Marriage and Divorce

For any married couple, despite the incessant debates over monetary expenditures and the additional stress that other elements can cause, one of the most negatively impacting events is that of an affair, when one spouse cheats on the other. In…
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Maybe it started out innocently. You both happened to be in book store looking for a book that will answer all your questions about your marriage. Should you stay or should you go? How can I make him (or her)…
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Marriage is not a guarantee that you won’t fall in love with someone other than your spouse.  Most women don’t get married thinking in the back of their minds that if the relationship doesn’t work out, a divorce will be…
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There is no excuse for infidelity, which is simply another word for cheating spouses, people assume with a fancy word it changes the facts it does not. There is, never has been, and never will be any excuse for cheating,…
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In tough economic times personal finances dip and may even nose dive, but this is not the only casualty. Relationships also tend to suffer as the strain of financial woes test the strength of the ties that bind and threaten…
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There are few things more dangerous than an insatiable male. The Jessie Davis case in Ohio proved that if men could take what they wanted, they would. A former cop named Bobby Cutts murdered his pregnant and estranged girlfriend after…
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Cheating on a person you claim to love risks your life and peace of mind, and upsets the lives of everyone you love. You may have had a string of affairs spanning decades and continents and got away with it…
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In my line of work, I deal with infidelity five to six days a week. The vast majority of our company’s investigations are spousa and the overwhelming majority of the sales in our spy shop are due to cheating spouses. Flustered and devestated people…
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Recent revelations about the extramarital indiscretions of New York Governor Elliot Spitzer have caused America to once again be swept into frenzied media debates about faithfulness and infidelity in marriages. Unfortunately, the consequences for Governor Spitzer are significant; resignation of…
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Is it really fair to continue on with an affair, and how long can you keep that up and on what level? We have so many ways to justify having an affair; we say that we can be completely upfront…
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If you find out that your significant other has been cheating on you, stay cool. Take some valium or whatever. But do not show your cards. Never, never, never confront. At least not until you have done the following: 1….
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Until virtual reality replaces the need for human contact, the answer will always be no. You see the thing is, a virtual relationship and a real life have the same outcome if they are to work out. The ideal goal…
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Should you dump your husband for another married man? Wow. What a question. Why do so many people sabotage their own lives? I don’t get it. Perhaps if you are considering dumping someone, you really shouldn’t be married in the…
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The disclosure this week of Eliot Spitzer’s infidelity has once again focused everyone’s attention the incredible stupidity of people who put everything at risk for the sake of a brief sexual affair. In surprise, we witnessed the sad spectacle of…
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Why is infidelity such a bad thing? After all is it not natural for you as an animal to want to procreate. The sanctity of marriage is just a man mad thing that we have from the past more about…
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A married woman may have extramarital affairs for one reason or another. Even if she regrets her decision at a later date, at the time of the affair, she felt her actions were justifiable. My Husband Doesn’t Love Me This…
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Let’s face it, your spouse doesn’t make your heart go pitter patter every day of your marriage. There may even be times you don’t “feel” love for him/her at all. But if divorce is a serious consideration there are some…
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If you are considering divorce, answer these questions before you go through with it. Before you make mistakes, make sure you’re ready and prepared for what you find out there. 1. Do you truly want a divorce, or are you…
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Is your relationship in danger of an affair? Yes! The undeniable truth is that no relationship is cheat-proof. Every man, and every woman is capable of having an affair, and no matter how in love you are, or once were,…
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As anyone who has experienced some form of infidelity knows, it is not an easy thing to deal with betrayal. Apart from any sex involved, there is usually verbal abuse or bullying, stonewalling of a partner, violation of privacy, many,…
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Two Important steps in Dealing With Betrayal and Building New Trust 1. Take time to grieve.Once you have discovered the betrayal, recognise and accept that it is all right, even necessary, to go through the process of grief over the…
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If your marriage has reached this point, where you are weighing up the pros and cons for remaining together, then I believe the answer is fairly clear.If you can’t answer the following question with a resounding “yes!”, then I fail…
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Sooooo, you ask “Why some married women have affairs”. The answer is simple, because they can! We will begin with Ms. Green, I shall refer to her as Emerald. She introduced me to the world of carnal knowledge at the…
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Key words to consider when contemplating dating after a divorce are “take your time.” Depending on the length of the marriage, it may seem strange and unnatural to be alone. There is a drive to find someone to be with,…
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How do you know if you should get a divorce? Is it the best solution for you and your current situation? You took your vows and thought it would last forever but now you are faced with the possibility of…
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To be honest women cheat, because of the lack of attention in their relationship with their husband. Some women cheat just because their spouse are doing it too. To be honest men have been cheating since the world has been…
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I’ve thought about it. Friends I know have thought about it, some have even acted upon it, but I haven’t – yet. More and more married women are having affairs for many and varied reasons. Marrying Young: She found herself…
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Women have affairs because the breathtaking, handsome man she marries forgets she is still the same female who loved sex when they were dating and first married. After trying to drown himself in sex the first year or so, his…
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There are several schools of thought when it comes to dating and an ex-spouse. Does the ex have the right to know you are dating? Should you tell him or her when you are considering dating again, or wait until…
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Marriage is meant to be a sacred union, once consummated between a woman and man the union spiritually is never broken, which is why divorce is so difficult on the individuals involved, especially the woman. Even though it is a…
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