Have you ever tried talking to someone during a gathering, and talk about the same thing to two different women, and have one treat you like a friend, and the other become attracted to you? Well, believe it or not,…
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There are many levels of friendship and romance. In a relationship, friendship is meant to be the foundation. It is what will hold the couple together and help them build trust, love, and other important qualities. If a friendship already…
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IT’S not always the prettiest girl in the room who has the men buzzing around her. And it’s not always the handsome hunk who has the women falling at his feet. So how does Plain Jane get all the attention…
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Teens fall in “love” and “lust” all the time. It is hard to avoid because of the hormonal activity going on inside of them. Some would go as far to say some teenagers are “in heat” 85% of the time….
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Some people search their whole lives for one person who they can love for an eternity while others choose to string along two or three of the best lovers known to man. It is not easy to make a choice…
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Friendships and dating do not mix because, if the two of you are truly good friends, then the two of you know way too much about each other. I am a female who has very few female friends. Ever since…
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People are afraid to love because they are afraid of losing that love. Everyone is constantly afraid of getting hurt, and every day we live our lives in fear because we want to protect ourselves. Of course, this is not…
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First, never date a person who is a friend for a long time. The attraction the two of you feel may be just a passing thing. Old friends who start dating will lose the friendship easily if the relationship turns…
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We all like to think we’d know when something is not a good idea. However, some calls are just tough to make. Friendship and dating is like oil and water generally. Ideally, couples should be friends before lovers, although that assumes that mutual…
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It is quite a predicament to be in when you have more than one person vying for your love. It is also quite a predicament when you reach the point in your life when more than one fling will no…
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OK – first I admit I probably have an unconventional view of the thorny subject of “cheating”. To most people, I assume it is pretty clear cut. If your partner has sex with another person, then he/she is “cheating” on…
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Just as there are no hard & fast rules to virtually anything in life anymore, the same is true when you & your boyfriend or girlfriend start thinking about living together. There needs to be a great deal of discussion…
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How to survive the dating game: Does anyone really know the rules for dating in the 21st century? Are they any different than in ages past? Remaining single throughout our 20s and 30s is commonplace these days with many people…
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Making a commitment can be a scary thing. Committing to a relationship can be even scarier. In order to commit to a relationship, you must give up some of your freedom. This is not a very easy thing to do…
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Maybe it’s a blessing in disguise. Of course, at the time it doesn’t seem that way, but breaking up could be in your best interest. The relationship has turned unpredictable, and you’ve been having heated disagreements more often lately. Nerves…
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In many relationships, one partner will be completely blindsided by their partner’s decision to end the relationship. In these cases, it is common for the blindsided partner to attempt to convince the unhappy party not to break up with them…
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Some people should come with a warning label, “Commitment phobia, please avoid”. It would be far simpler than dealing with our fears of commitment in a relationship. Fear of commitment is a complicated thing; the commitment phobias are complicated people…
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Fear of commitment is as common as a cold. For many people, it is within good reason. Previous relationships that ended on bad notes are usually why people put up blocks. They are often worried that they will have to…
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I was surprised to find so much advice from so many different types of sources when I was researching this subject. There were pieces written by doctors, advice offered by psychics, and columns submitted by relationship experts, just to name…
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The fear of commitment in a relationship is not uncommon. Our futures depend upon each commitment made at every level. Career choices, our goals in life, and our lifetime mates are all types of commitments that must be made. This…
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Fear of commitment in a relationship stems from a fear of losing control of yourself/your Self, especially if you have already been on the relationship merry-go-round a couple of times in your life, as most of us have. I grew…
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Have you found your soul mate? Have you been told that you are some-one’s soul mate? Why is that always in the singular? Soul-mate. Only ever in the plural when referring to the mated couple. Are we only allowed the…
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Should I or shouldn’t I? Blind dates can be really great. You could meet the love of your life. It has happened, after all who knows you better than your friends? They see the good, bad and in between. Of…
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When I was a little girl, I dreamed, as little girls do, of the man I would one day marry. I just knew he would be a super hero of some sort. He would have the power of flight and…
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“Love is patient, love is kind” are true words from the Holy Bible. The word love may express feeling and emotion that once identified; must be supported in action. Patience and kindness are actions which may be assumed to follow…
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Many people think a girl has to be drop-dead gorgeous to be really successful at flirting with a guy. Nothing could be further from the truth. You can flirt with pretty much any guy you want and get through with…
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The Planets of Mars and Venus are the ones most often looked to when finding a compatible mate. Mars, the god of War, influences the overall temperament. Venus, the goddess of love, tends to guide the manner in which one…
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Like most boys, during high school, I spent a lot of time trying to figure girls out. And, like most boys, I don’t quite think I ever figured them out. However, I did learn some things along the way. One…
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You’ve been together for a while now. You’ve met his parents, you’ve hung out with his friends, you’ve even washed his dirty laundry. Lately, when you look at him, you imagine little mini-hims running around the apartment, his stinky socks…
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So you’ve finally found someone that you REALLY like, but you can’t read the signals between the two of you and you don’t know if and when you should ask them out… so what do you do? Close to all…
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