Reparative therapy is the practice is counseling people whose sexual orientations are either homosexual or bisexual with a view to re-orient them towards heterosexuality. In the process, the existence of any sexual orientation other than heterosexuality is treated not as…
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People judge gays and lesbians because it is socially accepted and normal to judge everything that is different or uncommon. Another reason is that judging someone else is an excellent way of redirecting the attention from the real problem. The…
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The term “marriage” is roughly defined as a union of two people. Whether or not they are of the opposite sex or not. Now I personally am straight and am in love with a wonderful man I hope to marry…
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For those in the GLBT “Gay Lesbian, Bi-sexual, Transgender” community, finding friends who are allies can be tricky. There are several categories in which GLBT allies fall: 1. People who have GLBT friends and like to hang out with them…
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Imagine your very best friend in the whole world coming over your house one day, he or she is very, very excited about something. Your friends level of excitement begins to excite you; your now on pins and needles waiting…
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You have finally made the transition – hopefully you are feeling better in the skin you’re in – but now it’s important to be who you ARE in the community – to “pass”. Things to remember: Hair: When choosing a…
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I would think that to carry on the family tree blood line, would be a good reason to keep a sacred institution such as marriage only between a man and a woman. We are all descendants of Adam and Eve….
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For many students, going away to college means being away from home for the first time in their lives. Although there are feelings of excited anticipation for this new adventure awaiting them, many students may also have feelings of anxiety…
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George Bernard Shaw said “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” I tend to agree. How many times have you said to someone, “What am I, a mind-reader?” or “How could I have…
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Marriage is not how heterosexual people can get an advantage over unmarried or homosexual persons. It’s not about who can inherit communal assets, or get health insurance from another person’s job, or legally cohabitate together. Those things can all be…
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Maintaining a relationship is often a solution best sought internally, rather than externally. Understanding yourselves is the first step to understanding your partners. In one survey, specifically directed at those women who identify as lesbian, 30% said they were “Penis…
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I guess it’s natural for people to want to attribute the nature of women to the failings of the men, all in a bid to understand them. We all know how many men can be but does not and should…
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Figuring out that you are in fact a lesbian is never easy. It comes with many questions, new experiences, and confusion. There are times when you might feel alone, and that you are “abnormal”, or just plain weird. Just know…
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Do male attitudes contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism? The answer is absolutely not. Being gay or not for most lesbians is not a choice. Scientific research has shown that most lesbians and gay men fall somewhere on…
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There are many reasons that the male attitudes would cause a woman to turn to lesbianism. First and foremost would be those women who have been victimized as children by a pedophile. Not that this would cause a woman to change to…
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A man’s attitude has little to do with the reasons women become lesbians. First of all, most women do not choose to be gay. They are simply born that way. Most people with so called, high religious morals, refuse to…
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I have been married ten years. I have been emotionally detached for 10 years. I have spent most of those ten years believing that this was just the way life is. I never once entertained the thought of being with…
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Game players and issues, emotional imbalance is this a trait of most lesbians?Or just an illusion we bring on ourselves? Like many people in the world today it is easier to make a sweeping generalisation and tarnish everyone with the…
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You didn’t have to attend the Miss Manners School of Etiquette to have gleaned some common sense rules about how to behave while dating. Social skills are of the utmost importance if you wish to be perceived as a person…
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When people think of sperm donations, they associate women going to a sperm bank to conceive a child. There is nothing wrong with this method, but lesbian couples have other options if thy want a child. For instance, society is…
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Boredom & In-laws Sometimes a barren sex life is not the issue. There are many things that can endanger the quality of your relationship. Boredom, conflicts with In-laws, and finances are among the most common. BOREDOM:When boredom strikes, the solution…
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More and more, lesbians are caught in the quagmire of Internet dating, simply because it’s easier to find other gay people that way. But if you do the math, you’ll understand why. Our society is still hetero-dominate, and that means…
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To blame ones sexual orientation on the behavior of men is absurd; to say the least. Blaming others for our choices in life is nothing less than cowardly and shouldn’t be considered or adhered to. Most of societies issues today…
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Insecurity. The word, the very thought, and the haunting emotion are all components of one central idea to which the vast majority of us conform. Arguably the defining motive for behavior, a catalyst for creation and destruction, insecurity and all…
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There are certain essential elements in any relationship, regardless of whether that relationship is heterosexual or homosexual. Factors such as trust and honesty, faithfullness and sincerety, make up the foundation of every successful partnership. But still, a lesbian relationship is…
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May be to you the reader, the title is weird. Why would a lesbian woman want to marry a man. “Then she is not a lesbian” you would say. She is just a normal woman who wants a normal relationship…
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To be quite honest, I don’t feel the workplace is where you discuss your sexual orientation of any kind, except on the application to say if you are male or female, and only if it asks even then. If you…
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Lesbian Bed Death: What’s it All About? Many lesbians say that their relationships end due to “Lesbian Bed Death”- the lack of sex in the relationship. I contend that Lesbian Bed Death is not the cause, but rather the symptom;…
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Being transgendered is not a path I would recommend to just anyone. It is by far one of the hardest ways to live, even if you’re just trying to be yourself and do not fit in with the norms of…
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To the outside observe lesbians are often categorized as either feminine (femme) or masculine (butch.) Most lesbians have been asked at one point or another if they’re the femme or the butch in their relationship, or the variation question of…
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