Marriage and Divorce

Should you dump your husband or another married man? Absolutely not! Personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to get involved with someone who is married in the first place, whether you are married or not. Just because you…
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I just want to state for the record, I am not a man, nor do I play one on television. I am a woman who after thinking about it for sometime now, what it would really be like to be…
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“Almost Over the Line” The attraction caught Glen by surprise. He never imagined that he would consider having an affair. He had been married to Renee for 12 years, and had always considered himself a content husband and father of…
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Cheating is horrible abuse of one’s trust, and often hurts the person who has been cheated on in many different ways that sometimes may not seem so apparent. Unfortunately there is no clear cut reason why people cheat, if there…
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There are so many different ways to catch your spouse cheating – so many times, women look for the least obvious when in reality, the evidence is right in front of them. When a man decides to cheat, he is…
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As stated in several articles women have affairs because of the attention they are not receiving at home. I have been married for quite some time now and I have thought of having an affair several times now-more times now…
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The Internet offers true anonymity in cheating, which is something that was very difficult to do before. In the early days, pre-Internet, there were chat rooms and the electronic equivalent of pen pals through the network. People would find individuals…
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In the garden of romance grow many fruit, but no fruit is more tempting, desirable, mouthwatering, sensually satiating and coveted than the married man, who has already been picked and now rests in another woman’s fruit basket. Merely knowing that…
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There are defining moments in one’s life that have the ability to shake you to your very core. They are defining in that how you choose to handle or not handle them says something about who you are and who…
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Not at all, if anything there may be a temporary boost to your self esteem or it may address certain needs but you are going to feel even worse at the end of the day. This is the primary problem…
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Signs that your wife is cheating on you are different with every relationship. It could be as plain as the nose on your face, or it could be hidden in plain sight. You just might be missing the telltale signs….
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Though this is slightly different than having an affair, it’s in the same context which can be applied in this situation about the wife having an extramarital affair with another person. There are plenty of factors that contributes to a…
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Cheating in a relationship by definition is stepping out and being unfaithful to the one you supposedly love and are committed to. Cheating breaks hearts, ruins lives, creates future mistrust and just generally has disastrous consequences for all involved. So…
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The following is a message that John Edwards could have used before his 18 month affair, and this is a message that I urge all cheaters and would be cheaters to read. I have cheated, I’ve been caught, and I’ve…
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According to a recent survey in the UK, more than 55% of people are unfaithful to their partners. The rise of the mobile phone, Internet dating sites/chat rooms and greater work freedom for both men and women, ensure that it…
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“I could never stay with a guy who cheated on me,” declared the sincere young woman sitting across the desk from me in my counseling office. I don’t remember the conversation that led to that statement, but I do recall…
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I believe the number one killer of relationships is that there is a lack of communication and mutual understanding between women and men. There are so many differences and it seems like most relationships treat those differences like the Elephant…
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If you suspect that your spouse may be cheating on you, there are many tell tale signs to look for. Besides the physical signs such as lipstick on the collar and cologne/perfume odors on clothing, the following is a list…
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Imagine yourself facing your partner after you had just found out he or she had been unfaithful. What would you do? Would you walk away, or would you cry? Would you scream and shout? In my experience, finding out a…
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ALLOW?!? Am I missing something, or does this mean that one spouse is presuming to absolutely control the actions of another? This is not acceptable behavior, and should not be accepted- two adults in a relationship work through issues together,…
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Telling a friend that her husband is cheating on her is probably one of the most difficult positions someone can face. Some women would rather not know if their significant other is tom-catting around behind her back; some women would…
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When your significant other cheats on you, this is something many women and men experience and of course everyone has their own opinion of how they would handle it. For those who believe in God, follow your heart with your…
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So you see the man/woman you fancy across the room at a party. You edge nervously towards him/her, wanting to make that crucial impression. You finally make the connection between you and you feel really happy. You punch the air…
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Chatting online without the consent or knowledge of your partner is considered cheating. If he/she doesn’t know that you are talking to other people online and you are talking to someone on a one to one basis then you are…
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The question, “Should you dump your husband for another married man?” This is an easy question to answer. If a married man takes his wedding band off to have a relationship with “another woman,” you can bet he’ll do the…
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It is devastating to discover the person you have pledged to spend your life with has been unfaithful. For many it is the end of the relationship. The truth is often that ending the relationship is the easy way out….
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My heart soared every time I heard the little ‘ding’ of the chat box popping up. He was online. My night could begin. My marriage was filled with loneliness and anger. I found comfort and love in the silken words…
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Before you engage in a relationship with a married man (this includes planning to engage in such a relationship), it is important that you know and understand the rules for the ‘other woman.’ 1. Thou shalt not complain when the…
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It is very difficult to bounce back into a trusting relationship after you have caught, or been caught cheating. In your heart, you want to believe that he/she will never do it again. After all, that was the promise he/she…
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How many times have you heard someone say, “if my husband every cheated with me it would be over..”? I have heard this phrase over and over, and I thought the same thing, until it happened to me. My husband…
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