Marriage and Divorce

Someone once asked Jimmy Carter, former President of the United States, if he had ever cheated on his wife. His response was honest, “Only in my mind.” He understood his wife. She believed that it is not just actually being…
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I personally don’t see a problem when a man I’m with looks at porn. Some women take it the wrong way like its cheating or they feel their not good enough. I have asked plenty of men why they look…
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When He Cheats-Coping With Infidelity Nothing destroys a married relationship more than when a spouse cheats. Many issues are affected in the relationship, the least of which is trust. The self-esteem of the hurt spouse is shattered, the love thatbinds…
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Allow? Since when do we need permission of our partners to watch something whether it is on television or in the movie theater? I believe that as adults, we all have the rights to watch whatever we want to watch,…
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Before leaving your husband for another woman’s husband asks yourself is he worth losing everything you have now? Is he going to give you the love and support that you need? Ask yourself is he going to leave his wife,…
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Anyone who has ever heard the phrase, “You lose ’em like you get ’em,” knows that the idea of taking another woman’s husband is absolute folly. Not only are you hurting a completely innocent person (the wife), you are setting…
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In the world of technology today, computers are everywhere. At your work, your home, your schools, and even in the libraries. People look and read so much on the Internet, it is no surprise that some turn to chatting on-line….
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The Internet is just one of many communication tools we have at our disposal and is merely the latest scapegoat for a behavior that is a symptom of bigger issues. Let’s not give the Internet more credit than it deserves….
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Pornography has been a part of life since the invention of humanity.Like many things for some an accepted part of life and for others totally unacceptable.But whether we like it or not it is embedded in our society.Hard core pornography…
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Expect all holidays to be spent alone. The man who you are committed to is committed first to his actual family. The appearances must be maintained. Expect your family will not know him. To introduce a married man to your…
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I have reluctantly chosen the “no” side of this debate thinking that perhaps the question should be rephrased to ask: “Should wives condone the act of watching pornography by their husbands”? That would be the question I am addressing. I…
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Yes, they are, because, with technology coming to the forefront, that is the nature of the age we are gradually moving into and there are a few key reasons for this. First, virtual relationships lend themselves easily to being controlled…
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How often do we see requests for friendship, or for lovers, in various advertisements, with the added desire that ‘no one should get hurt’. This mainly applies to men seeking temporary solace from their negative home situations who either lack…
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Because this is the age of mass communication and media sources, the time is ripe for many new trends like virtual relationships. While the main arena is on the Internet, the technical advances make us consider communication developments, both visual…
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An affair can never be judged as a mistake as it is a conscious choice that each party involved makes, and commits to. This choice is a choice made with the knowledge in hand of what the resulting harm, and…
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One of the worst things that can happen in a relationship is to learn that the one you love is cheating on you. Nothing breaks trust faster than cheating. Few things tear at the heart deeper than the pain caused…
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Its so easy to get into an affair these days. You can get to know about a person on chat or through mails or through friends network or anywhere else. People start an affair when they think they like each…
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Virtual Relationships have created a comfortable atmosphere where individuals can meet without the pressures of image and judgments. Advertisements for singles websites pop up on virtually every website you visit anymore. TV ads have started to point people toward Match.com…
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In this world of hustle and bustle…rush or be run over, people have gotten lost!At least some have gotten lost; those are the thousands of men and women who have for one reason or another, become people without faces. Their…
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I once said i would never forgive a man who cheated on me, then it happened, and no i don’t think i will ever forgive him. But this is the silly part, this just goes to show how certain womens…
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A virtual relationship took over my life for the early part of 2007. When I say took over my life, I mean it, and it was a waste of my time! Don’t do it, you will live to regret it,…
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Often one hears men, particularly celebrities or those in the public eye (British Prime Minister John Major and his mistress Edwina Currie come to mind), when their affairs are outed, bemoaning what a mistake it was (always the men, for…
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Emotional Affair: Is it Worth It? Unfortunately, at some point in our relationship with our spouse or significant other, we feel alone, abandoned and often misunderstood. It is at times like these that we tend to search for companionship outside…
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Though it hasn’t always been so we now live in a society where we feel like we are entitled to instant gratification. We want what we want and we want it right now. Unfortunately, that same belief has translated over…
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Resentment is probably the single most devastating feeling and thought that can exist within the confines of a marriage. It can lead to a loss of intimacy, anger and a general feeling of discontent between even the most loving of…
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A religious minister once wrote that there are 3 marriages in any life: the first is in the passion of youth, the second when we are mature enough to work together and the third is to grow old together. And…
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As my husband and I get closer to the thirty year mark, I know marriages between introverts and extroverts have a chance of survival. My husband spent three hours at Sam’s club last week talking to a man he had…
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Love is the Meaning of Life Love and relationships are probably the most important and unique aspects of humanexistence. Almost everything we do, we do in order to secure and stabilize ourrelationships. Thus, when we feel threatened in our relationships…
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I just read an interesting article about why more men are staying single. It is not because of the usual suspected things like being afraid of commitment, being a loser, or just a playboy. It isn’t the “nice guy” theory,…
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You deserve to be treated with dignity, value, love, and respect in a relationship. Anything short of these is detrimental to you and to your partner in a relationship. We know this, but still see men and women settle for…
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