Guests outstay their welcome for many reasons. Some are having a fabulous time; however, some have had too much to drink so do not know when to go home. But, when it is time to go home; everyone should go….
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People who are uninvited have to realize that they are just that: “uninvited.” They must realize that you are having to make special preparations for them, that they have caused undue stress; that you will treat them as best as…
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A special occasion, such as a milestone birthday or anniversary is looming on the horizon, or the holidays are just around the corner, and it is your turn to give the party. Unfortunately, it has been a rough year financially,…
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Everyone, at one time or another, has had to deal with uninvited house guests. Those, especially, who live in the more popular vacation destinations such as Florida, New York, and Los Angeles, have more than one story to tell about…
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What is the price of technology to family life? I think the price is steep. What do we give up in spending time with the computer, the television, the i-Pod, our cell phones, just to mention a few of the…
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Gentlemen, let me ask you a question. Are you ever the recipient of a guilt trip due to your love of sports? Whether you are a participant or spectator, the question is usually the same…”How can you watch/play sports all…
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What is family to most people? What is their purpose and being in your lives? Are they those lovable people that protect you from everyone no matter what? Or maybe they are just people who you never actually chose to…
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Ah, family. Sometimes you can’t live with em, and you can’t sell them on auction sites.I am happily married and have three children. For the most part, everything is rosy, but I have my fair share of four-letter word family…
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Family communication is a complex phenomenon. The problem is that the communication has conditions that are always quietly instilled within the content of a parent’s children. The probability that a parent’s children will succeed is always in question and is…
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I am going to do this write up in the African setting. In Africa, there is a traditional believe that sons are more important than daughters. This sometime gets worse to an extent of which women with no male child/children…
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We hear that children aren’t as responsible as they should be for their ages, be it 8 or 18. And yet I’ve noticed that what adults require of a young person-such as don’t interrupt, talk in a kind voice, don’t…
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We are constantly being called to “upgrade”. It is seen in commercials and programs that satirize the entertainment community. Wherever we go or whatever we do, that call is made by the world to get the latest things, gadgets, toys…
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Families have been ruined and countries destroyed by trying to ascertain whether a daughter or son is more trustworthy to receive an inheritance. Parents and children alike have been deceived and dishonored, wills have been contested and fortunes lost over…
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Children really start out with only having one chore – keeping their bedroom clean. In spite of the fact that very little seems to be required of them, many parents have a hard time getting them to accomplish this one…
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Family Reunions have become extinct in some families, while flourishing in others. What are the beneficial reasons for having a Family Reunion? One main reason I believe is it helps extended family members stay in touch. When the only time…
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I’m approaching the half century mark and I should know something about family. I should know the mechanics, the frame work. Who does what? the word “dysfunction” to some, creates imagery of an abusive, intolerant families, drug abuse and father…
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Families and What It Means To Be Part Of A Family What does it mean by family and does family have to be biological? For you to really belong, is blood thicker than water, do we have to be from…
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The old saying goes that guest and fish tend to smell bad after 3 days. In the Southeastern region of the United States we are famous for our hospitality. It is an ingrained part of the culture of the region…
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When you have to constantly watch people because they are so messy, it is impossible to enjoy yourself as a host or hostess. Think about your guest list the next time you have a function, or if the messy guest…
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You should not allow guests to bring unwanted pets because you do not know the pet yourself. Cats have been known to scratch young children’s faces, and many people believe they are similar to human beings, in that they become…
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There are very few parties where alcohol is not served. Whether it is wine, beer, mixed drinks or a combination, alcohol is a mainstay of adult parties and events. It is important, therefore, that the host or hostess, plan a…
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Nothing is more maddening than spending quite a lot of time and money on cleaning and preparing your home for a visit from friends or family and being left with a huge mess once your guests have departed. It is…
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The potential of having to deal with a rowdy guest is one of the downsides of hosting a social event. You must be tactful or the rowdy individual could become offended, causing the behavior to escalate and cast a shadow…
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Things to remember if you have Muslim guests Elizabeth Hitty writes an excellent paper on “Things to Remember if You Have Muslim Guests.” Hers is written from first hand knowledge. And, based upon her statements, I would trust her insights….
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Family is very important . We may take our family for granted when we are younger, but as we grow older, and go our separate ways; some family members great distances apart, we long for those old carefree days back….
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Daughters are… Vacillating, Unpredictable, and Vulnerable all at the same time. Especially those teenage daughters. They will fight, argue, and clash over absolutely anything a parent does for them, whether it be buy them a car (It was the wrong…
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Realizing and protecting the bond between parent and child while remaining a productive caregiver is one of the most important and difficult things in the universe. Having two children of my own, I can speak from experience. There is no…
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I just read a news article about the murder of a little two-year-old girl the news media named “Baby Grace.” She was violently and brutally killed by her own mother and step-father even while she said to her mom as…
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Having a desire to stay connected with your roots and wanting your offspring to become acquainted with their extended relatives is natural, in most cases. If the occasion is thoughtfully planned out in advance, a family reunion is the ideal venue…
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Making the most out of family time is very important. By doing this your children will go to repeat history. Family time has to be your most important priority. Your children will definitely grow to be very special individuals. My…
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