Seems to me, if you can’t make a decision between two lovers, then neither one is right. For one thing, if one of them was your perfect mate, you’d already be with that one exclusively – no decision to make!…
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Throughout our lives there are rules we must follow. Some are put in place to govern our actions, and breaking them results in a penalty being imposed. Then there are those referred to as unwritten rules. The only consequence of…
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The choice I’d make could make or break the quality of my life. Beyond this, I knew from experience that regrets take a long time to survive, much less to overcome and recover from. At the time it seemed cruel…
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I tell Hannah that I consider James an accessory to her, not an entity in himself. They are having issues. She is not sure how to take his uncertainty, if this will be a bump in their relationship or the…
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We have all heard the song “Torn between two lovers” which Mary McGregor sang, though how many of us can make that crucial choice successfully? In a situation where life is complex and the wrong decision can lead to lifetime…
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Many woman who are pregnant and single count themselves out of the dating pool. Pregnancies, they believe, make them off limits for a new love interest or simple companionship. In some cases where the biological father is still actively engaged…
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Was it me? Many women ask themselves this question when it comes to having their significant other mistreat them. Now, is it true? No. Most women don’t deserve to be mistreated. From personal experience, I must say that I’ve mistreated…
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As you grow up and make friends, little is taught about why dating a friend is a bad idea. These are folks you laugh with, people you cry with and those who accept that you’re not perfect, but love you…
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Being torn between two people you care about is a stressful situation…but in the end, the right decision will always make itself clear. From personal experience, I found myself consumed with the thoughts of someone else while in a committed…
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The truth is, you have to be friends to have a relationship, but trying to be friends and date can mean something else. One example is when two people have known each other all of their lives and they decide…
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One can almost smell the wet wool of his camel’s hair topcoat, the brilliantine in the hair of the gendarmes as they escort him, one on either side, to the steps of the train that will take him across the…
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Wikipedia defines cheating as “an act of lying, deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition”. Cheating in a relationship is just that. Cheating in a relationship goes beyond infidelity or adultery. It can include secret relationships that haven’t yet involved sex….
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I believe that cheating is not acceptable. If some one truly cared about there partner, then they wouldn’t even think about cheating, let a lone actually doing it. People say guys are more like to be the ones that cheat,…
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So you think you’ve gone off and done it; you’ve cheated. Well hold your hat there bub, how do you know? I found myself in a strikingly similar situation recently, and I found for myself what cheating is. How did…
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3/15/2004 – “Couples & Singles”There are 4 types in this world A. Single – the professional & the amateur B. Casual dating excellent choiceC. Serious relationship stupid a$$D. Engaged are you nutz?E. Married too late to turn back now What…
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In a country where swingers’ clubs are consistently growing in numbers, divorces account for more court time then murder, and children born out of wedlock is just plain old news. How do we as a society define the difference between…
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There are some who are so insecure in their relationship that they tend to exaggerate simple, polite social behavior and view it as cheating. Example: A woman discussed her day with her husband. When he asked her how it went,…
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Jesus – and let’s bring him into the discussion, since a lot of our concept of cheating deals with his words in the New Testament – says, in speaking to the Mosaic Law that to look on a man or…
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If you are asking, I am guessing it is too late. Is there a fine line between flirting and cheating? Is there almost cheating and does that need to be revealed to our significant other? So many questions and are…
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To tell or not to tell that is the question. You meet a guy, you fall in love, he pops the question, everything in the garden is rosy, – and yet – you have some deep, dark, secrets in the…
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Laura was devastated the day she attended her husband’s office Christmas party. Hired only three months earlier, Fred would come home each evening and tell her about the office melodramas, always ending each commentary with a negative remark about the…
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“We are never deceived; we deceive ourselves.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Relationships may be born out of necessity, love, attraction or loss, but they flourish on integrity and honesty. What is considered to be a deception is not really as…
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What is a relationship to begin with? It is a state of connectedness between people, especially an emotional connection. So where they are shouldn’t really matter, all that matters is that they have reached this sense of connection. Whether they…
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Start with yourself. Get organized! Concentrate on getting the things that you always wanted for yourself. The key word is abundance! Try to live your life the way you want the two of you to live it. Show incredible confidence…
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How many of us realize that whom we decide to marry is the most important decision of our lives? It is obvious due to the high divorce rates that many of us take this decision lightly it easy to get…
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Couples that have a very good relationship are not just lucky. Successful, loving relationships do not just happen. The couples that have loving relationships are taking five specific actions that people in unsuccessful relationships are not taking. ACTION 1 –…
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Before you hand over your heart to someone, it is wise to discern whether or not the receiver will tenderly care for it with welcoming hands or end up throwing it on the ground and stomping the life out of…
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There are so many different takes on dating, and I have my own advice and opininos that I’d like to share. I also have a fair amount to say about love, relationships, and even wedding planning, but before I can…
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In a world where meeting Mr. or Miss Right is about as easy as juggling puppies while taking a drink order, it’s important to remember that who you attract is just as important, if not more so, than if you…
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Women and men alike find themselves asking just what it is that the opposite sex finds attractive. It is the age old question that we would all like to know the answer to. The truth is different things attract different…
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