Marriage and Divorce

Matrimony Miss: Why Don’t People Marry Anymore Alice and Clarence sitting in the tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G. First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes Alice with the baby carriage. This rhyme was often sung about a new couple back in the…
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You are married, or in a relationship. You love your partner with all your heart: you make love to them regularly and you share your life with them. And yet… Sometimes you see a very sexy person in the street;…
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Acceptance Of A Husband Who Never Remembers….. We marry our husbands for more then their gift giving ability. Yes, it would be nice to be remember on special occasions. It is perfectly normal to feel sad and disappointed when our…
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A marriage without love seems like a concept completely alien to the idea of marriage as it has been embraced by the western world. The English speaking world certainly views marriage as being a bond of love primarily and that…
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It seems harsh, never to forgive someone. Surely we can put the past behind us, let bygones be bygones, and work through everything? No. Not always. Sometimes people do things to us we cannot forget. And without being able to…
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Today infidelity is everywhere. Most of the time when there is a spouse that is unfaithful the other one has a hunch or feeling about it. If you are in this position and don’t want to jump to any hasty…
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Lord help us if cheating is not a forgivable sin.  Cheating on your spouse, cheating your employees, cheating here and cheating there.  There is so much cheating taking place in this world today, if it is not forgivable,  a lot…
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Second marriages can and do work. While they are not like second cars or second jobs or second homes, where the second may well be exclusive from the first, second marriages do not have to bear the weight of the…
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What is marriage? Why do people have to marry these days? Couples who get together make conscious decisions about whether or not to having children, and feel that marriage is not necessary to declare their love for each other but…
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Real marriage is built on only one thing: Trust. Some may argue that this is not true. Love, they will say, is the tie that binds. This is a fallacy. The modern idea of marrying for love is predated by…
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Infidelity: You can forgive, but can you ever forget?   From a Biblical standpoint you can forgive. Forgiveness is an act of your will. You simply say I forgive him/her for cheating on me. There is no feeling or emotion,…
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It is said that history repeats itself, and although that may be the tendency, it doesn’t have to hold true. Many people will find that they condition their mate to treat them a certain way through various unconscious clues and…
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Loosing trust to infidelity is very much akin to loosing a loved one to death. This is a catastrophic loss and should be dealt with as such. The initial shock can leave one’s mind reeling. This is the time that we…
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Since a marriage ought to be a partnership of equals, one half of the equation does not “allow” the other half to do something. That said, pornography can add a new dimension to the marriage or keep one partner from…
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It Takes two selfish people to create an affair. It takes the same two people to destroy the lives of their loved ones.Affairs can never be justified under any circumstance. If your unhappy, then you should tell you partner to…
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You have a feeling in your guts telling you that your partner is cheating, you are not sure what to do about it, do you hire a private investigator or confront your partner about it? The feeling isn’t going away,…
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Many of us have been in a relationship and have been heartbroken because our partners have cheated on us. When two people are in a relationship, it is crucial that they trust each other. A lack of trust can often…
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Infidelity, both in the form of physical relationships and emotional affairs, is often far easier to see in hindsight rather than while it’s happening.  “Why didn’t I see?” is a common refrain among betrayed partners. Why is infidelity so often…
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Signs that your spouse or partner are cheating can be concealed and you might have serious doubts at some signs that you will ignore if you are like most truthful spouses. We are blind to their actions because of our…
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Whether unfaithfulness within a couple’s relationship is brought about due to an affair, financial issues, violence, greed, bad communication or any other of many reasons, each “reason” is rooted from one or both of two character flaws, pride and/or selfishness….
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HA-HA! This argument is hilarious! My husband never gets the chance to watch porn because we have two children at home who bop in an out of the room while we are watching television. Our children are the kind of…
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Years ago, I had a best friend. I have one today, as well, but not the same one as I did then. My best friend of yesteryear had been my best friend from high school and moved on to marry…
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To many people feel that the internet encourages cheating, while many people feel that the internet jus makes it easier for those who cheat to cheat easier. If you are involved with someone who cheats then you, know he or…
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Thinking about dumping your husband for another married man? Think again ladies! Respect ! Respect for yourself and respect for everybody involved in this situation. You are putting yourself on an obstacle course for rumors, gossip, and self-destruction. Yet, let’s not forget…
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There is no right way to handle a cheater. In life we are all tempted to stray but the real test is when it actually happens. We all hear “Leave him or her” when to us it is not that…
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Most people who cheat do so because of low self-esteem. It is likely to be something they have acquired during the relationship. Very few people cheat if the relationship at home is satisfying. Whenever anyone cheats it is often a…
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In an ideal world and in an ideal relationship, love is eternal and the two people involved have eyes for no other.  In the real world, sustaining a loving relationship is hard work and the world is filled with lures…
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Should you forgive your husband for cheating on you or file for divorce, in my opinion I would say file for a divorce as soon as you can. If your husband cheats on you once, he will do it again,…
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What do you think is the first thing you would do if you found out your husband is cheating on you? Alot of that depends on how you feel about your husband. Are you still in love with him? Or…
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Regretting Divorce I met my ex-husband in a bar, in 1982. The next year, I moved in with him. Ten years later, we were married. It was the first time for both of us. After living together for 10 years,…
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