Marriage and Divorce

A marriage where both partners are committed to one another and where each of you is willing to put in all the effort needed to make that marriage work can survive anything and everything thrown its way. Every marriage is…
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Deployment:  just the mere mention of the word can send chills tap dancing down your spine and bring a cold hard lump to your throat.  As a military spouse you know that nearly every service member faces a deployment at…
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Many couples complain that although they still love each other the spark has gone from their relationship. They explain that as a new couple they had great sex, sometimes even fantastic sex but now that they have been together for…
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Keeping your sex life alive is easy enough if you just keep working at it. However, the question often becomes not whether it is alive, but how much. For some an active sex life is a few times per month….
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Marriage requires work, and a healthy marriage requires a great deal of patience, trust and mutual respect as well. With the divorce rate continuing to climb, however, it is clear that failure in marriage is about as common as success….
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When two people commit their lives to each other in the bond of marriage, trust and communication becomes a fundamental essential within that union. The two shall be one, is an old adage but there is a truth in this…
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Communication within a marriage is the only way to ensure that your marriage will stay strong and healthy.  All elements of a relationship are changeable, the characters within a marriage, the living conditions, job arrangements, what each person needs from…
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Yes, “I do”. That was the vow we agreed and exchanged during our wedding day if you can remember. If most of us could not remember a single iota of what our vow was all about, it is definitely necessary…
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Putting the “spark” back into your relationship is no easy feat especially, if you are parents, have demanding careers or times is just not a commodity for you. Even the strongest of relationships can fizzle out after some time and…
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Sadness in not the only feeling that comes forth when a spouse finds out a dark secret that can ruin the best of all relationships. Even something easily fixed like be ignored by a spouse can ruin something good if…
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Sometimes our lives can be overwhelming.  When the responsibilities of raising kids, working jobs, managing our households and taking care of ourselves become priorities, our sex life takes a back burner.  When the sexual flame in your relationship dwindles, sputters and dies…
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My spouses sexual past doesn’t bother me in the least bit. And he has quite a past. He was thirty five when we met and became involved. Prior to that he had been single since his early twenties when his…
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During our marriage, when I became disenchanted with our relationship, I blamed my husband. Now, I wasn’t trying to be a grouch. I sincerely believed his actions, or inactions as the case may have been, were the roots of our…
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Laughing during sex is healthy and normal. The only reason you should stifle a laugh is if you are laughing “at” the person you are with. If you are laughing at them and they ask you why you are laughing,…
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Laughter is the best medicine… except for really incredible sex with someone you love, of course. When you combine the two elixers for mental, emotional and physical health, how can you go wrong? Laughter during sex is not a major…
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There are many stages that couples will go through during the course of a relationship, and each will have some effect on the frequency with which they make love. There are some phases that are common, almost every couple will…
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Bring the spark back to your sex life! An active sex life is an important part of any good relationship. But the daily grind, increasing responsibilities, and just falling into routine can wreak havoc on your sex drive and your…
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Almost every relationship that lasts past the bliss of the “honeymoon phase” will, at one time or another, enter a period where your once vital sex life begins to take on very different attributes. Some of these qualities of your…
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Sensuality comes in many forms, finding what’s comfortable for you will be a good guide of how to find the perfect sensual treat for your partner. Perhaps you’d find sharing a decadent slice of cake in matching silk pajamas to…
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We all enter marriage with great expectations. We feel such love and passion, such fire for one another, as we make our way up the aisle to join our best friend and future spouse at that altar that we can’t…
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The simple answer to this question would seem to be that both sexes think about sex equally despite the stereotypical notion, that, it’s all that men think about.” Similarly, it seems that men receive a bad rap in this respect…
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How many times have you heard, “You will never be happy until you are happy with yourself.”? Well, this rings true especially, in a marriage. Of course it would be best to do this before you get married yet, it…
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Romance in marriage may seem like a foreign concept to many, but it need not be. It just takes a bit more work at times. It makes more sense that it would be easier since we are together all the…
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Ah, the blissfulness of being in love. Did your feet actually touch the ground at all during those first months? At the mere mention of your lover’s name, your heart pulsated as if it would explode right out of your…
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Many people believe open marriages are a thing of the past. But, they’re not – open marriages are still alive and kicking. Couples are still finding that swinging with other couples are a positive for their marriages. I’m not an…
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Being that woman are nurturers, givers, wives, counselors, cooks and nannies among other things one must be prepared to respond to her in a pleasing manner. In order to do this you must be attentive to her wants and needs…
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When I hear news reports or read articles concerning the frequency or infrequency of love making, I wonder where the reporters got their statistics from. Certainly if they use telephone or Internet surveys, they do not expect people will answer…
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The best way to keep romance alive in any situation is by using the element of surprise. Everyone loves a fun surprise no matter how young or old you are. The great thing is that surprises don’t have to cost…
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Sex is probably one of the things that stay in the head of many young men for almost every single minute of their waking body. Even in sleep, they hope to get dreams that revolve around sex, be it just…
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MARRIAGE: Developing Intimacy Intimacy is an essential component in developing a strong, robust, rewarding and satisfying marriage. Marriage should consist of an intimate, healthy, warm endearing closeness. This attractive closeness results in building a comfortable, formidable, deeper understanding and appreciation…
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