Is it possible for an individual to say the phrase “I love you” too often? Beyond a simple yes or no answer, the responses to this question are as varied as is the population of the world, with each individual…
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It is so innate to human nature to focus on weaknesses and failures of others including our loved ones instead of our own. People like to complain about the weaknesses of others and wish that their significant other was different….
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Long distance relationships are not impossible, but they are difficult. Except for the added problem of distance, they vary little from other relationships. A long distance relationship requires trust, commitment, understanding and patience, the same as any other relationship. The…
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Getting back into the dating scene can be difficult for a person to begin with, simply because of trust issues or time. Now that single parents don’t really have much time for themselves. But in all honesty it is very…
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BAM! Your one and only soul mate was just hit by a drunk driver. Two hours later, they’re pronounced dead. Besides the fact that you wish they were still alive, what would be the first thing you regret? I’ll tell…
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Starting a new relationship is hard for anyone in today’s world. Technology is flying faster; it seems than the speed of light. There are new unspoken rules that most people do not know about. It is the same for the…
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Is “manliness” obsolete? I think it depends on how you define it. Sometimes I think people may confuse being “manly” with being “macho” and I believe that the latter is definitely obsolete. If you need proof, just dust off your…
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One of the most difficult things in this life is having to choose between two people you love. Sometimes our hearts and our heads can’t get together to make a decision. However, when it comes to being in love with…
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Love, the most beautiful of human emotion, is sometimes also the most painful. That is usually when we realize that love wasn’t enough, for whatever reason. it happens, and when it does, it has the power to destroy us if…
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A lot of us have someone special in our lives but many of us do not have the privilege of seeing our special someone on a daily or weekly basis. It may because you are going to two separate colleges,…
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Many years ago I was invited to play mixed doubles tennis with some friends. As it turned out my partner was this tall, slim, very attractive man. I was instantly drawn to him and we hit it off right away….
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How to cope when your man is in the Army is the hardest thing a woman will ever do. She has to center herself around a life to keep her busy while he is away. He has no choice. He…
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As soon as you here the words “I am going on a date with my friend” there is a tendency to look skywards to see if there are storm clouds brewing. For trying to mix friendship and dating together is…
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One woman, two lovers. What to do, what to do. I had to make this crucial decision when I was 33 years old. It was tough but I know I made the right decision. The most important thing everyone should…
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What I Do in My Affairs. I saw her in a dancing restaurant, rolling her hips to the down beat of Nigeria’s MTV award wining singer-songwriter, Tu-Face Idibia. I sort of like her jet black skin and white teeth, typical…
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As a teenager and 20-something guy, I believed friendship and dating could never go together. I always boasted that if I wanted to take a friend on a date, I’d go out with the guys. Of course, it was a…
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Well to tell the truth I am from the old school of thought. I was brought up to believe anything that constitutes a betrayal is cheating. If you are unsure of what is considered cheating then just ask yourself is…
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One shall never find a wiser or truer quote than one from Havelock Ellis that reads “Jealousy, that dragon which slays love under the pretense of keeping it alive.” Thus, there is no denying that jealousy, if not overcome, can…
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Cheating. Who are we kidding? It seems obvious to me that if your heart and your mind are with someone other than your mate, and you are keeping the information about this from your significant other, you are cheating. Cheating…
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Cheating is an issue that won’t ever go away. Cheating has always been around, and it’s always going to be around. What counts as cheating? There is no right or wrong answer unless you’re talking about sex. However, when a…
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Any cheater will tell you that unless they are sexually active with someone other than their partner, they are not cheating. Personally I think this is a load of bull manure that these cheaters use to excuse their behavior. If…
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No one wants to admit when their love is no more. When they finally wake up one morning and there is nothing there anymore. What do you do? Well here’s what I do! First of all when that times does…
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The term “ego” is used and abused in various contexts, from philosophy and psychology to gossip and curses. First of all we need to clarify what we’re talking about. A representative definition from a dictionary is: “the “I” or self…
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Can you say, “I love you” too much? In a dating situation or in marriage, I believe one can repeat the words “I love you” too much until it takes the meaning out of it. I’ve watched as people constantly…
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So you’re a single guy treading water in the proverbial dating pool, not sure what to do next. You’ve met a few nice girls through friends, you’ve tried the Internet dating thing and now you’ve even started scoping out the…
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Dating while pregnant causes all kinds of complications. Having just conceived, or being within a nine month period of having a relationship which left you in this state, the wisdom of starting again is questionable from many perspectives. However, what…
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I dated while pregnant. The fact that the pregnancy ended in a miscarriage is another story that had nothing to do with the fact that I was dating. One thing I noticed is that a pregnant woman on the dating…
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The bliss of being married or romantically involved with an Army man can be compromised when you confront one of the biggest hazards of your relationship: time and distance apart. The strength of your bond and your resolve to love…
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Should a woman be condemned to feel less a woman, or worse, less a mother, just because she may happen to be single during pregnancy? Is it somehow not okay for a woman to desire company during a time in…
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There isn’t any direct biblical support for dating, however, there are principals regarding relationship between the sexes. Dating is for seeking a marriage mate. If you are having a close association with the opposite sex, what are your reasons? There…
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