Dating

The surest way to a broken heart is to trust another human being 100%. No human being, in possession of all his faculties, is perfectly trustworthy. In recognition of this fact, it is wise to withhold total trust, and complete…
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“What’s going on today? You’re just not yourself.” “Oh, I have some problems at home. It’ll work out I’m sure.” “Sorry to hear that. You know I have broad shoulders and willing to listen when you want to talk.” Sometimes…
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We’ve all felt a little green but with confidence and a positive self-esteem you can overcome jealously in your relationships. There are many reasons why people feel jealous in their relationships but all envy can be traced to fear. You…
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I definitely feel that there is such a thing as emotional cheating. I think it can be even more detrimental to a relationship then physical cheating. And I think that you can also have both emotional cheating and physical cheating…
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I was shocked to see this title out there. I would think that no one in their right mind would actually date while pregnant. I’d have to honestly wonder what kind of man would even want to date some woman…
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There is no Biblical support-or condemnation-of the practice of dating, just as there is no specific condemnation or approbation of a host of modern practices, such as smoking, watching television, or driving a car, none of which were in existence…
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I do believe in the statement that all women attracted to Jerks and are always “Just Friends” with the lonely nice guys. Why this statement is true has most of us nice guys dumfounded. This is the reason why we…
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Yes – I do believe in soul mates and I know I found mine once upon a time. I wish, more than anything, that I could find him and have a relationship with him. I really like the truth behind…
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It’s not you, it’s me. I really don’t know where to begin. I’m not sure you want to hear this but I feel that it’s something I need to say. I know that I’ve hurt you and I still think…
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Love and lust. They often go together and are just as often worlds apart. Traditionally, men have been more able to lust heartily without loving at all. Women have traditionally been less willing to indulge their lust without at least…
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Are you struggling to find your Perfect Match? Has it occurred to you that maybe you’re looking for the wrong thing? We’re all brought up on a diet of romantic movies and soap operas, which teach us that our perfect…
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I have been with my husband 6 years but we have been married for a year and one month. Pleasing my man is simple becuase I have just the right moves. I commence with massage while I kiss him on…
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Love and lust are two different things but many people never learn what that difference is. Because of this people think they are in love with someone when actually they have been feeling only lust; a powerful emotion but purely…
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Whether you are sixteen or eighty-seven, having a positive dating experience depends entirely upon two factors: The compatibility of the people involved, and their comfort level. Compatibility is an equal opportunity crap-shoot. The possibility of finding yourself on a date…
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TRUE LOVE IS REALLY BLIND For love be true it must be blind. For love to be blind it means the vessel through which it flows refuses or chooses not to see undesirable features of their object of affection. These…
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When two people find each other in this whirling mass of DNA called humanity, one has to wonder what it is that makes one person stand out over the rest of the revelers in the mosh pit. Is it the…
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Unmarried couples who are into a serious relationship have a tendency to give each other money. When they go out on a date, it is usually determined who will pick up the tab. When birthdays come along, sometimes jewelry or…
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Long-Distance Relationship: How Strong Is Your Rope? All relationships have their ups and downs as they are forced through a metaphorical obstacle course. A relationship is strengthened by the hardships it survives, and if it continues to thrive after enduring…
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There are certainly many reasons why people cheat on their partners, regardless of whether the person doing the cheating is the man or the woman. Being humans with feelings, both men and women are just as prone to cheating and…
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After going out with a girl for a month I get a text message saying… we need to talk about something serious. I call her up to find out that for 3 weeks of our relationship she had been flirting…
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I had written an article in 2004 for this website.  After many years I had forgotten that it was posted and I sent an email to have it taken down.  They refused to take down my article, even after I…
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Unconditional Love And Trust Do we really want to live not trusting anyone completely? My biggest regret in this life is that I spent the first half of my life loving and trusting conditionally. I only invited people into my “inner…
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Part 1: How to get the man you want Challenge him to win you over. Men’s insecurities usually are about being in power. Men want to feel like the Alpha male in a situation – even if they aren’t. Set…
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Is May of 2007 my friend Jonathan told me he knew a guy I really needed to meet. I was skeptical of course. Obviously something was wrong with this guy if Jonathan was trying to hook us up. He told…
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Love. Four letters that people search their lives to find. Four letters that will move a person to jump impossible hurdles, fly without wings, and run without a destination. Four letters that bring consequences, that welcome pain, and embrace disappointment….
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OK. so I’m not a guy. Hear me out, being married twice to guys and spending two years single and dating between the marriages qualifies me to offer some sage advice here. My grandmother used to say, “You should not…
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My Forever Soul Mate I am living proof that soul mates exist because I’ve been with my own most of my life. He came into the world same month and year that I was born. It was destiny waiting to…
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We love movie-love. We love to watch John Cusack standing outside his girl’s window with a boombox over his head, or standing in the rain begging for his girl to take him back. We love to watch Tom Hanks and…
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Dating and Wind Shear Recovery A week or so ago I wrote about an aviation event called “Wind Shear” and its applicability to relationships. For brevity, Wind Shear is an abrupt and sometimes unanticipated change in wind direction. If you…
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Listen up ladies,this is a pleasant way to please your man.Step #1 Change into some silky red or black panties,preferable with matching bra.#2 Cover up with a silk robe to hide the tasty surprise,plus a silk robe is a very…
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