After much thinking, my answer to this question is most definitely a no. From being in relationships with cheaters, to now being engaged to someone who was never a cheater, the differences are noticeable, and the relationship with the non…
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Every young man will feel an attraction to an older mature woman before exiting adolescence. It may be a teacher or even a relative. These impulses are a part of the onset of hormones as young men pass through the…
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Do you feel like maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you? You probably do, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this in the first place. Maybe you get a funny feeling in your gut (with me, it was butterflies…
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Yes, long distance relationships can work, and while they make good points, I think those who say they cannot are confused on what real love and real relationships are. The truth is a long distance relationship has just as much…
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No one really wants to face the fact that their girlfriend or boyfriend may be cheating on them, and even if our instincts are screaming out to us that something doesn’t feel right about a situation, many of us would…
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Cheating is something that needs to be self defined for each individual person. Just because Aunt Polly says that looking at dirty pictures on-line is cheating or your Brother-In-Law Jack thinks it’s OK as long as no one gets pregnant…
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Good friends are few and far between. But what really defines a “good friend”? Relationships are complicated and ever-changing. They can be solidified in one instant and they can be destroyed in the next. Many people often find themselves in…
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Unfortunately, infidelity is a huge problem and one with which most of us can identify. At some point or another, most of us have been cheated on. What are the signs? Avoidance If your boyfriend or girlfriend starts to avoid…
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“Cheating Signs” Is there such a thing? Most of us do not want to admit it, but the signs are deep within us. I have often spoke on this topic, not necessarily signs of a cheating lover but more so…
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Can you be in love with two people at once? To answer this question we must first ask another. What is love? For the sake of time we’ll define love as being emotionally connected to someone, feeling your heart race,…
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Love is a lot more than thinking about a person every moment and obsessing over them. It’s more than butterflies in your stomach and your heart skipping a beat. The person you really love is the only one you can…
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Last month, I turned 23. The month prior to that, I started staring at myself in the mirror, desperately trying to figure out who was behind those eyes. In my opinion, 23 is the birthday that comes after the successes…
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Why the nice guy never get the girl… how? Are we talking about into bed? In love? Marriage? I have definitely been the girl that liked the “bad boys” and sure they’re great if you want to have fun. On…
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Coming on way too strong too early is a classic example in ruining a date. That can mean suddenly groping, kissing or fondling-expecting sex early-when it may still mean it still is at least a few dates off. Coming on…
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Maybe it’s just me, but I find it unusual to report to a first date with most of one’s closest friends in tow. Typically when I prepare for that all-important initial meeting, it never occurs to me to schedule it…
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There are many destructive elements in relationships. In my eyes, the most destructive element is DISTRUST. Distrust can lead to so many different destructive patterns. When you are in a relationship, trusting the other person is key. Trusting is the…
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As difficult as this statement may be to process for most women, it’s actually true: Men don’t always want to have sex. Yes, despite the stereotypical view that men are consistent horndogs, they can’t always muster enough energy to do…
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Look at the people around you, this very instant. Think about your friends, the ones you find attractive, and the ones you don’t? The first time you meet someone, before they even open their mouth, you already have an impression…
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As my mother and grandmother used to say, “Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?” This was a not-so-flattering analogy to a “living together” arrangement, instead of marriage. When I was a kid, it was…
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Not every guy feels as though a woman owes him because he bought her dinner. A guy who is genuinely interested in a woman will honor her with the simplest things such as opening a door for her, complimenting her…
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In any relationship, trust has to be one of the most important values in order to make it work. When that trust has been broken by either person in the relationship, things will never be the same. There was a…
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The reason boys seem to only look for physical beauty is because some of them actually do only have eyes for the shell. It is a law of nature that men are attracted to the physically beautiful girls but those…
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I am a month and a half away from being 25. Yes. A quarter of a century. And yet, here I sit…single…alone. The reason why I am single is neither here nor there. That is another blog completely. I want…
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He’s a great guy, BUT!….you’ve heard that one before right?. So your friend leans in to hear what you have to say… BUT WHAT!, she asks.” well,… he’s a little… short”. And what does your friend ask next? on a count…
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I have been married for almost eleven years to the same man. I was residing with him when I was thirteen, and then later married him when I was sixteen. I had my first child at the early age of…
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While the question here is very vague (as in not specifically defining if this is a one-time cheater, a repeat offender, or if they cheated on someone else and not the person being asked the question) the answer is simply…
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Trust is one of the most important characters needed in making a relationship work. The person you choose to spend your life with should be your best friend; the person you can turn to in times of need. This person is…
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I do believe that long-distance love can work. Mainly because each person can’t see each other, they can’t base their love on each other’s looks but they can center it around their personality. Personality matters most. Couples may not admit…
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One of the hardest things to grasp in the relationship game, is when your partner takes that step beyond the basic rules of the game and cheats on you. 2007 was an interesting year for the community I live in….
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Short form answer is, no, it shouldn’t be. And often, isn’t. As I have found that jealousy, like boredom, is a selfish emotion, and doesn’treally improve anything… If the goal is to get some sort of reaction from the cheated…
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