Dating

The question is. “Is there such a thing as emotional cheating?” You had better believe there is. I have been on the receiving end of it and it is more hurtful than if there had been a physical affair. If…
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When you fall in love, you inevitably change. Your emotions, opinions and your life as well change. You feel excited, in love. You think that everything around you is beautiful. But, after this first so-called honeymoon of love, reality kicks…
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The Thrill Of The Chase Part 1 in the series – (Almost) Complete Dating For Men First of all, allow me to make an assumption that will allow me to continue with peace of mind- You, the reader, are a…
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Does anyone really know their self-worth anymore? Even the most confident are somewhat dying on the inside. Dying for someone to touch them in that right way, dying for someone to see them for who they really are, dying for…
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There are a variety of excuses people give as to why they cheat. For some it’s the thrill of sneaking around. They want to see what they can get away with. They get some sort of chemical or adrenaline high…
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Are you constantly picking up the wrong girls? Is the chemistry always strong in the beginning only to learn she’s not the girl for you? You’re not the only one who seems to constantly pick up the wrong girls. There…
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There is perhaps nothing worse than experiencing the effects of low self-esteem while dating. At one time or another, it is highly likely that we’ve all been in this situation: We muster the courage to either call somebody up or…
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Seniors should practice similar self-protective routines as people of any age should do when they’re dating, especially in these days of online and other instant sources of making new acquaintances. Common sense is always a great attribute, and in the…
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Manliness refers to having the qualities that most cultures traditionally regard as especially characteristic of, or ideally appropriate to adult men. Some of these qualities are courage, strength, fortitude and decisiveness. Manliness is also about appearance; the rough hewn, unkempt…
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One of my favourite words, simultaneously over- and underused, and sometimes just abused. For some it is an aspiration. For some a simple reassuring warmth. For others, a fear. Because of the strong, almost negative associations we have developed equating…
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Sometimes love is not enough to hold a relationship together. I learned this painful lesson last year after I had been dating a good friend of mine. I met this incredible guy when we were in high school. He was…
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Imagine a sad dog barking. Try to start a car without gas in it. Or imagine trying to light a fire while underwater holding your breath with a wet match. These tearful depictions are but descriptions of how low self…
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Remember this: You can make them work. It’s hard, but if you and your significant other are really meant to be together, you can survive the hardships of a long distance relationship. They’re usually not easy, but I’m going to…
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Everyone has their own idea of the perfect mate. Physical appearance and personality traits define the initial attraction, but most people enter relationships with partners who fall short of being ideal. Communication and compromise helps overcome differences during the early…
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IF the operative word is truly dating then ignore any warnings of pitfalls and enjoy the ride while it lasts. Dating, at the onset, is never to be taken too seriously so if you’ve caught the eye of someone several…
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Love is simply friendship, set on fire. ~unknown A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are ~unknown They say that anger is just love disappointed.They say that love…
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When a man is in jail he is separated from everyone that he loves and cares about. But the important thing to remember is that everyone that he loves and cares about are also separated from him. Many people think…
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Yes, it is true that long distance relationships are hard but they are not impossible.There are few things you can do to make life easier for both of you. 1 Tell the truth about your feeling.Your not around each other…
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Lust- in this context- is a strong sexual desire or an intense, physical yearning. Love is a word that cannot be defined in just one short sentence. The relationship between the two concepts is somewhat contentious. Some schools of thought…
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Timing can be one of the most important factors in establishing a successful and lasting relationship. There are times in everyone’s life that are better for beginning various ventures than others, and the same goes for starting a relationship with…
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Interested in knowing how low self esteem affects dating? Low self esteem and relationships do not make for a healthy combination. Low self esteem affects dating relationships in a plethora of ways and these usually focus on the negative aspects.Unfortunately…
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“My parents had a very good relationship,” I often hear my clients say. “What do you mean by good?” I ask. “They didn’t fight. They spent a lot of time with each other.” That may have been the definition of…
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Moving in with another individual prior to marriage is not a wise decision whether someone is prepared or not. This creates myriad problems for both parties such as unplanned pregnancies, false expectations, financial losses, and distorted family structures. When an…
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Are you a single male who has had a lot of fun but is now ready perhaps to settle down? Or, at the very least, you are open to meeting a wonderful woman for a relationship. If so, then you…
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So you finally got the girl, but now you are wondering how to keep her happy? If only all men knew the answer, and if only there were a definitive answer! While it depends to some degree on the individual,…
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Imagine if love was as easy as ‘out with the old and in with the new’. But it is not. Or if love was as easy as taking one leased car and trading it for a new one. But it…
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My last relationship occurred almost three years ago. I lived in a two-bedroom apartment in Iowa City (IA). My girlfriend, at the time, resided in Des Moines. Her name was Reni (REN-EI). She was a former cheater who I took…
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It’s a sign of the times: meet as many people as you can, even before finishing a cup of coffee. Speed dating may have revolutionized the way we meet people, but has it really endangered the way we look at…
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The premise of relationships can be based on money or love depending on the context. There are business relationships based on the accumulation of capital and then there are personal relationships centered on love. Sometimes it is a combination of…
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They say that the biggest fears people have are death and public speaking. I would like to add meeting the parents to the list. Meeting your new squeeze’s parents can be a daunting prospect. However, it doesn’t have to be…
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