When I realized how old he was, at the end of our first date, I was startled. Not just because of our age difference, which at twelve years is quite a gap, but because of my reaction to the news….
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Most people know that it is important for couples to have a date night in order toto keep their relationship strong. Sometimes, however, it’s necessary for that date night to be spent at home. It may be because of a lack…
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Chili with a Side Order of Insecurity? In the daily rat race of life, we all strive to be the first to the Great Gouda finish line. Along the way, we all will inevitably encounter obstacles to our success. I’m…
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Although dating can be a difficult feat for many people, those who are confident in themselves definitely have an advantage. However, being shy does not have to be a flaw. If you can find the courage to step out of…
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Human instinct is a wonderful trait, a natural, presentiment of something positive or negative occurring, of which we yet have little or no knowledge. Coupling it with suspicion, leads to curiosity and the desire to seek the truth. Most of…
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My Husband is Having an Affair! . . When you discover that your husband is having an affair, it can be the most painful, gut wrenching shock imaginable. Feelings of betrayal, sadness, rejection, anger, helplessness – these and many other…
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One might say that a person’s “psyche” is the innermost characteristics that make up one’s soul, or the intangible qualities people exhibit in their mannerisms, customs, beliefs, and expressions of ideas. Another way of describing the “psyche” is that of…
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When you’re with a girl, it’s sometimes difficult to figure out if being with her is the right thing for you. This is so because sometimes relationships aren’t really all that healthy for the people involved even though they may…
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I would really like to lie and say this isn’t so. Ask the nicest guy there is and he will tell you nice guys finish last. They finish last everywhere, except in being nice. We live in a world where…
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How to overcome jealously in a relationship depends on the cause or the root of ones own jealous behavior. For example, a girlfriend with a cheating past who has an extremely forgiving boyfriend whom she calls “jealous” when he gets mad that…
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OK ladies, let’s break it down to brass tacks. So you’re considering having a one night stand, huh? Maybe you’re in between relationships and need some lovin’. Maybe you’ve had your heart crushed and want to get your mojo back. …
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I know of three women who have had to take bankruptcy because of con artists coming into their lives. Of the three, one was married to her con artist and is still married to him. He is still conning her…
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She walks into the crowded club and throws her hair back. She laughs. “All eyes are on me,” she thinks, as she gracefully moves through the crowd to a table in the center of the room. She has to be…
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Trust is importance in any relationship, and most people believe that the most important trust element is that which exists between the two partners. However, although it is agreed that this is essential, in fact it is the second most…
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Trust happens to be one of the building blocks of relationships. Unfortunately, trust can often be difficult to achieve. Many people take disappointments and fears from an old relationship to a new relationship. If they suffered betrayal or any other…
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When it comes down to dating what really is an unrealistic expectation? Does it really matter if you have expectations with you partner/spouse or your relationship overall? In many relationships we have this constant questions that we think about. When…
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Many women are quite happy to have boyfriends a little lacking in the intelligence department. Such men can be quite good natured, behave themselves, don’t ask awkward questions, and you will never lose an argument about politics or a game…
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Dating an alcoholic can present his or her partner with countless problems that they will need to address. Yet the realisation that the person you are dating is an alcoholic may not occur on the first date or even until…
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Maturity comes with age as does experiences, respect, and memories. If somebody does not grow up how can you count on him or her. In modern society where it is easy to be sheltered in many ways its doses of…
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You will definitely have a stronger relationship if you are friends with a person before you start dating them. Ask any couple that has been married for many years what their secret is and many of them will say that…
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Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. Without trust, the relationship will not survive. Trusting your partner is about knowing they have your best interests at heart. In order to build trust you must talk with…
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“Wow, I think this is getting serious!” We have all experienced that heart stopping moment when we suddenly realise that the relationship that we are in has moved to a higher and more beautiful level. There are those little tell-tale…
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It has been said that it is inevitable that at some point in time, in an opposite sex friendship one of the two will develop feelings for the other. This is why many people are put into an awkward position…
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It can be challenging to discuss birth control with a new partner, however you do not want to avoid the subject to the point that you do not take the proper precautions and end up with an unwanted pregnancy. The…
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To understand the female psyche is to understand the core of a woman; the way we think and feel; the way we see men, and most importantly, the way we communicate. We are multi-faceted creatures, our emotions run deep, like…
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Want to spend quality time with your special someone but don’t want to go out and deal with other people? There are plenty of things you can do at home that don’t require reenacting a cheesy romantic comedy. Seriously, there…
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Few things in life may be as awkward as a bad blind date. For starters, dating in and of itself is not easy. But with a blind date, you now compound the challenges of dating with the fact that you…
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Cheating in a relationship is one of the most personally destructive things anyone can do. This act not only harms the person you are cheating on but you as well and it is something that you will regret. Perhaps this…
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Sound the trumpets, gentlemen. Chivalry is not dead. A women still wants a man to treat her like a lady on a date. Once again, it’s expected that guys will open the door, pull out the chair, pay for the…
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The dating process sometimes leads to marriage and sometimes leads to heartache. Dating is also a one or two time occurrence because the couple finds that it will not work. There should be a philosophy behind dating and that is…
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