We judge what is unknown to us unconsciously, so we judge not knowing we too, will be judged. Why do People judge homosexuals? We judge because we are psychologically and sociologically wired to have automatic filters to know who belongs…
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Since the rise of feminism, there has been a quote called “gay by choice” or GBC. This quote defined women who take on lesbian relationships because of frustrations with men. Women in heterosexual relationships have felt virtually powerless to men…
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For the millions of people out there who consider themselves bisexual, the answer would be a solid yes. Bisexuality is the realization that just as you are drawn to the masculine strength and simplicity of a man, something stirs deep…
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Bisexuals should in no way be considered homosexuals. In today’s society it is hard enough for a bisexual person to be treated as though their sexual orientation is valid, without masking it under the label of another sexual orientation. Homosexual…
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Cynthia Nixon, the former Sex and the City star who once identified as straight and who now identifies as a lesbian has been quoted as saying “I don’t pull out the ‘bisexual’ word because nobody likes the bisexuals. Everybody likes…
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Let us begin with a scenario: You meet a woman under coincidental circumstances and fall head over heels in love. The two of you get an apartment together, develop a healthy lifestyle, and have a mutual dream of marriage and…
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The decision to come out is of the sole discretion of the individual. But suggesting that those who are ready and willing to come out should stay in the closet is hypocritical. No matter what side of the debate you’re…
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Do male attitudes contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism? There are multiple questions here disguised as a single question. Can people choose to be homosexual? Do men encourage women to have lesbian experiences? If so, do those lesbian…
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First of all I seldom use negative terminology as a form of endearment. However the vast majority of us at one point will use negative terms at times for humour or perhaps as a nickname for one another. For example…
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Don’t Ask Don’t Tell violates the constitutional rights of gay and lesbian Americans serving in the well organized militia. America’s revolutionary constitution writers included the Second Amendment giving Americans the right to join the well organized militia. They did not…
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You may recall a few days ago a gay couple had a kiss-in on church property. Church officials called the police who cited the couple for trespassing on private property. The church said that they were doing more than just…
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One of the most terrifying things that can occur is waking up one morning and realizing that you are married to the wrong person. This has happened thousands of times the world over. There is nothing particularly special or unique…
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Regardless of where marriage originated, it was adopted by all of the major religions. we currently use that specific definition of marriage due to it being taught to us from birth by what we generally consider civilized society. where it…
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You will recognize her instantly. She’s the one leaning against the bar, holding her bottle of beer by the neck, casually peeling off its label. Her clothes speak of her attitude- confident, slightly cocky and mysteriously sexy. She doesn’t follow…
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Serving in the armed forces use to be looked upon as an honor and an obligation. Generations of men were reminded every year on their 18th birthday to register with the selective service. Although the registration was suspended in April…
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The Stonewall Riots in 1969 were not the beginning of the gay rights movement as many have thought. The Daughters of Bilitis or DOB was the first lesbian rights organization in the United states. In the 1950’s there few options…
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I believe that men’s attitudes do sometimes contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism. Some women are born feeling and knowing that they are destined to be a lesbian and some women are abused mentally, physically, and emotionally by…
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As a female I do believe it is possible that male attitudes could contribute to a woman deciding to be a lesbian. If a women has been treated badly by men throughout her life she may decide to try a…
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My loft bed squeaks at the slightest movement. If I lived in a more private apartment, this wouldn’t bother me but I live in a Manhattan studio about the size of a college dorm room with two other girls. One…
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Breakups tend to make you question everything about yourself. Your self confidence and your pride make you wonder if you can ever let anyone in your heart again. You’ll work your brain so hard as to why the relationship failed….
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The fact that anyone thinks women or men choose to be homosexual is ludicrous. As a female who has questioned her own sexuality I know what it is like to struggle with not being accepted or even understanding who you…
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I have to admit when I was younger I was all about not just what was cool, but what was lesbian cool. It seemed like one of the single most important things in the world. If I didn’t know what…
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Interesting debate. And I’ll have to side with Yes here. Now being a man it’s really hard for me to comprehend why women may do anything just like how women may have trouble comprehending our ways. What I do understand,…
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One of the happiest days of many peoples lives is the birth of their child. It’s not long before they realize that parenting like the old Army recruitment slogan says is “The toughest job you’ll ever love.” Being a good…
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What is a girl to do? You’re out of the closet, you’re ready to date or try to make new friends within our wonderful lesbian community yet have no idea where to start. Where have all the good girls (Or…
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When I got married, my husband’s attitude was enough to drive anyone to lesbianism – man or woman, but, it didn’t and I am still straight. He was a wife beater and his family, were loud and boisterous – the…
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How is it possible for man to contribute to women making the choice to be lesbian. We all as people are given our own minds and thoughts. We ourselves have the ability to make up our own minds about anything…
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Dating a man or a woman or in some cases maybe both is really the same. You have to impress the other person and put your best face forward to gain their interest. You also have to be yourself so…
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Nothing has helped more to bring the issue of gay & lesbian rights forward than famous celebrities having come out of the dark. Melissa Etheridge is an awesome performer and ingenious in her writing. To appeal to the masses, she…
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This debate is quickly squashed by the notion that a woman chooses to be a lesbian. In this I am an expert. I spent a major portion of my first 24 years of life trying to choose what I thought…
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