No relationship is easy especially when you’re fighting the odds in a homosexual relationship. Making it work in a lesbian relationship is the same as making it work in a heterosexual relationship. It takes hard work and a lot of…
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The mind and heart of a lesbian is no different to any other woman. We are just as smart and just as stupid as other women. We are just as strong and just as brave and just as weak and…
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I have a lot of lesbian friends online and many who ask me if I know of any good lesbian dating sites. I’m not that good at match making but have a lot of single lesbian friends and so I’ve…
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Living life as a lesbian, gay or bisexual isn’t always easy as it seems. It isn’t always about sex with the same gender. Its about love and how you feel with person whether a man or woman. Most women turn…
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The first question to taunt is why do people judge in the first place? A person comes into a family restaurant smoking a cigar in a non-smoke environment and he is really loud making noise and laughing. He is disturbing…
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Historically, there have been two classifications for lesbians: Butch and Femme. These classifications have been, in the past, embraced by lesbians, who strive to live up to the image. Since these original classifications, several others have emerged that will be…
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Many days pass by that I do not think my life and relationship is different from a heterosexual one. It is the truth, it is not. The only difference, if you count it is the minuscule fact that my partner…
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When looking at lesbian culture I have established that there is an amazing undercurrent of judgmental views and opinions, yet ‘we’ as a whole, do not like to be judged.Is it just that we do not like to be judged…
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Male Attitudes Contributing to Sexual Desire There is nothing that a man can do that would cause a woman to desire a relationship with other women. Many times we hear a woman say that she’s considering being with a woman…
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In the way of Tantra, every human is the combination of both the genders, male and female. It should be so, because every child is born by the physical relation of a man and a woman. Man and woman both…
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Things every lesbian needs to know when looking for love are various. I will start with the unwritten young lesbian dating rules. Do not date women with children, do not date bi-sexual women, and do not date married women. Throw…
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Before writing about the effects of relationships because of Gender Identity Disorder, it is imperative to diagnose first what the disorder is not. A person experiencing Gender Identity Disorder is not gay. A gay person is attracted to their own…
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You cannot break the rules if the rules have never been defined. This is an important lesson for any relationship. As no two people are the same, neither are the relationships that they have with each other. Though we tend…
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Changing genders, switching sex, or any host of terms coined to describe the transition of going from physically male to physically female elicit a vision of these people which isn’t always accurate. Undergoing the process of gender reassignment is never…
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If you are a lesbian looking for love the first thing you must consider is the place in which you are looking for it. As simple as it might sound, it is none-the-less a fact that lesbians tend to get…
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Jane Addams was the first American woman to win the Nobel peace prize, which she won in 1931. She was born to an upper class family, and was expected to marry well, have children and be the perfect housewife; This…
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Gender Dichotomy Vs. Universal Bisexuality North American culture relied more heavily on a dichotomous binary notion of gender, which positioned female and males into mutually exclusive categories where differences between them sprang from biological processes, which ultimately justified the divide…
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Alright, so you’ve caught your lesbian. Now what are you going to do with her? If I know dykes, the first date might very well be a negotiation of romance followed by sex followed by discussion of childhood traumas, all…
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So you have made your first huge step towards attaining gender reassignment surgery (GRS) which was confronting the issue and seeking professional help, congratulations! You know feel ready for the next big step in the journey which is learning how…
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Living transgendered can mean many things. As each person is an individual so too are their experiences. Transgender is an umbrella term which includes transsexuals, transvestites, and basically anyone that is gender questioning. For sake of ease the following will…
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I think you need to know what is going on with you. I would not go looking for love if I did not know myself well enough to know what I was looking for. This also includes if you are…
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[Title: Do you have what it takes to be a loyal friend?] Sometimes it’s hard to be a good friend. Being a good friend can be a lot of work, especially when your friends don’t make it easy. It would…
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The terminology found within discourses of gender variance today is often seen to be in a constant state of flux. Medical health practitioners use a book aptly named the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) which is close…
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Changing sexes is one of the only things in life you will do which is nearly one hundred percent for yourself. It’s a very personal, liberating, and yes terrifying experience. One of the hardest parts of the process for many…
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Any intense relationship, whether emotional or physical, is a form of cheating. Whether it’s with someone of the same sex, or the opposite sex, it is still a form of betrayal to your partner. There are very rare instances where…
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You meet your dream mate. You fall in love. Life is wonderful. The stressors begin. And so does the violence. The apologies follow, the “I promise it will never happen again.” So, life returns to normal. Even better than before. …
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Is there any group of people more misunderstood than transsexuals? Many people for years, and even today, have operated under the assumption that transsexual people were sick in body and mind and incapable of leading full or productive lives. Many…
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Studying gender variance is important to the field of gender studies and human sexuality because it allows us to understand not only what is deemed as acceptable forms of gender expression, but also the limits and restrictions that are imposed…
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In The BeginningA little history and how he told me that he wants to be a she.We met in 1993. We worked at a convenience store, flirting as we put away a delivery. He dressed a bit different from everyone…
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I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. He is a female to male transgender with no surgeries. Had I not known he was an FTM when I met him I would have never guessed. …
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