Friends and Peers

A lot of people come down with the “blues”. Sometimes it’s from a personal lost and other times it’s caused lack of personal accomplishment. However, more than likely, if a person is suffering from the “blues” they have just gone…
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There are friends, and then there are FRIENDS. My brother was a FRIEND. He was a very energetic, friendly guy, and as a nurse, he befriended all he encountered…his patients, the wait staff in restaurants, the checker at the store,…
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Okay, so your friend is going through an ordeal and is feeling bluer than the sky, what do YOU do? Typically, the usual answer or cure one would give is to cheer her/him up,take them out and let them forget…
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Blame Game or Just Mind Games ? The words blame and game are both indicative of a manipulative and juvenile way of thinking and point of view. Being competitive by nature, I find very little challenge in manipulation and playing…
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Large group or small group? I favor the small, quality groups over the large group. Ever try to remember 25 different birthdays, anniversaries and Good Lord knows what else, let alone trying to remember what everyone drinks? And then try…
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Friends The path through life can be a very long and tedious journey. It can be, but it can also be to short to fit all the things in that you would like to. On this path we meet so…
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Solitude And The Hedgehog Winter Dance Sticks and stones indeed! Many people may not realize this, but words are like spikes and barbs that hurt even more. Even worse, how we act toward another could leave a trauma in the…
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It probably wouldn’t take you to long to tell your girlfriend her skirt was caught up in her panties or let your favorite co-worker know it was obvious to you, as well as everyone else at the company Christmas party,…
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Your face hurts from the muscles clenching into a smile as you stand there, not sure how to act. Being the third wheel is not a pleasant experience, especially when your friends are newly in-love/lust and can’t let each other…
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True Friends vs Friends of the Moment I have pondered this issue over and over the last few months. I naively thought I knew who my true friends were until a situation I never expected came up with devastating repercussions….
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Man, naturally, is a social being. This means that he must associate with other people in order to survive. In today’s world, it is therefore more advantageous for a person to have a large group of friends than a small…
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Every girl has at least one BFF (Best Friend Forever). Friendships are essential and healthy for everyone to maintain. Your best friend is the person you can always turn to and count on when you need a shoulder to cry…
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Ironically, I was just having a discussion with my friend the other day about the importance of having discussions with your friends. Every now and again one of my close friends and I will find our way into a philosophical,…
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I have a plaque that hangs in my kitchen about friendship. It reads “Friendship is the wine of life”. It was a gift from a friend more than twenty years ago. Given long before I decorated my kitchen with a…
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Friends are funny things: sometimes they can feel like one of the best things that have ever happened to you and at other times the absolute worst! This being said, as I reflect on various seasons of change and moments…
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We’ve all had one. The friend that drains all the energy from you, day in and day out. You walk on egg shells every time you are around them. Friends are supposed to be there to have fun with, you…
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Sometimes, we all have trouble finding true friends, and though the qualities we look for in our friends generally differ in accordance to different people, in the end, we are all left with one puzzling question. Which are the qualities…
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A small group of quality people whose company you enjoy is far more rewarding than a large group of people with whom one may casually spend time with, but have very little in common with. Having a smaller more intimate…
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I will be honest and admit that I am what the pagan community call a psychic vampyre. What this means is simply that I enjoy feeding off whatever emotions I can pull from someone the strongest. Love, hate, lust, it’s…
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6 Ways to Stay On your friend’s Radar 1. Pick a day and Phone out or Text out When we take a deep look at our so called busy schedule, we may fin that there are times that we are…
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I have known many good people in my time. My mother was one of them. I can remember her telling me only a couple of months before she passed away that a nurse who had been tending to her had…
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The Importance of a Promise. All I am is my word. It is a reflection of what is important to me; of my beliefs. It is what others use to judge me. It is my honor and my integrity. And…
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Stop and think before you make a promise. Try and realize just what you are getting yourself in for. It is much better to say, “I’m not sure I can do this,” than make a promise that you cannot fulfill….
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Sometimes life will hand you the most wonderful things in life, and suddenly strick with something so horrible you would think it was a nightmare. I’ve had my fair share of these moments, but I’ve learned something from it all…
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Many people under-estimate the power of kindness. To explain the benefits and the way in which kindness gives an individual power, this article seeks to explain the logical sequence and help the reader to understand the significance of the power…
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It hurts and you want the hurting to stop. There is a way to stop the pain and it all depends on you. Remember the joke about the guy who goes into the doctor, holds his arm out, swings it…
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True friendships are important to everyone. People hang out with their friends when they feel bored, they have fun together, they share each other’s joys and triumphs, and confide in each other about their thoughts, feelings and fears. While friends…
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Sex in a friendship – Is it natural? It is neither natural or unnatural, being a very tricky question especially in these days of ‘friends with benefits’. I guess it is what the two ‘friends’ desire. But mixing sex and…
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It was Saturday night. Outside the dorm, young men and women were walking hand in hand to the campus activities. Others were just strolling under the moonlight talking lovers’ talk. The sky was clear and the moon peeked out to somewhat reward those…
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FRIENDSI have a couple of friends out there who I have known for over 20 years. I think too many people use this word (FRIENDS) too freely and it diminishes its true meaning. These two friends are a married couple…
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