It is unfair to single out a group of people and then deny them rights enjoyed by the rest of the citizenry. It is called discrimination. It really is that simple: Do we have the right to target a group…
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The keys to establishing a healthy lesbian relationship are for the most part the same as those needed to establish a healthy relationship between two men or a man and a woman. It goes without saying there are some things…
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Homophobia is nothing more than a form of prejudice, and all prejudice is rooted in ignorance. For homophobia to be truly eradicated, the ignorant among us will have to do that which they have been unwilling to do for so…
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On September 22, 1958, Joan Jett was born in a Waynewood, PA. hospital as Joan Marie Larkin. By the time she was 12, her family moved to Los Angeles, and by the time she was 15 she had formed her…
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There are so many misconceptions about what is “gay” and what isn’t. There is also no way to truly define what gay is without having certain gray areas, such as bisexuality, physical attraction that is not acted upon and single…
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January 18th, 2004 Showtime broke new ground with the debute of “The L Word” the first show on television to focus on the lives of lesbians as a main plot. Being the first of anything is a guarenteed way to…
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The idea that sexual orientation can be selected either consciously or unconsciously is both insulting and degrading on several levels, for the implications and the reality of sexuality. The attitude that a man can turn a lesbian straight is as…
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Lately, there has been serious debate over whether an individual’s sexuality is a choice. Some people believe that being gay is a choice that an individual makes and that they can “choose” to be straight at any time. Others argue…
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Joan Jett defined rock and roll for an entire generation of young girls who aspired to be like her. The oft leather-clad singer is best known to the masses for her unique brand of simple, stripped-down, three chord rock and…
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She walks into the pub, eyes on the bartender and nowhere else, she’s only after a drink because it’s been a long day and she wants to unwind a little. Her jackets still on and its worn in, but nor…
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So it’s finally come to that awkward post-breakup question- Can we still be friends?The answer is yes, if you follow the rules. Not guidelines, but rules. Stick to these rules and provided the two of you are actually over each…
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Falling in love is blissful; it is a time of abandonment when all caution is thrown aside for the excitement, the exquisite joy of merely falling… But now that you’ve landed in yet another unfulfilling, unadventurous, boring white bread without…
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The mind and heart of a lesbian…Break-ups! Girls, girls, girls…. Why can’t we all play nice? Break-ups on the average generally aren’t very nice.. let’s face it.. there’s a reason why you broke up, right? Okay then… things didn’t work…
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What is Lesbian Cool? Anyone who has been out for a while has likely tried visiting the clubs, reading the magazines and e-zines and has even checked out some local options on-line. Then there are also your local community and…
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Yesterday the Gay Pride Parade took place in my city. There were some interesting articles on the lives of the gay community, Especially touching were the interviews of mothers of lesbians. None of them said that male attitudes contribute to…
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If you are lesbian or have been in a relationship with a woman you know we can be intense and emotionally charged. An argument can occur over who forgot to water the plants or take out the dog. Normally we…
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The thought that men or anyone from the opposite sex contributes to why someone is gay is more than just absurd it is down right hilarious. It is ever so hilarious to me because I am constantly asked “what happened…
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Oh my! Can it really be yet another issue that men want to take the credit for? Yes, I said ‘credit.’ Why? Because being a lesbian is not a curse, it’s not a choice, and it’s not wrong. So, asking…
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It was never this tricky at Uni. All you had to do was hang around the Junior Common Room for long enough and eventually you’d catch her eye, that slender gamine goddess you noticed in the Bio-chemistry lab; or flop…
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What about Lesbian Bed Death? It seems like almost any conversation about the nuts and bolts of Lesbian sexuality almost always leads to some mention, however muted, of lesbian bed death. The mere utterance of the term is enough to…
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The mind and heart of a lesbian, firstly may I point out far more often than not even in heterosexual relationships the conflict of the heart and mind cause so many problems. So why are lesbians different? Besides as a…
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Online articles won’t give you all the information you need about love. Most of what you need to know will happen through your own trials. You need to have these experiences to know what works for you and what doesn’t….
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Alphatude Lesbians have ‘tude. Alphatude. Alpha, from the first letter of the Greek alphabet, meaning coming first, being number one, always numero uno. And ‘tude, from attitude, meaning a state of mind, or manner of carrying oneself. Alone, having alphatude…
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Lets see first there was Heather- the ex-gymnast with severe OCD. She rearranged my entire bookshelf while I was sleeping. Then there was Britney, the seemingly innocent vegan/ eco-activist who slapped me when I the salad I ordered came with…
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Why are so many lesbians rushing to the altar? Why did my spouse and I long to marry? Why did we make that trip to Canada this summer to marry? Why was it important to us to live where our…
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Freud stated we are all bisexual and this makes sense. If we would all be straight straight or gay gay to put it, we might only get along with people of our own or the opposite sex, without communicating with…
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Yes. Personally I think females who may be lesbian may turn this way because they have had bad and unsuccessful relationships with the men they have had walk into their life. Every relationship I had with a male was unsuccessful…
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To quote a well known cheater; it depends on what your definition of is, is. Actually we must first define what we mean by “sleeping with”. We will assume that it includes intimate sexual relations. But again the answer to…
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The male is partly at fault for same-sexual behavior in females. Eve fell to temptation from the serpent and ate forbidden fruit first. However, Adam ate, too. Adam partook because he wanted Eve to not suffer alone. Naturally, religious fantasy…
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So you want to join the millions of people who swear by meeting their potential partner on the world wide web. Now where do you start? I believe the first thing you need to think about, is what it is…
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