The L-Word was not only a groundbreaking and wildly successful television show, it was a show that shed light on the lesbian community. As with real life, some was good, some was bad, and hardly everyone in the lesbian community…
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As Lois prepared for her date with Amy, she wondered if she could be the one. Amy had approached her at a party and seemed forthright, funny and fabulous. (It didn’t hurt that she was also really cute.) But Lois…
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I’m sure everyone has heard or read about the lesbian couple in California who recently exchanged wedding vows after waiting for fifty five years. Their story is an inspiration and testimony to lesbian relationships as a whole. We want to…
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I will be the first to admit that I say “I am non judgmental” all the time, but the reality is that I am. We all are to some degree no matter how hard we try not to be. When…
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I feel it is important while explaining butch and femme classifications we must also understand why we have “butch, femme classifications to begin with. Speaking as a butch lesbian I feel I have no more control over being butch than…
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Acceptance for us all begins with acceptance of oneself. It tends to be the hardest accomplishment. Whether we need to accept we are not our ideal weight, or not as attractive as we would like, accepting ourselves is crucial for…
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We’re coming to get you Barbara! And we’re bringing our U-Haul. Lesbian singles? Is there really such a thing? Honestly, how long do we remain on that “list”? The problem with meeting lesbian singles is that they may only be…
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It does not matter what colour you are, where in the world you live, or whether you are in a relationship with a man or woman, you should be allowed to be as you desire to be. Just because a…
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In the last decade, a lot has changed when it comes to lesbian visibility. Ever since Ellen DeGeneres came out of the closet and told the world she was gay, many other gay and bisexual women have followed her example….
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Whilst many of us now live in more liberated times, it can be easy to forget that as little as twenty years ago, things were very different. Homosexuality may have existed for as long as the human race, but it’s…
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Not all gays and lesbians are born gay/lesbian. For some it is a choice. Why are more and more men and women, or so it seems, choosing this lifestyle? Perhaps it is evolution at work. What is the primary reason…
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As a gay person, the very question of whether the attitudes of men contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism infuriates me. It infuriates me because I no more chose being gay than I chose to have brown hair…
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The White Night Riot began sometime on the evening of May 21, 1979 as a reaction to the verdict handed down to the assassin of San Francisco Mayor Moscone and San Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk. While they were gunned down…
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The top online lesbian dating sites are actually few and far between, just like dating sites of any genre there’s a lot of garbage out there designed to do little more than cull your information for sale to other companies…
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The state interference is the lesser of evils. It is, however, and always has been, a great evil. Social and religious institutions are by definition beyond the legitimate purview of the state. Though the status quo, makes my opinion moot,…
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Do I believe that men contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism? Absolutely. I say this because I have a cousin that is a lesbian and she told me first hand that the reason she turned to women was…
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The concept that a person can treat another in such a manner as to change their sexual orientation is absurd. Sure people comment about it all the time in a joking manner, but it isn’t really true. The attitudes of…
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I have said it before and I will say it again until I’m blue in the face: marriage is between a man and a woman only! No ifs, ands, or buts about it! The gay and lesbian lifestyles are condemned…
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As a pre-operative transexual, I wake up every morning and it is quite a struggle for me to even get in the shower and go through my morning routine, as the first thing I have to do is get naked….
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Opponents of same sex marriage need to ask themselves why they are against two people who deeply care about each other from getting married. If the reason has anything remotely to do with religion then I would strongly suggest…
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As Lois prepared for her date with Amy, she wondered if she could be the one. Amy had approached her at a party and seemed forthright, funny and fabulous. (It didn’t hurt that she was also really cute.) But Lois…
Read more
Whilst many of us now live in more liberated times, it can be easy to forget that as little as twenty years ago, things were very different. Homosexuality may have existed for as long as the human race, but it’s…
Read more
As a gay person, the very question of whether the attitudes of men contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism infuriates me. It infuriates me because I no more chose being gay than I chose to have brown hair…
Read more
The White Night Riot began sometime on the evening of May 21, 1979 as a reaction to the verdict handed down to the assassin of San Francisco Mayor Moscone and San Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk. While they were gunned down…
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Finding lesbian relationship advice and support can be hard. I have had a friend who was a lesbian and she complained often about not being able to find supportive people around her. Although I was supportive of her, being a…
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The state interference is the lesser of evils. It is, however, and always has been, a great evil. Social and religious institutions are by definition beyond the legitimate purview of the state. Though the status quo, makes my opinion moot,…
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Why would anyone be gay if they weren’t born that way? Let’s look at the problems for gays and lesbians. As teenagers, when most people are having their first sexual feelings, a gay or lesbian will find that they have…
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The top online lesbian dating sites are actually few and far between, just like dating sites of any genre there’s a lot of garbage out there designed to do little more than cull your information for sale to other companies…
Read more
Do I believe that men contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism? Absolutely. I say this because I have a cousin that is a lesbian and she told me first hand that the reason she turned to women was…
Read more
The concept that a person can treat another in such a manner as to change their sexual orientation is absurd. Sure people comment about it all the time in a joking manner, but it isn’t really true. The attitudes of…
Read more