The April morning in Studio City was warm, promising an afternoon in the mid-80s. Sally and I were killing time at a sidewalk table of the Coffee Bean on Ventura Boulevard. The majority of the clientele were single Gen-Xers doing…
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Can you hear the pin drop? Observe the blank stares of your family members?Listen to the disapproving whispers of your friends with kids? Then you, my friend, are one of the few, the proud, the brave. No, I’m not talking…
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Speed dating is a great idea because people can have access to far more potential dates in a short time than they would otherwise. It makes sense to have the right questions if you wish to select the ones who…
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No, i don’t believe a relationship with a cheater will work. Some people can genuinely forgive the cheater and live happily ever after. Then there are SOME people who will say that all is forgiven, but can’t seem to let…
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Have you had it with the bar scene and conventional dating? Have you decided to try to meet someone online instead? Whether you’re looking for a new friend or a committed relationship, online dating can be a good place to…
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Speed dating is a great way to meet a lot of new guys quickly. By chatting to all of them for just a few minutes each you can get a good idea of who you would like to see again,…
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To Cheat or Not to Cheat? That is the question. But is the answer really that simple? Read the questions below to find out. 1.) You lie on your taxes to CHEAT the government out of money. Is that: a)…
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This post’s title should have been ‘When to compromise and when to argue? The first thing we should always try is to compromise but I wanted to outline the fact that arguing is not less important by putting it clearly…
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When you cheat you break the bond of trust and trust is not something you easily get back. I never understood people that cheated. I always felt like if you were not happy move on. Why hurt the person more….
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What reasoning woman would choose to fall in love with a man already taken by marriage? Maybe the point is most often the woman doesn’t choose to do so. When I was a teenager, I met a guy through the…
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I keep hearing my friends talk about meeting someone online and then moving around the country to be with them. I’ve heard of a woman who has moved twice so far. Here’s my experience. I’m a lesbian, so the websites…
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Long distance relationships are not only possible, they can be absolutely delightful. Many couples have had them, whether for a shorter time or for the entire length of their relationship, and wouldn’t trade them for the world. There are many…
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My take on the subject is SOOOO! However, if this is something that really bothers you, then first find out why. This is an important factor, because this person is your partner. Something attracted them to you and you to…
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Typically, when these words are uttered ” romantic things to do on a rainy day” there are immediately two distinct reactions. First you will encounter the cynic, with a critical response. The one with the depression about the current soggy…
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Is Manliness Obsolete? From Merriam-Webster: Manliness: 1 : having qualities generally associated with a man : strong, virile 2 : appropriate in character to a man Note that aside from strong and virile, the rest of the definition is pretty…
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Rainy days can be a blessing in disguise for bringing back romance in your relationship. When the weather is against you, it is a perfect excuse to reconnect and share some quality time with your partner. And there are plenty…
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Being in love with a man in the concrete jungle Being in love with an incarcerated man is a hard road to travel, but the power of love sees through all the obstacles put forth. Whether he has a short…
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The physical appearance has become the main thing for most people dating in today’s world. Men and women are spending more money on trying to make themselves perfect . It has become something that people will pay for even they…
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Trying to build a successful and romantic relationship is not easy. It might take a few years and more to achieve this. It’s never easy to find out about someone; you may know him or her forever or your whole…
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Many moons ago I asked my father for advice on dating. He didn’t say much, not much more than make sure you don’t make the neighbor boy the neighbor the man that is. One thing he did say was friendship…
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“Once a cheater always a cheater” some of you may be familiar with that common phrase. Some of you may even relate to it as you may have experienced a cheating partner before. Whenever a mate cheats there is always…
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Dating your friend’s ex may seem like a great idea, especially if you have always fancied them and wished you were with them, but it is fraught with problems and may lead to the end of the friendship you have…
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What is it about love that blinds us so? What tantalizing promises does it whisper to our hearts that we are ready to forget all and commit everything for its sake? Why are women ready to take the path littered…
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While males and females tend to be wired differently, females do want sex just as much as males do. Not all males are sexually driven. I have come across several males that have no sex drive. Then again, they never…
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I would rather this title read “How to Not Fall in Love with a Married Man.” It’s just not a good idea at all. Some people will say that you have no control over who you fall in love with….
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We have always heard that “compromise” is the cornerstone of a good relationship. while I whole-heartedly agree that compromise is important, there are some things that should not be negotiable when entering into a relationship. Of course, everyone is going…
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“She cheated on her boyfriend,” I explained. My friend countered, “She slept with that guy!?” “Well, no she didn’t even kiss him. But she went out with that man on a date and wondered if she should leave her boyfriend.”…
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People often say when you’re really in love, you’ll just know it. We’ve all experienced the sweaty palms and butterflies that come along with intense attraction. This, however, is not love, it is attraction. It is intense, but it will…
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Ever so often you get together with your single friend to catch up and have them dish out the details on the latest date they have gone out on. “So how did it go? Good or bad?” you might ask…
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Pain…it is as simple as that. They fear that once again they will be hurt and find themselves in that terrible place again. It’s like you’re at the bottom of a well. You’re standing in freezing water up to your…
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