An aging parent is protected in the same way any parent is protected, only the process is often more acute and more demanding. When parents are in their declining years, they often become more like children and the role of…
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The resources for dealing with and preventing elder abuse are much the same across the country, but may vary somewhat from one county or state to the next. There are federal and state laws and agencies for dealing with and…
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Curious about transportation option for older adults? The fear of growing old is often accompanied by anxiety about losing your independence. The fear and apprehension of not being able to drive anymore, losing your independence and being dependant on others….
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The Internet hit mainstream America in 1996 and millions of people suddenly had immediate access to information that enhanced their choices in life. People, young and old, began to search for needed resources within the comfort of their homes. At…
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The world is a mixture of assorted races, religion, beliefs, cultural diversity and so much more. Yet although we mingle with people from all walks of life daily – at work, in the streets, etc. – knowing how to interact…
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Guests outstay their welcome for two main reasons. One: arrival and departure times were not discussed with enough detail or not at all, and two: they’re having fun and don’t want to go yet. In the first instance, they have…
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Staying in touch with older family members is a means of sharing information or providing entertainment by speaking writing, or other methods. The most important way of doing this is through personal communication where they make their thoughts and wishes…
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Entertaining guests on a shoestring budget can be a challenge. It’s much easier to take guests out to dinner than cook, and much more fun to treat them to a day at an amusement park rather than clean up after…
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The world is becoming so much smaller with the advent of cheap travel and the integration of many races and cultures into society. During the course of a lifetime, the chances are that the individual will face the dilemma of…
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As we move into the twenty first century, the huge shift in numbers of the older population tells us more aging people will need care for physical ailments, limited mobility, or other problems associated with aging and diminished physical and mental…
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The first step in stopping elderly abuse is to identify it. It is important that we know the signs to look for, as it is our job to protect our loved ones. Bruises of different colors suggest that they have…
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What to do? Company is coming and they are known to be less than tidy, but you love them anyhow. Still you need to let them know in a kind way that they you are tired of picking up after…
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The word “budget” makes people cringe. Many people are almost ashamed that there is a limit to how much money they can comfortably spend on entertaining guests. Often people tend to forget that everyone is on some kind of budget….
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Whether a rowdy guest is your child’s best friend or your father-in-law, dealing with rowdy guests can test the patience of even the most gracious host. Adding to the problem, some boisterous guests may not realize or care how their…
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You and your spouse of some 55 years are in bed watching the Late Night Show, having a laugh, when the doorbell rings. Surprise of surprises to find your old man, the seventh son of a seventh son at your…
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Age brings consistent respect and honor in some cultures. This is, unfortunately, not a general characteristic of the American culture. I point this out having experienced what I consider the extremes in both directions. In a Southern community, I became…
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Guests come in all shapes, sizes and cleanliness levels. Some guests are pristine, delicately balancing their tea cup and saucer as they nibble away at the cookies and finger foods, never spilling a drop or leaving a crumb. These visitors…
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Knowing how to deal with those guests who turn up unannounced with their pets is essential. People are not always receptive to the wishes of others, and turning up on your doorstep with their beloved pet may be someone’s idea…
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Often people are thoughtless and put you in the embarrassing situation of having to turn them away. It’s not an easy task, especially if the person who intrudes is a friend, though there are solutions which can be used to…
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It is a sensitive issue to try and deter someone who is drunk, first of all because it can become embarrassing. Many people who are inebriated will either get loud, curse, and some will attempt to fight. Dealing with a…
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Blood Thicker than WaterBlood ticker than water is a cliche that works, but symbolic blood transfusions can occur. Family member are relatives and not relatives. The only difference is society obligation for family Scenario A family of an American man…
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“When do you plan on leaving?” The question may border on rudeness, but there comes a time when it needs to be asked. Entertaining guests, family or friend, is usually a welcome break in the daily routines of life. Besides…
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Forgiving your spouse after a hurt or a betrayal is not only good for them but for yourself as well. Marriage is about compromise, support and love. It is two people committed to making a life together and perhaps raising…
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In those cultures where men play a role in family life, there is improved health, less child mortality, better education, sustainable family size, an uplifting out of poverty, more income opportunity and many other benefits. Not the least of benefits…
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Your elders are a source of knowledge for you , and always have advice to give no matter what the situation. Their experiences and endless information can be beneficial for you if you choose hear it, and in return for their time, you should…
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As the saying goes, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do”. This is certainly the case at cross-cultural events where you may encounter food, customs, and rituals that you’ve never heard of or experienced. Given the diversity of cultures…
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The two individuals within a marriage define that particular marriage. Each marriage is, therefore, different to every other marriage. What works for one couple may not work for every couple. However, successful marriages have a few common components. One crucial…
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Are you confident enough that your family will not experience any disruptions in your entire life of living? There is no such thing as perfect, aside from God. There are many possible factors that can disrupt a normal family life…
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Life is Crazy: Modern life is busy, hectic, and unpredictable. For children, this lack of constants can be overwhelming and unnerving. Parents are posed with the responsibility of guiding their children through the maze of chaos. But how can it be done…
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Is the Women’s Right movement destroying our families? Definitely not! The attacks on our families are numerous, but the Women’s Right Movement is not one of them. One of the top destroyers of our families today is pornography. Pornography is…
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