generalised statement. Relationships are personal to the people within them, and…
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Whether or not virtual relationships take precedence over real life relationships depends very much on the person,  their personality, their lifestyle and other factors that make up their life.  Most people would prefer to have real life relationships where they…
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The Internet does not “encourage” cheating. A computer has no way of truly determining whether or not you are married or if you are dating somebody. It is merely a tool for people to meet and view pornographic material if…
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I tried to hold on to my husband of 32 years 6 years ago – but I didn’t win. The woman he left me for had already left her husband of 23 years and was determined to have my man….
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Although an emotional affair doesn’t always involve physical intimacy, for those of who have suffered through one, it still hurts nonetheless.  It is a feeling of being violated and being taken for granted.  Unfortunately for the spouse who engages in…
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Trust is esssential in any successful relationship. Being someone who can be trusted is valuable as well.  It can take years to build trust once again.  In some instances, trust can never be established again.  Once trust is lost it’s return…
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Along with most men, this writer’s husband likes to watch pornography. It’s not a problem, although many wives take the view that if their husbands watch porn, it’s only a matter of time before they either go looking for sex…
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Overcoming infidelity in relationships is about making sure that you truly have forgiven your partner. Forgiveness is not about the other person, it is about letting go of any negative feelings you have related to the incident itself. If your…
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The choice to forgive a cheating husband is a personal one, which relies on many factors. Each factor must be carefully reviewed while debating this difficult decision. Somethings you’ll want to ask yourself are: Why did he do it?; How…
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I had always heard of the Internet, but never fully understood it’s grasp until I hooked that phone line into my tower. Of course, visiting on-line shopping sites was just the starter for the addiction. Within only a few days,I…
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I had to think hard to decide if I should write this story. But I decided to share it with you because maybe it will open your eyes to how some things can come about in life. Have you ever…
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With advanced technology, adultery has evolved into an on-line sport. So many websites now offer discreet opportunities for men and women in committed relationships to blur the fine line between what is appropriate and inappropriate on-line behavior. If you suspect…
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So you think your spouse might be cheating online? Well, don’t feel alone. It so happens that millions of couples have gone or are going through this exact same thing. Take it from me don’t go speculating and starting a…
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In actuality, you can’t ‘catch’ your spouse cheating on you. There are tell tail signs, weird phone calls, unexplained absences, leaving at weird times and telling you he’ll be back in a little while. And you ask, “Whats a little…
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With the explosion of the internet, people have been able to communicate in ways that they were never able to in the past. However, because of this explosion, infidelity has been able to flourish alongside it. With numerous dating websites,…
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Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it and cheating on-line, is worse, because how can you compete with a fantasy? Signs that he/she might be cheating on-line are almost the same, just with a twist. On-line cheating…
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Cybersex and Cheating: Analysis Outside Nominal Implications Online chat rooms and game portals have evolved into hook-up arenas for the masses. Flirting and sexual content on the Internet has become the norm. This preponderance has become known to many as…
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What exactly is wrong with clean adult porn? Clean porn has no children, no rape, no animals, no whips and chains and many would classify clean porn as an art. So if a wife is can drag him to a…
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I can hardly contain myself the words are all there and I just cant type quick enough… PORN! PORN! PORN! Sex lies and video tape… In my best sarcastic typing voice “don’t tell me that porn actually arouses your husband?”…
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I completely believe, whole-heartedly, that a man can love only one woman. It is not as complicated as many make it out to be. Love, like everything else in life, is a choice. A man can choose to love only…
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I believe there are several reasons why a person may choose to cheat on their spouse. First off yes, I did cheat, I have no excuse and I am not proud of it. I was married for 20 years, married…
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