Dating

You are looking for signs that your boyfriend wants to be just a friend. You may or may not have a relationship with your boyfriend that has at one time been more than friends. Or you are hoping that a…
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This title might be misleading, because it isn’t just that addiction to love can sometimes be unhealthy, but the fact is that love addiction is always an unhealthy way to relate. Anything addicting requires someone who gets sick with it….
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The combination of married men and affairs is something that often happens with startling frequency, due to the high profile scandals involving celebrities and other high-profile figures who end up in the headlines of tabloids. Behind closed doors, and in…
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What happens when you bring your own insecurities in to a new relationship? It’s like dragging this chain with you that you swing around your mate to confine them for things you have experienced. I have seen it far too…
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Although I no longer date since I recently married the second Mr. Right in my life, which I got right this time. Still, I know a thing or two about being hard to get and why it can and does…
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Love is always a tricky little booger. It has the tendency to sneak up on us out of nowhere and capture us against our will. Wrapping itself around us, while piercing our skin with it’s sticky tendrils and filling us…
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Why do men cheat? Women ask this question often, not truly understanding the entirety of the male dynamic. We always say that every woman is unique and different and that men are all the same. There is some truth in…
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Absolutely not! How could you ever trust them again? Could you truly be comfortable enough around them to just forget about it and move on? Would you be able to sleep with them again? Most everyone would say no, so…
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Is cheating ever okay? This is a rather odd question. How does one define cheating? Some people cheat at playing cards. Some cheat on tests. There are many who cheat on their taxes. And then there are those who cheat…
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Very good question don’t you think? Maybe it’s the thrill of doing it once and not getting caught so we continue to do it. Maybe it’s because our partner is slacking on something the other person doesn’t, lack of affection,…
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I’d like to start by saying that jealousy cannot be banished as such. There’s no immediate cure, no magic wand you can wave that make jealousy disappear. I know this from my own experiences. From my past relationships, with friends,…
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Should you get married or just live together?  This is a question pondered by many couples around the globe.  There are many factors that go into such a decision, and the right path for one couple isn’t necessarily the right…
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Although many people believe in love at first sight, this is a different concept to romance. Romance is in fact the foundation that secures the longevity of love and it is process that develops through a number of stages, of…
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Every relationship has its ups and downs; periods of highs and lows are often prevalent. Some couples can even gain victory through overcoming the most arduous of challenges. However, the most difficult of challenges in a relationship is maintaining patience…
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There she was: your soulmate. Everything you looked for in a partner, she had. Your views mesh, you like the same things, your habits compliment each other. You even vote the same way! Life with this person would have been…
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Dating in the first place is not as simple as meeting someone and going out on the town. Today we are faced with so many challenges; we are busier than we were years ago and meeting someone can be a…
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Every guy has probably had an experience with a woman who attaches herself like a leech, determined to become ‘the girlfriend’. It makes not a whit of difference if you are attracted to her or not as she’s clearly attracted…
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I think what attracts me to these “jerks” is that they make you feel special, but only until they hook you. Then they slowly change you into what THEY want you to be. They try to make you believe that…
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Would you forgive your friend for sleeping with your man? Friends are “not” suppose to cross the line and get involved with your partner/spouse. If a friend does this, they are not a “true” friend and they have never been….
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Dating a child-man who just doesn’t want to grow up can, indeed, be likened to dating the fictional character Peter Pan. Just like Peter the child-man is full of life and fun and so is particularly attractive to a wide…
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People who cheat, likely as not, will cheat again. Nevertheless, even if they never cheat again, they will always be suspected of it because they seriously damaged the trust they were given and the one they cheated will probably never…
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Addiction in any form is unhealthy, though how many of us realize the impact of an addiction to something as important to our lives as love. Love is a hard emotion to quantify, though there are signs to look out…
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I dated a guy on and off for two years. Not only did he cheat on me behind my back, but he also cheated on me in front of me. I was left at a party while he went home…
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Some women date a married man just because it is like an exciting adventure. Others though are really in loved with that man. No matter in what category you find yourself in one point of your life the challenges are…
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How do you become the ‘Other Woman’? It’s a question I’ve asked myself many times. Some fall into it purely by chance: you meet the seemingly perfect man, fall in love and find out he’s a cheating pig. Others know…
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It is very important that couples have date night to keep the romance in  relationship alive and to remain friends with each other . There are times however when it is not possible to go out on a date, sometimes…
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Be the mouse ‘I don’t play hard to get. I am hard to get’ she said and walked away from me. I now had two martinis in my hands and more chasing to do. I’ve heard that line on numerous…
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When I was thrown back into the singles scene eight years ago post divorce, Internet dating was just in its infancy. There was a huge stigma attached to it. Not only was I afraid to date, I was even more…
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Your mouth goes dry. You start sweating. Your heart hammers. Your legs feel weak. The English language suddenly seems as foreign to you as ancient hieroglyphics. Are you at the dentist’s office? Did you find out you owe money to…
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There I was…pouring over countless profiles of men claiming to be looking for their “girl next door.” I had never used an internet dating site before and, at the time, couldn’t be paid enough to do so. However, after a…
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