Ten out of ten for sibling disruption. You need to bear in mind when reading these that I have a large family. Here we go then: – Changing clothing draws around. With a family of five brothers and one sister…
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Sibling rivalry commonly exists between children living in a family relationship that under normal circumstances will dissipate as children mature emotionally and intellectually. Parents can exacerbate the rivalry or take steps to reduce rivalry depending on their way of dealing…
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A difficult relationship within a family can have far reaching effects, making every family function a time of stress and tension rather than fun and fellowship. It may seem that the situation is inevitable and unsolvable if it has been…
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Adding a new baby to the family will affect a child in many different ways. Some react with jealousy, some become the helper role, still others want to be the town crier. Understanding what your child understands about the business…
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Siblings can often feel jealousy when the new baby arrives. They may not know how to handle getting less attention then they are used to. This is especially true for the child who used to be the “baby.” He/She may…
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Every time you talk to Mom, she has advice on how you can make your life better. Your sister-in-law constantly comments on how bratty your children are compared to her ‘angels’. Your older brother things you’re still a child, even…
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Having a large family can increase the impact of sibling rivalry. There are different factors that can be responsible for this, and different parenting practices may be able to lessen the effects. The following is a description of why this…
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A twin holds a unique position. This occurs whether they are the only siblings, or two amongst other children, and irrespective of similarities in physical looks or gender. The experiences discussed here come from the direct experience of being one…
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“One for the Road.” The alcoholic parent often presents as the mom or dad any one would love to have. This parent can be more than happy and helpful and understanding, however, when the bar closes the parent also shuts down. …
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Middle child syndrome is a very real condition whereby a child who has not had the good fortune of being the firstborn or the lastborn in a family with multiple children might feel he/she has received, what might be aptly…
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Conflicts between siblings are like none other, mostly because of the shear number of factors at work. Events and obstacles from years upon years of building up, play major roles into the way siblings see each other along with the…
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The birth of a new brother or sister can be a bewildering proposition for your older children to come to terms with.The established child will suddenly be greeted by a new rival vying for the affections of mum and dad,…
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Full term pregnancy can seem like an eternity especially to a child waiting for a baby sister or brother to come to full term. When deciding to tell your child that he is going to be a big brother wait…
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Sibling rivalry can prove to be toxic to the whole family. Parents in particular are often caught in the middle and find it challenging to effectively mediate between the two sides. There are a wide range of methods that you…
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Having a baby brother or sister come into the home, and seemingly divide the love and attention that once was theirs alone, can be a very traumatic experience for a child, especially a firstborn. It is very important that they…
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Walking my dog through the park one day, I witnessed the beginning of what could be a lifetime of sibling rivalry. I saw a mother sitting on a bench, cooing her newborn baby. Her other son, probably about ten years…
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In today’s bustling society, people’s schedules often come before family life. For boys especially, it can be very difficult to maintain the balance between school, sports, videogames, talking to our parents, and of course, spending time with our sisters. Coming…
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Help your children build a strong sibling bond from day one. Make your child a part of the experience. Let them help you decorate baby’s room. Take them baby shopping and let them pick things out. You could even take…
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Play Nicely, Children: Tips for Bros to Get Along with Their Sisters I hate to break it to you, but I don’t have the secret. I can’t give you a simple formula that will solve all the problems you have…
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Being a twin has its ups and downs in life. Having been asked the question, “How does it feel to be a twin?” throughout life can be draining. Automatic reaction from people usually comes out something like this, “I wish…
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It is often those that you are genetically closest to that push your buttons. This could be due to a number of reasons but there are a few solutions that systemic psychology practices can offer, e.g. family therapy. Systemic psychology views the…
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Being an only child myself, I know it can be pretty tough at times. While this may be how others feel as well, I’m going to explain the pros and cons of being an only child. First, let’s…
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A name is the first truly personal gift everyone receives, usually from their parents and often given months before they are born. In conjunction with their family name it defines them as part of a social unit and at the…
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If you have siblings that have been adopted, you may feel like a part of you is missing. A viable solution is to try to find your adopted siblings. There are a variety of techniques that can help you accomplish…
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You only have one family, but unfortunately you can’t choose its members. Most families learn to shake down together, even siblings who fought like cats and dogs while small. However, if you have reached adulthood and are still struggling to…
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The 1901 British census contains records for 32 million people and 6 million houses throughout England and Wales, with the exception of parts of Kent. It was the first census in the UK to ask specifically about self-employment and home…
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Genealogy or family history is a popular hobby. Family historians, like professional historians, use many sources to piece the past together. Compiling any history is like a detective story. The historian gathers clues and evidence putting them together, in the…
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The census is one of the most useful areas of research you can find. Through these records, you can obtain a mine of useful information, including age, place or country of birth, present address, and occupation of your ancestor. You…
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First, what is the Family History Library System? It is one of the largest genealogical repositories in the world. It is owned and operated by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (the Mormons). The main library is in…
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For generations, people have had nicknames. In fact, years ago when grandparents and great grandparents were young, almost everyone was known by a pet name. Unfortunately, this doesn’t help the budding genealogist. Birth, death, and marriage records all, traditionally list…
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